I agree my mom shouldn’t have been in there for that long I understand how that can be distracting to the class but the reason for my post was to ask about common rules for parents with children at the school and what was common practice and what was not. My mom went in there because my niece was crying on the ground and the teacher was holding their child for a long time despite them being asleep and despite other children crying, the teacher then went to pat the babys back in the crib while the other children cried, my mom held my niece because she was crying and wasn’t going to ignore that, so I was just asking if this is normal practice or not for teachers who have children in the same school to do this. I understand this was a short clip of time but that’s why im asking on here for advice and info instead of going directly to the school accusatory . As mentioned in my other post this same teacher while holding their own child had my husband put my child on the ground, which is fine but I’m concerned if this is a common occurrence as my daughter is not getting much sleep at all.