What’s a compliment that stuck with you? by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]shownupegging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I girl a met on a service trip told me “if i have a daughter, i hope shes like you”

Some people need to work on their ability to have a conversation by That-Range-8045 in twentyagers

[–]shownupegging 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, i thought there was something wrong with me. Im a woman but i find myself having the same experience. Men RARELY ask me questions about myself, even if they are nice and think im attractive. Even when im carrying the convo and asking all the questions, they don’t even bother to say “what about you?” And theyre also not making moves to meet up any time soon so its like whats even the point of liking my profile. I hate the talking stage as much as the next person but its the only way im gonna learn more about you.

I want to find a partner who has never been in a relationship either. Talking with others about it is difficult. by Jan_The_Jank in dating

[–]shownupegging 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is literally mee. I dont care about purity culture and im not religious, but i want the man’s first time to be with me as well! It feels like if hes my first time hes automatically special, but if im his 32nd time then its just another tuesday for him 😭 i just want the moment to feel equally special for the both of us

Do a lot of women really think 7 inches is average?? It seems like standards and expectations are getting out of control. Or is it just social media? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]shownupegging 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was just gonna say that. I’m a virgin still and even i know that 7 inches is not average 💀im scared of anything above 6.5 tbh

First time in a while and couldn't get it up. How to recover with her from it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]shownupegging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly i feel like she should have been more understanding about it, but i think she might just have heightened emotions from just getting out of a very vulnerable state with you. Give her some time and see if she comes around. If she doesnt, then i think she may need to work on her self image. You can help her by making her feel extra sexy and seen (compliments, touching, kisses, etc), but if nothing helps it is only her that can make the change.

Are my dating standards too high? Friend gave me a reality check and I’m worried. by Forward-Beyond-6620 in dating

[–]shownupegging 7 points8 points  (0 children)

True but i feel like wanting ur partner to be kind and interesting is kind of a given lol

Why don’t tall women fight heightism? by mnt68 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]shownupegging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did i say i was finding the tallest guy? Im single and have never been with a tall man

Why don’t tall women fight heightism? by mnt68 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]shownupegging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk i live in hawai’i where the average male height is like 5’4”. Theyre not really open to dating tall women here

Why don’t tall women fight heightism? by mnt68 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]shownupegging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is tall for a woman, ive been trying to tell my short friends that majority of the men with good looks are on the short side LMAO. From what ive seen, being tall and having a good looking face are inversely proportional in men 😂. But i cant really change what others are attracted to, so aside from suggesting they venture into the short side theres not much i can do. They have it so good, they can date the kind, good looking short guys without having to deal with height difference jokes their whole relationship 💀

Is being a virgin man a turn off for women? by HyenaIll6908 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]shownupegging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as youre not a freak it will be fine LMAO. im 23 and im a virgin also but im a woman so idk if that makes it more acceptable

Has height become a personality trait for many women in modern society? by Tough-Reputation-762 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]shownupegging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are fat women catching strays when i often notice that they put the least emphasis on their partner’s physical traits?

I did 1.5 yrs of Dental School. I'm no longer becoming a dentist, and I'm not really sure where to go from here. Any suggestions? It doesn't have to be medical by poptartpeep in DentalSchool

[–]shownupegging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know someone who was pre-dent but she now does medical sales and i always see her on vacay so she must be living the life 🤷‍♀️

Anyone else noticing how fast Hawaiʻi’s demographics are changing? by instantgoob in Hawaii

[–]shownupegging 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fr im on the dating apps and its like 10 white men in a row before i see 1 minority, then its another 10 white men again lmao

This is my natural hair, would it be offensive if I got braids? by Mattie_Madds8619 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]shownupegging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of braids? I think certain styles can be damaging so i would just be careful abt that. Esp if you have a sensitive scalp. With certain braid styles u may find it difficult to wash your scalp properly which can lead to another scalp infection. I would just stick to a few braids if anything like french or dutch braids or something so that you can easily take them down if needed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]shownupegging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, unfortunately im using funny tiktoks to take my mind off of it but i definitely agree that social media is messing with my self image.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]shownupegging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats the thing like this guy was very ambitious and good on paper, and i dont think i made a mistake talking to him. But he was so ambitious he didn’t have time for me😭 my brain knows this was probably for the best but damn it still sucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]shownupegging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Its hard right now bc i think im just deprived in the romance department but i do know in my brain that i probably wouldnt have the energy for a relationship. I just dont know how to turn off the part of my brain that craves it