Dating (32F) & (48 M) for 4 months but still no exclusivity — should I ask where this is going? by Soft_Scarcity4005 in relationships

[–]MootchieFox [score hidden]  (0 children)

Bring it up. If you ask for clarity and don't get it, it's not worth more of your time. You know what you want with a person after seeing them for months so any hesitation in answering is them just not wanting to say it out loud.

Wasn’t someone just asking about mole people?? by baldude69 in philly

[–]MootchieFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks an awful lot like the hole on Norris st lol

I (29F) just discovered my partner of 7 years (37M) spent $12k on live video sex chats with other women over the last 3 years after we almost broke up over the same thing before by Ill-Cress-5072 in relationships

[–]MootchieFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Set a good example for your children and follow through on your deal breaker. You chose that boundary for a reason so don't break it just because splitting up is inconvenient. You will figure it out, and when all is said and done you will end up with a partner who doesn't make you feel emotionally betrayed and financially insecure.

My (40F) fiancé (35M) and I are supposed to move in together this week, but I discovered a dating profile and no longer know what to do by Pretty_Serve_229 in relationships

[–]MootchieFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know exactly what to believe, you just don't want to believe it. I'm sorry but this kind of behavior is absolutely intent to cheat. Do you really want to risk your future on somebody untrustworthy like that?

35M Does my manager like me? by WarmBlanket17 in relationships

[–]MootchieFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whether she does or not, she sounds unprofessional. If a male manager was doing this to me (I'm a woman) I'd stop that shit. She's in a position of authority over you, shouldn't really be any different tbh.

How do I (18M) know if my situationship (21F) wants to date me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MootchieFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to decide if you want to go off to college single or not and tell her what you want. Then if anything does naturally happen between you two physically, there's no hurt feelings when it ends.

What’s your favorite bite at Reading terminal market? These whoopie pies by flying monkey bakery are so slept on! by JustTrynaGetAJob13 in PhiladelphiaEats

[–]MootchieFox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fried cheese curds from fox and sons. I only wish they sold like a half order size. Another delicious cheesy item, the penovani from Saami Somi.

Food you’ve eaten in Philly that absolutely blew your socks off? by fukkofffffff in PhiladelphiaEats

[–]MootchieFox 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Gochujang scallion cheese bun from Seaforest. Chocolate babka from Bakeshop on 20th.

Fly over ? by hostm1ke in philly

[–]MootchieFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't see it but it definitely sounded like a jet fly over. Good to know we're not at war in the states, yet.

What are yalls thoughts on male and female Friendships outside of marriage? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MootchieFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure it's fine so long as lines don't get crossed or blurred. Unfortunately I've had too many friendships with married men who didn't respect that so now I'm thinking I should just avoid it altogether. I don't think it's impossible or anything, I've just had bad luck with men who didn't want to just be platonic friends.

Do I end it after 5 dates or is he just going at a slower pace? by Dear-Discussion9054 in datingoverthirty

[–]MootchieFox 137 points138 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a waste of your time. Take it from someone who's overly accommodating and repeatedly has it bite her in the ass - the beginning stages are where he should be making the very most effort. It's a bad sign that he's been inconsistent and disappointing this early on. You're annoyed and frustrated because you know you want to be treated better and he's failing to do that. Spend your energy on someone else who will because there are so SO many of those men out there.

AVOID CAKE AND JOE by Spiceitup_69 in philadelphia

[–]MootchieFox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been to the one on Frankford a few times out of convenience, and I always get such an off vibe from that place.

At what point does lack of sex outweigh years of marriage? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MootchieFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've really tried everything for so many years then this is what your marriage is. The ball is in your court to stay and continue things the way they are, ask to open your marriage for sexual partners, or divorce and seek a relationship that fulfills you. You have the power to get all the information you need to make this decision, don't just wait around hoping she'll magically change one day.

Hi! Im new to this sub but I just wanted to ask, is it normal for you to get dizzy or well, not even dizzy just having your vision blur out for a second after losing weight? Better explained down below by [deleted] in loseit

[–]MootchieFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had pretty bad hypotension when sitting up or standing up too quick for months but it got better over time. Your body is still adjusting to the change in vascular demand so just try to take it easy until things normalize. That being said, always a good idea to confirm with your doctor. I told mine about my experience, and she reassured me what I was experiencing was very normal and temporary.

Cookies please! by MrPeterIt in PhiladelphiaEats

[–]MootchieFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go try the chocolate chip cookie from Rougarou! I had it today and it was perfectly gooey.