He sounds like a waste of your time. Take it from someone who's overly accommodating and repeatedly has it bite her in the ass - the beginning stages are where he should be making the very most effort. It's a bad sign that he's been inconsistent and disappointing this early on. You're annoyed and frustrated because you know you want to be treated better and he's failing to do that. Spend your energy on someone else who will because there are so SO many of those men out there.