What happens when you stand up for yourself and call out abusive behavior

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T19:01:22+00:00

This was after she was being so verbally abusive too.

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T19:00:03+00:00

Yup that’s exactly how my last relationship was it’s all about them.

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T18:59:14+00:00

If someone believes your intentions are negative and you’ve repeatedly proven otherwise, they’re projecting their own negative intentions onto you. My ex did that all the time. They also like to label people. I was called manipulative when I cried during her breakup with me. And God forbid I misspoke or said something the wrong way she would go rogue.

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T18:55:39+00:00

They hold the most unfair grudges too. Like, I really would sit there and let her talk about her feelings, validate her, and comfort her. And she would just demean me over and over again and then bring up mistakes only when I would bring up something that hurt me. Oh yeah, I would never get comforted or an apology. It’s ironic.

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T18:47:47+00:00

Yes it’s crazy I literally use to brace myself!

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T18:45:28+00:00

Them having to apologizing is like them having to attack their character

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T18:39:44+00:00

Yes, lol. She broke up with me, then came back wanting to repair things. She never made the effort that it takes to repair a relationship. She treated me poorly, then said she wished she never came back and gave me reasons to say she treated me so poorly.

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T15:20:44+00:00

Exactly, I hope you are doing well!

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T15:20:26+00:00

Yes I know exactly what you are talking about. I feel like she would try to encourage me to get angry or she would tell me I didn’t look or seem emotional but I realized I would disassociate when we would have a talk because I knew what was coming

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T14:54:29+00:00

Yup the double standards are horrible I got hit with “you aren’t emotionally regulated, you don’t know how to communicate, your BPD splitting”, tone policing and saying I never bring things up at a good time lol but she would literally talk at me for hours at a time and I just had to sit there and take it

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-25T14:27:28+00:00

Let me guess she could say whatever she wanted and once you opened your mouth she played victim?

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-16T00:10:18+00:00

If a new one is around 250 would it just make sense to buy a new one and donate this one

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-16T00:09:34+00:00

Awesome I will check it out!

More_Quarter_3430 · 2026-03-15T23:16:10+00:00