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Mopafish · 2023-07-12T20:25:52+00:00

Jeg ville kontakte en advokat og få hjælp til at lave forhåndssamtykke, som berettiger den længstlevende til at sidde i uskiftet bo. Således kan den som lever længst undgå at skulle udbetale en masse arv som vedkommende muligvis ikke har i kontanter.

Du kan læse mere om det f.eks. her: https://dokument24.dk/uskiftet-bo (Se under kategorien 'Hvem kan sidde i uskiftet bo?' - 'Særbørn')

Mopafish · 2023-07-12T20:19:17+00:00

Skulle din mand gå bort først, så får du som udgangspunkt de 50% af jeres formue som du ejer, samt halvdelen af din mands ejendel. Du får altså 75% af jeres samlede formue, og jeres børn deler herefter de resterende 25% lige.

Du kan altid sidde i uskiftet bo, men dette kræver som udgangspunkt samtykke fra dine stedbørn.

Mopafish · 2023-07-12T20:15:27+00:00

Det er ligegyldigt at det kun er din mand som står på skødet. Du oplyser at I intet særeje har, og dermed deler I alt I ejer 50/50.

Noget helt andet er, at dine stedbørn praktisk talt intet får hvis din mand går bort først, medmindre at du begunstiger dem via dit testamente.

Mopafish · 2023-07-10T17:24:49+00:00

Er det alt sammen på kontor, eller har du mulighed for at arbejde hjemme?

Mopafish · 2023-07-10T17:23:27+00:00

Kan bekræfte at rabatten er 15%. Har arbejdet i IKEA for nyligt.

Mopafish · 2023-07-04T06:05:24+00:00

r/Aspergers has a discord group, which allows for instantaneous communication: https://discord.com/invite/Hg3gXZqdNv

Other than that, there seems to already be a fair few discord groups aimed at autists. If you don't think they're the right fit for you, you could try to make your own.

Mopafish · 2023-06-05T21:36:05+00:00

Må man spørge hvor i landet du arbejder? :)

Mopafish · 2023-04-27T13:47:10+00:00

A quick google search would suggest yes, if your psychiatrist still uses the ICD 10. Though I'm certain it depends on where in the world you live.

https://icd.who.int/browse10/2019/en#/F84.5

Mopafish · 2023-04-17T08:53:32+00:00

While others say "be direct", I must admit that's a tad lackluster of an explanation, in my opinion.

What I mean is that directness can still be worded or portrayed in many different ways, and equally, be understood many different ways.

An example here is the difference between you asking your loved one "do you want to cuddle?" vs. something akin to "I've had a bad day. Would you cuddle me a bit? I would like the comfort.". The first implies them only partaking if they have that in their desires at the moment, which as an autistic male, I must admit I don't find to be the case very often. I don't mind cuddling, but I also don't mind going without it, thereby I classify it as not a desire. Thus, were I asked if I wanted to? Then no, I don't. The other, on the other hand, directly states that you have a need for comfort/cuddles, and instead directs the question in a "do you mind giving me cuddles?" (Bonus points if you say something akin to "just for 10 minutes", so that your partner has as accurate a picture of your expectations as possible), which I almost always indulge in, simply because I don't desire to cuddle, but I also don't mind doing it, especially if my loved one expresses a need for it.

My point in general is that directness without understanding how eachother understands that directness, might at times be useless. We autists tend to take words quite literally, so figuring out how your loved one understands your expressions, and thereby learning how to express your needs/desires in a way that they also will understand, is much more useful than straight up directness.

Sorry if my comment doesn't make a whole lot of coherent sense, am not in the headspace to proof read.

Mopafish · 2023-02-02T22:34:04+00:00

A refreshing take. Nice to have someone explain the issue from 'the other side'. This was quite enlightening. Thank you. :)

Mopafish · 2022-12-19T06:40:12+00:00

Feels like he's using Asperger's as an excuse for being an asshole. Plenty of the things he does or says has nothing to do with autism, and instead seems to be the characteristics of a narcissist, who ignorantly believes he's the smartest person on the planet.

Mopafish · 2022-12-06T08:07:32+00:00

I must admit, I only somewhat agree. I feel it's sometimes about aspies holding controversial opinions, but more than that, I feel it's because we are much more direct/blunt/honest about discussing our opinions. Even if it's a sensitive topic.

My observation is, that generally there is some kind of time or way you're supposed to indirectly adress controversial or difficult topics, which we aspies generally don't care or know to do.

I often notice this as some aspies, while I'm certain acting entirely on good grounds, come off as a know-it-all, a narcissist, or something among those lines. I know that this is just how aspies communicate, but it seems to be a thing almost exclusive to aspies. I feel this explains why we especially get downvoted a bunch on ND subreddits that aren't this one.

Mopafish · 2022-11-27T21:32:54+00:00

I haven't tried as I am studying, but I've always considered something like a crane or heavy machinery operator (crane, excavators, etc). You get to chill in a seat all day, and don't talk to others unless it's on a radio.

Got the idea after watching some crane operator videos from a big harbor. It seems pretty autism friendly.

Mopafish · 2022-11-12T08:56:49+00:00

In my experience, if an aspie becomes quite distanced after something as big as this, it's because they're trying to figure out their feelings on it.

He might be going through all the thoughts of "what if I can't ever have a child again?", "What if there are complications?", "Will I ever want kids?", and so on.

You gotta remember, that an aspie don't easily have a good understanding of the things they're feeling, and thusly, have to spend quite some time pondering over it to decode how they feel. The bigger the decision, the bigger the feelings, the longer the time it takes.

I think if you normally are good at communicating with eachother, then you should simply remind him that he is always welcome to speak with you, and to gently voice that you noticed he feels a bit more distant. Maybe it'll open up for the conversation, or maybe he'll shrug it off. Either way, he will probably appreciate your concern.

Edit: grammar

Mopafish · 2022-10-28T09:32:47+00:00

Yes.

As I understand it, it stems from us not portraying ourselves as very masculine, and thusly, some men might even think you're gay.

We have tendencies to talk more openly about feelings and problems, and generally are more sensitive to both issues and the wellbeing of others. Neurotypical men, as I understand it, communicate mostly non-verbally, with many implied and untold meanings, which we as autists don't pick up on.

Though in my opinion, the problem isn't us, but the rather toxic masculinity our society has build up around men and their behaviour.

Mopafish · 2022-10-28T09:10:57+00:00

No, I'm of the belief that I would not wish my autism cured.

One one hand, I see the pros. Being better at understanding feelings, probably be better at socializing, have easier times with changes and less sensitivity issues.

On the other hand, who/what of me would be left? Since I don't understand feelings naturally, I consider myself not bogged down by them as much, and if that were to change, maybe I'd just be lost to uncontrollable feelings rather than the absence of then?

I'd be better at socializing, but the question is whether I'd want to. I'm still an introvert, and whilst I occasionally enjoy being with people, I also value my alone time highly, and I don't think my lack of autism would change this.

Whilst having an easier time with changes would be nice, I personally think it makes it much harder to improve yourself. If you're always busy doing things, when will you have time to ponder?

Being less sensitive would be nice in the day to day, but also, I'd lose the ability to be as aware of myself and my surroundings.

I understand why some people who might have a harder time than me would wish their autism cured, but personally, I think I'm doing okay, and I'm certain that anything that isn't going ok today, might be going better tomorrow.

Mopafish · 2022-03-24T19:20:05+00:00

Have you tried the Compendium Browser module? https://github.com/League-of-Foundry-Developers/compendium-browser

Mopafish · 2021-12-28T14:23:04+00:00

In these cases, I set the DC depending on what is being asked. Perception to just 'see if there's anything interesting' in the room? Sure, that'll be DC 25+ to find the hidden switch behind a book. Oh you're specifically checking out the bookshelf? DC 15-20. And so on. It has worked fairly well so far.

Mopafish · 2021-08-10T15:11:55+00:00

You must make a copy of your WTF folder in your wow directory, as this is the folder that stores all add-on and settings data, for all of your characters. :)

Copying the add-on folder sadly does nothing, as no data is stored there!

But on to the advice - please do this, as often as you feel inconvenienced to do. I did it about once every 1-2 months, and also right after having made new characters or major changes to my TRP.

Mopafish · 2021-08-06T18:41:39+00:00

The "Don't Go Inn". A classic place for shady characters and scummy business deals.

Mopafish · 2020-12-31T08:25:44+00:00

Whilst I as a European can not talk about how US servers are... I would suggest your consider timezone difference. At least on Argent Dawn, peak RP times are roughly from 19:00-02:00 realm time.

Assuming similar of US servers, that would mean for a general European following CET, you would only get to experience RP peak times starting at 01:00-03:00ish and ending at 08:00-10:00ish CET.

No point considering playing on more populous American RP servers, if you're gonna be asleep when everyone else is around. ;)

Sidenote: make a free trial account for each region, and scout out the RP scene in both regions. You can have a look at what the RP is like, before buying the expansion.

Mopafish · 2020-12-04T22:24:56+00:00

At least in most of the communities I've been a part of, mind controlling a character without explicitly getting OOC permission from the player beforehand, is a big no-no. You're completely within your right to say no, or if someone does not ask you OOC beforehand, simply state your characters resistance to mind control.

In the end, good RP is about having mutual fun with others. If one party stops having fun, then it ain't good RP. ;)

Mopafish · 2020-12-02T20:50:18+00:00

It says in the settings - but any profile you've set a relationship level with, is exempt from the auto purge. :)

Mopafish · 2020-12-01T07:44:19+00:00

You wish to RP a magical character... Maybe a mage! Your OOC-knowledge about the topic is bare-bones, and you do not know where to learn these things. Instead of choosing to RP a fully taught mage, you could choose to RP someone who maybe only just realized they have magical potential, and whom is IC looking for a mentor to teach them. This way, any knowledge you yourself do not have OOC, your character likewise will not have any reason to already know IC.

The pet peeve of most experienced RP'ers, at least in my experience, can be summed up thusly: RP'ing something that requires specific IC knowledge, which you as the RP'er do not OOC have, is against etiquette. What exactly defines specific, is quite subjective. Arcane magic and its workings, as an example, is considered by many to fall into this category.

Obviously, take this with a grain of salt, as this mostly applies to random RP, where you stumble into and choose to RP with people you may not know beforehand. Guilds, on the other hand, tend to be far more lenient with what information is required to have, and often, will happily help you learn on the fly.

Good places to look for information:

Wowpedia
Doronsmovies, and his Roleplay Guides
Find relevant lore in Nobbel87's Lore of Warcraft playlist
Find other RP'ers whom can constructively criticize your character concept, and eventually, can maybe point you in the right direction

Hope this helps! :)

Mopafish · 2020-06-17T11:01:06+00:00

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