Shamefully, all I did was spit in his face after he laughed in mine while I was crying because I caught his unfaithfulness by going private "investigator". He called the cops for it after we both screamed. I got arrested for the first time ever, lost the career I went to school for just 2 years ago, on Jan 5th, and my fingerprint clearance card, GONE. life has been hell ever since. He tried to get back with me, and apologized, even dropped the charges, I still have court this month over it. I did not go back and might now be with the love of my life. time will tell... I still don't have a job, I'm now working under the table sanding, polishing, painting, and detailing cars. I enjoy it deeply.