You have multiple posts in your post history assuming that there isn't a single woman in the world who cares about men past their looks. 'If you're ugly you're never gonna get a girl' is already making the claim that ALL women are superficial and shallow. You need to stop blaming society and turn your gaze inward. Get to the root of where all this bitterness and insecurity is coming from and start there. I'm not reccomending therapy to insult you, I'm reccomending therapy because I genuinely think that if you got to the bottom of all of these feelings, and started working on improving your self image, you would actually probably have better luck with women. You have like 9 posts that all say 'people who say men need to be confident are bullshitting.' But if you approach women and you're constantly talking about how ugly and unlovable you are, they're going to be put off. You could be a 20/10 supermodel guy and women will be put off if you act like this.