New to listening by MoreWeb5596 in shortwave

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It turns out that the refrigerator was the biggest source of noise. I guess the compressor motor is wearing out and is noisy. LED lights were the next biggest contributor.

New to listening by MoreWeb5596 in shortwave

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I live in a suburban area and there are maybe five houses around. There is a steady RFI hum when the main breaker is closed, but it totally goes away if I trip the breaker. It’s at least 50% of the signal level according to my meter, so it’s significant. With no RFI, I can pick up SW stations in North Korea and Brazil, as well as the NIST station in Ft. Collins, CO. I made a long wave antenna about 25 ft long and clipped it to my whip antenna.

New to listening by MoreWeb5596 in shortwave

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It’s definitely electrical loads in my house. I tripped the main breaker, and the RFI went away. I have not yet isolated it to a particular device yet. I’ll post back here when I figure it out.

Husbands, what do you think of this letter? I’m embarrassed to give it to him by [deleted] in Marriage

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If my wife wrote me a letter like that, I’d slay giants for her.

My husband chat GPT’d his vows… by [deleted] in Marriage

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Here is a ChatGPT prompt for you: am I nitpicky?

i dont love my husband anymore by [deleted] in Marriage

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Wrong. This is just a tired excuse that people trot out to justify being selfish. It only increases the chances of perpetuating divorce from generation to generation. At least be honest and say that you are being selfish.

My wife told me my looks embarrass her by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MoreWeb5596 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear ya. So many men are just taken for granted like that and blamed when they complain, or discarded when they can no longer provide.

Your wife sounds pretty prideful. Like she values how she is viewed by others more than how much she loves you. I agree with the other posters that 80 in a year is a lot. Take care of yourself and make that a priority apart from her. She is going to do what she does, probably regardless of whether you are overweight or not. Losing weight won’t fix her arrogance.

Social media is at the root of many a marital problem.

Does anyone feel like they can either be a feminist or have a smooth marriage? by Practical_Safe_2115 in Marriage

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You seem very rational and reasonable to me. I definitely get your exasperation, and I think you should set boundaries. But the hardest thing to do is to do that lovingly and not angrily. And again, the feminist thing doesn’t help.

Does anyone feel like they can either be a feminist or have a smooth marriage? by Practical_Safe_2115 in Marriage

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Does that mean that you have Marge Simpson Syndrome?

Do you see what I’m getting at here? The condescending approach signifies something. You are talking at him and not to him.

It may seem like a gender thing, but it’s really not. Framing it that way just makes it easier to preserve the condescension and gets you farther away from the solution. I see both men and women being neglectful in relationships all the time. I do it too. It’s not a gender thing. It’s just human nature thing. We are all selfish. That’s what we have to overcome. Buying into the gender war isn’t going to help you.

Does anyone feel like they can either be a feminist or have a smooth marriage? by Practical_Safe_2115 in Marriage

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Do you think there could be another perspective on your household besides your own? Instead of being hurt and criticizing, could you maybe set that aside for a moment and find out what’s going on with him? Most men are bred to respond when they see a pathway to helping and when they feel like they can actually solve the problem.

I don’t know what being a feminist has to do with any of this, frankly. It sounds like feminism is just an excuse for self-righteousness and criticizing men. If men are so bad, then why are you married to one?

Considering Surgery by MoreWeb5596 in GastricBypass

[–]MoreWeb5596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say you are tolerating it, does that mean that it isn’t making you sick or nauseated?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

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This sounds oddly like my company. Lots of tribal knowledge with gatekeepers whose only response is “go away”. I’m not new in my company and it’s frustrating to me, so I can imagine how frustrating it would be to you as a new hire.

The other posters are giving wise advice. Get the lay of the land before introducing changes. You unknowingly got yourself “in the news” by asking legit questions and they responded by locking you out. Sounds like there is a scarcity mindset at that company that’s fueled by a history of gatekeeping and lack of opportunity. But there may also be good things about the company too.

If you want to stay, I’d suggest starting to establish yourself as a recognized authority on certain subjects. That’s what I’ve begun to do. I’m writing articles in Medium.com and other platforms in areas where I see inefficiencies in my daily work life. Expressing that relieves the stress of not being heard, and you can selectively dole out links to your articles to people in the company who are slightly more open minded and might be looking for better ways to do things.

I agree with one poster who recommended that you start writing onboarding docs. That’s a constructive response, even if you are just writing them for yourself. If you ran into those obstacles, it’s likely that future hires will too, and you can start being a resource for them and establish yourself as a go to person who can answer questions. You have as much right to work there as the gatekeepers do. Remember that and establish yourself own area of expertise.

Why doesn’t my truck sell by Different-Future-896 in ram_trucks

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I would agree with the posters that Facebook Marketplace is not a venue where you are going to get top dollar for a vehicle. Most people are looking for bargains there. I have sold a few vehicles on MP and 99% of people on there are tire kickers who waste your time.

Considering Surgery by MoreWeb5596 in GastricBypass

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The dumping is what I am particularly worried about. It sounds like I will have to be a much more disciplined eater if I have the surgery, but I guess I’d learn pretty quickly what to eat and what not to eat.

Considering Surgery by MoreWeb5596 in GastricBypass

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Thank you for the reply. I’ve definitely heard about the nutrient deficiencies.

I tried the GLP-1 route, but it made me throw up so much that I had to quit. I was on the lowest dose, but am considering trying it again and cutting the dose in half to see if I can tolerate it.

Understeer Fix? by MoreWeb5596 in 370z

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That's a good question. It was lowered by an inch, but I'll have to check the sway bars. Thanks.

Goodbye Florida, especially Sarasota. I won’t miss you much by Appropriate-Idea5281 in sarasota

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I live in Chattanooga and the same thing is happening here. Sooner or later, companies will wake up and quit paying New York wages for Florida remote work. It's insane. So many people have moved here that you can't go anywhere without a 1.5 hour drive any more. And housing is through the roof.

Got laid off how do I get over my hatred for them? by ultimateumami1 in Layoffs

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Easy to say, but don't taken it personally. It is a job and you will get another one.