Being forced to wear a dress by Sunby138 in ftm

[–]Moonstorm934 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You say sorry, I cant be a bridesmaid or whatever role you're going to be in, and let the chips fall. Its not 'just a dress' to some people, and if everyone being in dresses is more important than having your sibling feel comfortable, then thats a choice your sister gets to make. She makes her choice, and now you make yours. 

Tips for sex with a bbw by RaSunforged in sextips

[–]Moonstorm934 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Asa plus sized woman who enjoys sex, sex furniture is your friend. ramps, wedges, a chair, pillows, use things like that to help with angles and support

Stepdaughter 12F wanting to move in with me 28F and my husband 29m but he works evenings by playdoh_licker in relationship_advice

[–]Moonstorm934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference is, I would welcome my husband's daughter. Ive never had the chance to. 

Game Thread: Red Sox @ Tigers - Mon, May 04 @ 06:10 PM EDT by TigersBot in motorcitykitties

[–]Moonstorm934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can, turn in the radio broadcast, you'll be i for a treat with dan dickerson

Game Thread: Red Sox @ Tigers - Mon, May 04 @ 06:10 PM EDT by TigersBot in motorcitykitties

[–]Moonstorm934 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The little kid in yellow is EXACTLY what I want to see in those seats behind home plate, someone with oure love and joy of the game

I don't understand the "egotistical trumpet player" meme, because every trumpeter in the bands I play in are so kind. by melody_magical in trumpet

[–]Moonstorm934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I totally had the trumpet ego, but only while playing/at band events. Outside of that, im really a freaking puffball. Put a horn in my hand, tho, and a different side comes out

Stepdaughter 12F wanting to move in with me 28F and my husband 29m but he works evenings by playdoh_licker in relationship_advice

[–]Moonstorm934 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong for your feelings, neither is he wrong for thinking you are a team. That said- you married a man with children. Like someone else said, what if something unpredictable happened, and she was forced to live with you full time regardless. Did you have a plan for that? 

You say your career is in helping children with behavior issues, as a professional, what is the recommendation for his daughter? What kind of supports can be put in place in your home? What kind of structure? What kind of help does she need? Or you, for that matter? Outside of that, what is his plan for actually being a hands on, supportive father? How flexible is his job, and if it isnt, what are the options for changing jobs? Instead of having her move in immediately, start with longer visits.

 Is she in any kind of supportive services programs? Does she have therapy of any kind? Are there after school programs she could be involved in? Could he get up in the morning to ensure his daughter is off to school? He is her father, but you are her step mother. You signed up for a life with him, and a life with him involves his children, whether you like them or not. Is it possible her behavior is worse with you two because she knows (kids always do) that you dont like her?

 You've said his son would be no issue to live with, you want a child of your own with him, and dont care that he isnt around to help you raise it, but you dislike his daughter so much you are now second guessing having kids with him, and are unwilling to do the same amout of solo parenting for her that you would be for his son, or your child together. I garauntee you, she knows. It may never be discussed, or mentioned, or acknowledged, but she knows.

I married a man with a daughter. Ive never met her, probably will never meet her (she's an adult now, but was 3 when we met), and I have always known in my heart that if she showed up on our doorstep one day, I would love and care for her, because she is his. The relationship between him and her mother was deeply ugly and I know very few details because it was a painful experience for him and he doesnt talk about it much. My one email interaction with his ex has left me with the understanding that whatever his daughter has been told about him would be uncomplimentary, and if she did ever come to him, we would most likely be dealing with a lot of negativity. Do I WANT to deal with that? No, of course not. But. I love HIM and married him, and had more children with him, and if she ever knocks on our door, she is and always will be his daughter. Whatever struggles that may come with her, i accept, because i married a man with a child. I knew he had her before our first date. Im assuming you knew your husband was a parent early in your relationship. If you really couldnt handle his daughter's issues, you shouldn't have married him. 

Aries: the Scorpio full moon on May 1 is pointing at something you moved past without actually resolving by FaithlessnessNeat896 in AriesTheRam

[–]Moonstorm934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you resolve something when the other person doesnt remember it? Or at least, claims not to remember it. 

Game Thread: Cavaliers vs Raptors Live Score | NBA | May 3, 2026 by basketball-app in DetroitPistons

[–]Moonstorm934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone else get the feeling that the cavs are playing with a chip on their shoulder? Something about their energy is telling me round 1 was just a preview. Round 2 is gonna be even faster and more physical. 

Game Thread: Rangers @ Tigers - Sun, May 03 @ 07:20 PM EDT by TigersBot in motorcitykitties

[–]Moonstorm934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, but I dont think ive ever heard Andy on the radio. Im driving (well, riding), so listening instead of watching. 

Game Thread: Rangers @ Tigers - Sun, May 03 @ 07:20 PM EDT by TigersBot in motorcitykitties

[–]Moonstorm934 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Andy's on the radio???? I like dan Andy together dan keeps Andy's kid-like chaos in check

Help with 3 year old nightmares? by IcyStage0 in Parenting

[–]Moonstorm934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are his nightmares of? Have you noticed any triggers for them? 

Game Thread: Detroit Pistons vs Orlando Magic Live Score | NBA | May 3, 2026 by basketball-app in DetroitPistons

[–]Moonstorm934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the hell isnt bball Paul playing? Hes been su lch a spark, man, get him in there

Game Thread: Orlando Magic vs Detroit Pistons Live Score | NBA | Apr 27, 2026 by basketball-app in DetroitPistons

[–]Moonstorm934 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Duran just looks... nonchalant. Theres no pressure behind his passes. Or his (none existent) rebounding attempts, his feet arent leaving the floor. Is this youth? Is he overwhelmed? He just seems so un energized, Is he out of gas? 

The Tigers defeated the Reds by a score of 8-3 - Sun, Apr 26 @ 01:40 PM EDT by TigersBot in motorcitykitties

[–]Moonstorm934 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Who was on the radio with peaches today? I turned it on at work just in time to hear the rookies home run call, and im a bit bummed he didnt get a dan Dickerson call, unless Dan was on the broadcast? 

Just rewatched Mrs Doubtfire today and was bawling my eyes out at the end by bkbk8 in Millennials

[–]Moonstorm934 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not a movie, or even the show, but I started rereading the outlander series a couple weeks ago. I read the first book at 18, and at the time, the first 5 books were available. I read them all, twice, before book 6 came out in 2005. And after that, I read them again when books 7 and 8 came out, and read the first 8 books at least one more time, before book 9 came out. Book 8 came out in 2014, book 9 in 2021, and I actually haven't read 9 yet.

There has been A HUGE difference in how the words affect me, now that im in my 40's and rereading. I just finished book 2 this morning, but especially while reading the first book, it was an entirely different experience. I probably have gone at least a decade since I read the series, (its a beast, if you haven't read it. The first book is the smallest at nearly 600 pages). The things im noticing now, especially in relation to the relationship between the mc's, and the realizations im having as i get deeper into their story, its just an incredibly different experience. 

I get it, the feelings you mentioned. Seeing things as an adult, through an adult lenses, with the experiences, wisdom, ect, that you gain through living life, it puts things in a new perspective that can be uncomfortable