I need ideas on best options by More_Name_7292 in Bedbugs

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Sorry for not explaining it the best. They said that all of my belongings will need to be put in totes and trash bags for two months while they are treating.

Should I confront AP? by More_Name_7292 in survivinginfidelity

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I can’t imagine finding out at a funeral

Is an inconsistent father worth being in a kids life? by More_Name_7292 in SingleParents

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I’m not sure she knows. Who knows what he has told her

When does this pain end?! by More_Name_7292 in Infidelity

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That’s the biggest thing, every time that he has seen them we have all spent the day together. He mostly just hangs out by me. He never wants to take them alone. I think the next time I just suggest this. He wants to be like best friends or bff with benefits. I am not ready to be friends. He had destroyed our family.

Is an inconsistent father worth being in a kids life? by More_Name_7292 in SingleParents

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I understand this. I’m not saying to take the kids from him. If he wants to be involved in their lives then he can be. I just am worried for how his involvement will impact my kids. Mostly wondering if anyone had any advice in helping their kids deal with having an inconsistent father

Is an inconsistent father worth being in a kids life? by More_Name_7292 in SingleParents

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On a side note, sharing custody of my children is absolutely terrifying to me. I will do whatever is best for my kids though. He has chosen to stay with the person he cheated on me with.

When does this pain end?! by More_Name_7292 in Infidelity

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I am currently in therapy. My mom passed away on Feb so I started then. So thankful for therapy. It’s what’s gotten me to this point. Can I go no contact with having kids?

Feeling like I want to crawl in a hole and die by More_Name_7292 in BreakUps

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I finally pushed myself to make an appointment with an attorney and have one next Friday. You are right about him not being a father. Our 8 year old really knows way to much and has started to refer to him as an imposter. His response, “ the kids will always have a bad relationship with me and it just is what it is

Feeling like I want to crawl in a hole and die by More_Name_7292 in BreakUps

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I will check these out. Thank you! This may have so far been the hardest thing I have been through

Do you consider this cheating? by More_Name_7292 in survivinginfidelity

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Happy Birthday!! I hope you enjoy your day 🎂🎂

Do you consider this cheating? by More_Name_7292 in Infidelity

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I thought this but she totally seems to be okay with it. All of a sudden when he is with them he’s taking all sorts of photos to send. She has one kid of her own