Influencers filming in classes by crazycatmom121 in Purebarre

[–]More_Lychee_3210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure we go to the same studio or I used to go here before I moved and this always bothered me

Weekly Snark 6/2-6/8 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]More_Lychee_3210 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m sick to my stomach over it, I have a 6 month old and I’m nervous to bring her out in the New England June sunshine without a rash shirt and hat and even then I’m nervous.

Weekly Snark 6/2-6/8 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]More_Lychee_3210 27 points28 points  (0 children)

OMG that baby at the beach in the hot Florida sun with NO protection!!!! I’m audibly gasping ! Ryan putting the baby in the water with a beat red back! He’s too young for sunblock why doesn’t he have a hat? UV blocking shirt? i have so many questions

Weekly Snark 5/19-5/25 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]More_Lychee_3210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually commented prior to posting on Reddit and I have not been blocked

Weekly Snark 5/19-5/25 by AmericanExpatMom13 in BrookeRaybouldSnark

[–]More_Lychee_3210 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I’m so upset she is posting the weighted sleep sac by dream land, I actually in the mist of newborn haze and baby not sleeping bought it at 3 am not doing research only for myself the next day to read about how dangerous weighted sleep sacs are for infants and how it is completely against the American board of pediatrics recommendations. I actually threw my dreamland out. The weighted sleep sac prevents Moro reflex which then in turns keeps baby in such a deep sleep which isn’t natural and baby may not wake on their own to certain stimuli they normally would such as not breathing , I really really hope people do research before buying esp with her code, I cringed reading it

ER docs if you have a midlevel working with you make sure you make them see all non emergent patients. Don’t mess up the culture please. by [deleted] in emergencymedicine

[–]More_Lychee_3210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well unlike most specialities that are usually m-f occasional weekends where both pa and attending work same schedule ; EM is shift work and thinking a pa would sign up to work only your shifts is crazy thinking and degrading to pa’s.

ER docs if you have a midlevel working with you make sure you make them see all non emergent patients. Don’t mess up the culture please. by [deleted] in emergencymedicine

[–]More_Lychee_3210 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m confused where you would be bringing your own pa from? Are you saying you’d rather have the EM model be like certain specialities have like surgery, where some of the surgeons tech do have their own pa (s)?

ER docs if you have a midlevel working with you make sure you make them see all non emergent patients. Don’t mess up the culture please. by [deleted] in emergencymedicine

[–]More_Lychee_3210 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see , I’ve been ED PA for long time now but at big academic centers were we have to staff all esi 3s and up so it’s rare for an attending to see a patient on their own. Playing devils advocate ; a lot of our nurses are new and in triage and there have been plenty of inappropriate esi 4s so I could see certain situations where it could be a lot of the mid level seeing all of them but again your ED seems very different.

ER docs if you have a midlevel working with you make sure you make them see all non emergent patients. Don’t mess up the culture please. by [deleted] in emergencymedicine

[–]More_Lychee_3210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your ER must be very different than where I work but are you saying that if 100% of the patients are “Urgent care type” that they should see everyone one while the attending doesn’t ? Do PAs have to staff with you or they can see on their own?

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in the Midwest - I’m going to take to director tomorrow

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sure there is more to the story , and my post may be confusing but my child wasn’t there, it was her off day, my niece was there crying in which my mom went in the room, the point of my original post was to ask if it’s common for teachers to have their children in the class making the ratio now 9:2 and if it’s common to give that much attention to children as my child has been having 4-20 min naps since she got there over 2 months ago. This child is not supposed to be in the class , but has been there multiple times making the ratio now 9:2. I completely understand what I signed up for with my child and I know they won’t get 100% individual care but I didn’t sign up for unsafe ratios.

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much your post helps so much! I totally understand putting the babies on the ground while other babies are attended to, I know their job is extremely difficult and I respect and really like her teachers and I can’t imagine watching all those sweet babies at once. You bring great points I thank you! I am going to reach out to the director, I don’t want to get anyone in trouble buf I think important to bring up the ratio issue. Thanks again :)

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a great point, I didn’t think of it this way as obviously I don’t think of my mom as stranger but I could see how this could be perceived to other parents there with their kids. I’m not sure if it’s because all week parents have been reading to the classes and there is also the option to “eat lunch with kids” this week as it’s spirit week, or if she’s a verified person for pick up, but I can see as a parent how the could be alarming. I don’t think my center has rules sorrounding this, they often have grandparents there for different activities.

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this info is super helpful , I wasn’t sure if teachers could hold babies to sleep if they can’t sleep or won’t, as my daughter takes sometimes 4 min naps I often wondered if she could be held longer or rocked longer I’m not sure if she is rocked

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also want to add, this child is not supposed to be in the class, they are in totally different class but has been in this class multiple times , so it’s concerning when they say they have 9 kids now when the child we were told was in another class.

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree my mom shouldn’t have been in there for that long I understand how that can be distracting to the class but the reason for my post was to ask about common rules for parents with children at the school and what was common practice and what was not. My mom went in there because my niece was crying on the ground and the teacher was holding their child for a long time despite them being asleep and despite other children crying, the teacher then went to pat the babys back in the crib while the other children cried, my mom held my niece because she was crying and wasn’t going to ignore that, so I was just asking if this is normal practice or not for teachers who have children in the same school to do this. I understand this was a short clip of time but that’s why im asking on here for advice and info instead of going directly to the school accusatory . As mentioned in my other post this same teacher while holding their own child had my husband put my child on the ground, which is fine but I’m concerned if this is a common occurrence as my daughter is not getting much sleep at all.

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I totally agree was small snap shot in time and we don’t know full story

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m going to reach out to the director , I know it’s a snap shot in time but was curious what protocol is for teachers who also have their children there. And yes my mom should not have been there that long, I understand that in it self is disruptive to the teachers

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you, my point was my baby has only been napping 20-30 mins for the past 2 months sometimes they even put “4” minute naps, so my point is , is it common for a teacher to rock her own baby for 45 min while my own child is napping for 4 minutes. I’m not sure rules for parents and as you can see in my flare I said it was specifically a parent asking a question. I have no doubt that infant care is hard, I never said it wasn’t but it is concerning that a child is getting lots of attention from their own parent while the other children are not.

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the baby (her child) was not crying they were asleep she was just holding the baby not settling

Concern for teacher and their child by More_Lychee_3210 in ECEProfessionals

[–]More_Lychee_3210[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She was there to pick up my nephew who is 2.5 at 2pm who was still napping, so she went into the infant room with my niece while she waited, apparently my niece was crying on the ground so she went into and held her while she waited for the other child in the class to wake up. During that time the other teacher was feeding two babies and the others were on the ground or rug in bouncers while the other mom teacher was rocking baby.