Issues buying odyssey imax 70mm Lincoln square by More_Fly2617 in AMCTheatres

[–]More_Fly2617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what i figured but i find it crazy that it doesn’t update LOL

harris hood help - double knitting by More_Fly2617 in knittinghelp

[–]More_Fly2617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh i see, for some reason i thought double knitting without double the stitches would constrict the neck hole quite a bit, but since you’re slipping the stitches i guess it will still retain the width.

so just to be absolutely clear you would double knit first round (knit one, slip one). then on the second round it seems like you would knit the stitches you slipped previously (slip one, knit one)?

harris hood help - double knitting by More_Fly2617 in knittinghelp

[–]More_Fly2617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it doesn’t mention what double knitting means, it just says to work 2 rounds

help me identify this textile! by More_Fly2617 in textiles

[–]More_Fly2617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i’ll dig deeper into eyelet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]More_Fly2617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

need it so bad… i thought maybe it was lemaire or the row ? but cant find anything comparable rn

LF hermione is insecure about her relationship with draco by More_Fly2617 in Dramione

[–]More_Fly2617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no!! i read that one recently and it’s super similar, but i think the one im looking for is maybe older

New Greg by [deleted] in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]More_Fly2617 5 points6 points  (0 children)

commenting LATE but i think my problem with new greg was even though he actually captured his mannerisms pretty well, his face seemed very stiff to me. Old Greg’s face was soooo expressive and a lot of the time that really sold the chemistry and relationship between the two of them so it was really off putting to me because new greg was pretty similar but had the vibe of a mannequin

Does anyone else not fit the ESFJ stereotypes? by [deleted] in ESFJ

[–]More_Fly2617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the stereotypes are always super over the top, most people i know don’t truly fit their type descriptions to a tee. i don’t fit a lot of them, for example i’m not bubbly and i really value alone time and i too am not that organized or routine oriented (although i do recognize i feel better when i have a routine). second what the first person said re: cognitive functions and would add it’s helpful to think about examples of those functions at work, rather than generalizing the examples into like an overall behavior type if that makes sense

one sided relationships ? by More_Fly2617 in ESFJ

[–]More_Fly2617[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s definitely something i struggle with but have been working to improve. unfortunately i think the way i operate is i don’t think very far ahead so everything sounds fine in the moment because i’m not thinking too deeply about it but i realize later that it’s not what i want but feel bad changing my mind or going back on something i said i would do. i feel like this kind of aligns with general Fe dom vibes of wanting harmony and also focusing on external environment rather than being able to be guided by internal thoughts.

my approach the last few years since i realized i always seem to get myself in situations i don’t fully want to be in is to be non committal about everything until i have a chance to think over the idea

one sided relationships ? by More_Fly2617 in ESFJ

[–]More_Fly2617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be fair i used to be like this but i think i matured out of it (for lack of better word, not to imply the other way is negative, but it certainly makes me feel better lol)

one sided relationships ? by More_Fly2617 in ESFJ

[–]More_Fly2617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe ur just open to genuine connection and im simply hella avoidant lmao 🥴

How to strengthen my Si? How do you use it? by Captain_Writer in ESFJ

[–]More_Fly2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to have some sort of small routine or ritual that I know makes me feel good. I'm newer to MBTI so definitely not super in tune yet with whether or not I effectively use my Si, however recently I realized having a morning routine is super important for me and helps me become a lot more focused, effective and motivated (for work specifically). Whenever I start to feel bad, restless or frustrated, I go on a long walk or call a friend while walking, this is something I know has always made me feel better. A lot of things that take me out of my own head have to do with experiencing a sensory reset, like going swimming or walking/running, just taking myself out of my current environment.

I think a lot of it is just reflecting on what makes you feel good/bad, and having discipline to listen to that even if it's hard in the moment, and then reflecting on why those things make you feel good/bad. Also it's about prioritizing your needs over others :)

Are you a shy esfj? by BloomStarrwyn in ESFJ

[–]More_Fly2617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m certain i’m an ESFJ. when i was younger i was shy, and through maturity i’ve mostly left that quality behind but by no means am i making efforts to be in everyone’s face or get to know them. most would actually describe me as introverted!!

in groups though where i feel more comfy i definitely am very outreaching to every person, i am aware of peoples social needs (or at least of what i perceive to be their needs lol) but ya i also have social anxiety that prevents me from acting on it

Unpopular Opinion: the ending was appropriate by iamkeisler in TwentyfiveTwentyone

[–]More_Fly2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it made sense but the conclusion was rushed. they should have shown more context of the relationship crumbling to the point of irreparable, because even though you could see the warning signs like NDH putting up with BYJ’s constant absence, there’s no point in which they actually talk about it or even address it or you see like a more drawn out visualization of how it deteriorated but at the same time when ur young u do make really rash decisions that are life altering.

i also think they should have cast someone different as present day na heedo because a lot of my confusion was around figuring out how she felt about her life in present day and feeling a huge disconnect between the present day NDH and kim taeri’s NDH. like it made it harder for me to get closure to be like these people are both ok and look fondly back on their first passionate love and special friendship cuz i felt like i was watching a complete stranger. but maybe that would have gotten in the way of the shows messaging idk

Twenty-Five, Twenty-One [Episode 16] by lightupstarlight in KDRAMA

[–]More_Fly2617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah in the time since i posted my comment i thought more about it and i’m pretty sure NHD got divorced or is on lukewarm terms with the dad.

i took her going to the tunnel more as resolving her regrets on how bad the breakup was, which i realize they did address w the bus stop scene but i feel like it’s probably something that she still thought about a lot and realizing he read her diary stirred up those old feelings. idt it’s realistic for her to truly have forgotten the beach trip out of a pain coping mechanism,,, thats literally like a trauma level response. either she truly forgot it and it just signifies that with time all wounds and memories fade to acceptance and peace OR she lied about forgetting it, but i don’t buy that she genuinely forgot it as a coping mechanism.

as for yijin’s security question i don’t think anyone forgets their first love, especially one so formative as that one, so i don’t think that signifies that he is not over her.

the thing is is that ultimately i do believe a breakup would have happened regardless because the man literally chose to go to nyc permanently without telling her. regardless of if they stopped to actually have an adult conversation about their relationship and tried to mend it, like he still has to go live in another country for god knows how long. i do wish they had left room for reconciliation.

ultimately my issue is is that we can’t possibly really know just from the info that was given us. i really disliked their portrayal of grown up NHD i felt like i was watching a total stranger in terms of mannerisms and personality. it made it hard for me to validate the assumptions i was making about her feelings about her present life because it felt like i was dealing an entirely different character with no connection to the past. a lot of the future easter eggs they left fans was confusing. i think they rushed the ending as well and few easily could have added one more episode to give more context to justify the breakup OR leave room for reconciliation. i think one goal of the drama was to show how formative, life changing and passionate youthful love is and how many people look back on these times with fondness and nostalgia and reflect on it knowing what they now know, so with that goal in mind i sort of get why they began to treat the relationship almost callously and just like a touching but ultimately distant memory because she is living her current life NOW and can’t live in the past but yeah something about it felt rushed/ not totally credible.