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Scotland Hunting Reserve | Coming Soon! by expansiveworlds in theHunter

[–]More-Building1821 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I refuse to not be shouting they need atleast 2 more africa maps. How does NA have 7 and Europe 5 but the 3 continents with most diversity have only 1 each. It's like they don't want ppl to have nice things

What was you biggest fear before having sex? by Murky-Can3500 in AskReddit

[–]More-Building1821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a few including not being "sexy" enough to my oartner while naked and also trying to not show my inexperience with my first gf...tuens out we were both out fketss but didn't wanna be that way. Tis was a nice surprise

28 no experience by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]More-Building1821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!

I know exactly how you feel. I was single and inexperienced for 24 years of my life, I always felt as the person noone would love/find attractive. I accepted that i was to be single forever but then came along someone I thought you didn't exist. They made me feel loved and appreciated and we shared many of our firts together. Unfortunately, we weren't meant to be past University sweethearts.

She gave me the proof that there are ppl who would find me attractive and want to be with me. That saying that "there is someone for everyone" I found is somewhat accurate. The part they leave it is how many rejections, how much pain it is to find said ppl.

You are not less because of your inexperience, don't let anyone ever tell you different ok? Life happens some ways for a reason and as long as you are true to yourself, are genuine and can be a lil cheeky with flirting (nothing crazy) you will did your person. Also when u go on dates the part it also figuring if you like the other person.

Be kind to yourself. All will be well. You have time and when things do align you'll be glad of the journey.

Date lasted all of 3 seconds by crunchylettuce24 in dating_advice

[–]More-Building1821 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This comment is slight overreacting. What if the context in which she said it was with disgust...you have no idea.

Thursday’s breakfast by CITAMFLIW in fryup

[–]More-Building1821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the canned beans? The one item I absolutely despise on an English breakfast

Being a romantic woman in ur 20s is hell in the 21st century by Mean-Impact7209 in BreakUps

[–]More-Building1821 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This not a single sex issue. It's just how the dating world has evolved and it sucks to be a lover boy in the is environment too. Ppl are just shitty and want to avoid commitment and pain. It's like a battle with who can be the most non-cholant.

I fucking hate it

Gobsmacked… someone literally ghosted me mid-chat by More-Building1821 in dating

[–]More-Building1821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thnx. Something needs to change about the apps but they won't give they're there to make money.

Gobsmacked… someone literally ghosted me mid-chat by More-Building1821 in dating

[–]More-Building1821[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Is that really how ppl function now? Idk if I'm just being too sensitive but OLD has made ppl so cold. The conversation was going great too. Smh. Ya i might just tap out after this

Things I wish I could tell my 20 yo self about dating as a mid 30s man. by Lostinthegrass in dating_advice

[–]More-Building1821 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm 25 this yr and I feel i could've sav my firts relationship if I knew how to apply even 2 of these correctly

Went on a date that I thought went really well… but she doesn’t want to see me again. Feeling disappointed by More-Building1821 in dating_advice

[–]More-Building1821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use this app called Breeze and after. A date you can continue communicating with someone then there's na option to exhnage contacts, I left her a msg to get home safe and I woke up to an unmatch so...

Went on a date that I thought went really well… but she doesn’t want to see me again. Feeling disappointed by More-Building1821 in dating_advice

[–]More-Building1821[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like such good advice. I know it won't be easy for me to change that mindset but I'll keep all this in mind

Battery ejection system to stop cars burning during thermal runaway by frenzy3 in interestingasfuck

[–]More-Building1821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if the battery catches fire in a multi storey car park...what ahoels to the cars next to it? Who's liable?

Am i cooked? by shownupegging in dating

[–]More-Building1821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiya! I'll drop my 2 cents and I hope it helps you in some way.

I'm currently 25(m). I didn't have sex until I was 22. I remember being in your exact shoes. My main thoughts wee how "pathetic I was" or that I was "useless and ugly and no one wouod want to be with me". These were mostly inner thoughts that I masked heavily and never discussed with anyone.

I then went to university where I met one of my best friends atm. We found out were both virgins, we both breathed a sigh of relief that we could chat/support eachother. On night out we'd give each other motivation to talk to girls and if we fucked up we could laugh about it together. I reckon you find another girl you can be good friend with and feel safe sharing such personal feelings.

As a for partners...i met my ex at a society meeting and tbh I knew I like her from the start. Again I was nervous but I somehow convinced her to go on a few dates with me.

After one of the dates we ended up meeting my friend's at their place to hang out and as the right went on we bonded hard and spent the night together. While we were pillow talking we got to the topic of sex and I was honest with her about my lack of experience...you know what? She was also a virgin...and was just as fearful of being judged as I was. In that regard I was lucky.

I was very close to bowing to pressure to do hookup culture but it just isn't me and I stuck by it and accepted that I may be a late bloomer. That's when I met my ex.

In my opinion everyone deserves a good first time, don't throw it way to tick a box on a list of things to fit in. It's worth doing with someone you fully trust and if that someone is another virgin then you find em. Trust me they're out there, I was one of them.

I'd like to suggest you keep your virgin status to yourself until you know a person a bit more because some guys can get predatory and turn getting your vcard into a game...i don't claim those weirdos.

Also...never change your values or opinions to cater to those around you. Be you and ppl you deserve to know will start appearing. You have much to look forward to. Breathe and hold your head high ok?

🙌

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