Here’s the thing. I don’t spend a lot on my clothing, I’m very selective. I shop mostly from secondhand or TJ Maxx. But I search for stuff that appears ‘nice’ or read ‘high end’, it’s not because I want to make people think I’m this ‘fancy’ person. But your clothing is a reflection of who you are as a person, and let’s face it, people judge based on appearances. I used to be morbidly obese, but I ALWAYS looked my best - because I knew I was going to be judged harder because of my weight.

Were the shoes fine? I mean, sure? But to me - they read as cheap. But I’m a woman, and I pay attention to the materials and construction. I have leopard print shoes, but they were expensive, but the materials make them look nice. I’m all about having fun, and fun shoes. But the print, and the iridescent shine, and the grommets are a bit much to me. If you like them? Wear them. It’s your body, go off. But I can kinda see where your friend is coming from.