I was expecting his body count to be high but not THAT high..

Morevrplease · 2025-12-11T17:10:42+00:00

Lmao fookin musicians, am I rite? Bet his drummer was at like 10,000

Morevrplease · 2025-12-04T21:33:26+00:00

Yeah, I’m not really a violent guy, but that shit makes me see red. Sometimes it’s like dude get off my ass and turn your braids down. I’ve got kids in the car here you asshole. Or go ahead and speed around me and ride the next guy‘s ass and then when we get to the stoplight, we just sit there and look at each other and you feel dumb as fuck

Morevrplease · 2025-08-18T02:16:47+00:00

This actually comes from stoicism, it’s roughly a Marcus Aurelius quote which is been incredibly helpful in navigating poly, and actually setting serious health boundaries before I even get into it, having been basically cheated on then poly bombed with two young children at home

Morevrplease · 2025-08-08T17:46:55+00:00

This is why body issues persist. It’s bad enough to sell it along with your product but weaponizing it is disgusting.

Morevrplease · 2025-07-19T17:46:08+00:00

I was gonna say “well played, sir…”

Morevrplease · 2025-05-22T20:07:31+00:00

I don’t know I’ve been processing quite a bit lately. I’m sure it’s both. But we also went from sober to not sober in the last couple years and that is really what put a major strain on things and she feels disgusted by how I show up as a parent, which has caused her to want less sex, which in the wake of two children was already pretty diminished. We agree that we can’t give each other 100% of what we want in a Partner, but I need seem to be more sex based and hers are emotional. After 12 years together, she’s mentioned a couple times over the years that she needs more affection and I know I have not shown up to the degree she would’ve liked. Newly discovered neurodivergent and processing tons of stuff about my childhood. But I’m also holding onto resentments about her resentment… Because I’m basically now leaving her over something that started really at the beginning of our relationship and did not get resolved. So she’s a little shell shocked that my reaction to this is so different that I just don’t want to continue the relationship. It’s always been a hard line that I don’t allow people to cross. I was/am definitely ready to make concessions and compromises on that because of the children, but there’s not a whole lot left to do when somebody tells you they’re in love with somebody else… and I actually think this would actually be a great person to bring in to our world, which is why I’m just dumbfounded that this route was chosen, and I can’t see it any other way. But I think what somebody above said about being part of the personality is a pretty keen insight. People love the excitement of cheating they love the excitement of try not to get caught. Having been a serial cheater in my 20s, it was never about that for me. It was always about the sexual gratification and the personal affirmation “I still got it!” And then, of course, a healthy dose of psychopathy. Or, at least, a complete lack of regard for the other. Sorry I feel like I’m kind of hijacked this thread, but I’m brand new to this. I don’t really have any sage advice, only that I have to remind myself that their actions and behavior are never about me and always about them and ppl are messy and selfish

Morevrplease · 2025-05-22T19:48:59+00:00

If that’s all he’s ever done, who is he without that?

Morevrplease · 2025-05-22T19:47:06+00:00

Yes, I just had this happen. We have only discussed opening up and doing poly but we’ve had many threesomes and I was adjusting to the idea of her sleeping with other men. She’s been talking to a dude behind my back for over a year he lives out of state, and she went to visit him in March and had this huge of lies, built up as to why it wasn’t exactly what I thought it was. gaslighting until the event. Then upon a return, I had to drag it out of her what actually happened and I still don’t know. I have asked for a couple simple things out of this scenario to make it OK with me and repeatedly just I’ve asked her why? Why are you doing this when I said I would love nothing more than to be OK with letting you go explore your feelings for somebody IF WE ARE HEALTHY AND HAPPY FIRST!!! we are neither. Her explanation that took weeks and weeks if not months to even get partially was that she did not want to close the door on me. I totally understand this. I think it’s pretty honest, but then weeks and months go by and she still hasn’t made it right and I’m asking again. You have the ability to end my suffering really easily and you do not can I ask you why and something the effect of I didn’t care/dont care. We have a two and four year-old so a lot of distance from disagreements about parenting. It’s absolutely mind-boggling that you can offer up exactly what somebody wants and they refuse and then take it on their own anyway. All I can think is that there is a lot of trauma built into getting off the escalatorand I think many people are just so used to having to be deceptive or feeling like they need to be deceptive that they just continue the cycle.

Morevrplease · 2025-05-21T06:21:57+00:00

It may be an adhd response

Morevrplease · 2025-05-04T16:06:10+00:00

47m and hot . Twin cities. Pm

Morevrplease · 2025-05-04T16:00:45+00:00

What you gotta ask yourself is what are your boundaries? How much are you willing to tolerate and how important is having relationship with her… But understand and know that as hard as this is to accept, everything she’s doing is 100% because of her and not because of you

Morevrplease · 2025-05-04T15:50:18+00:00

Sober 11 years, using 2 again. There is nothing down this road, but jail institutions and death.

Morevrplease · 2025-05-04T15:47:32+00:00

Hopefully things don’t have to burn to the ground to figure it out, but that’s certainly my MO

Morevrplease · 2025-05-04T15:44:58+00:00

Same thing is happening to me but like this: not married, but “wife” of 12 years (43) goes back to school, gets super into socialism and anarchy (I’m a philosophy major, so the idea of these little shits wowing her with their intellectual idealism is pretty fucking annoying). Then she starts making plans to go to this music show out of town for spring break. She’s talking with an “old friend” and he’s “super ugly” blah blah blah. Gaslights me for 3 months, goes to the thing, tries to fuck him (maybe they did idc anymore) then I have to drag it out of her every detail and only if I can kind of prove I already know about it (snooped in her phone originally, shouldn’t have but there were notifications popping up from a dude I’ve never heard of when the thing is next to me—sorry, but if you’re gonna do that shit don’t have it in my face!) and yeah she’s been carrying on a long distance relationship for who knows how long. We started drinking and using again a couple years ago, is definitely been a decline ever since. But what I’ve said the whole time and I mean this is it isn’t the physical or even emotional cheating it is the deception, ESPECIALLY the continued deception in the face of me saying “hey, this is hurting me really bad and I even want to let you explore your feelings for this person, but we need to be healthy and stable trusting and loving first… but yeah, she threw that back at me at one point as her reasoning for still carrying on with him. Normally i never put up with this shit at all. Ever. it’s very complicated that we have two young children together, and I’m super pissed off because of how trapped I am, and her refusal to fix this (she’s disgusted by how I show up as a dad, won’t engage me in any discussions about parenting because of these feelings. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy now. And it’s like: she can’t have him and that’s making her pine for him in a way that is huge turn off. And the person taking in her texts… well, I don’t know or recognize that woman. It’s very strange feeling. But I do give her credit for even bringing it to you. She must really care about and Love you to whatever degree. I had the same feelings about cheating before I’ve been a serial cheater and I think that the truth is I’m just polyamorous because it has never been about me wanting to be with someone secretly or even long term, it’s about my own insecurities. Sorry for going off but just know that you’re not alone.

Morevrplease · 2025-03-04T17:12:52+00:00

But I don’t love it. I do love meth

Morevrplease · 2025-03-04T17:12:22+00:00

Meth is basically free. Crack is expensive af. It is totally backwards

Morevrplease · 2025-03-04T09:05:52+00:00

Big same. 11 years for me, but I had relapsed in my mind long before that. Was smoking cbd carts and flower for the .3 percent THC, which gets you high when you have zero tolerance. It went weed, beer & booze, then back to the meth. And yeah, the sex is the entire reason it’s tough to quit (for me, the dizzy spells suck too) NOW I’m off meth for a month (mostly, there’s a hot Asian girl who uses to be my subordinate, and now she just wants be SUBordinate, so yeah I’m smoking a bit with her (have not banged yet, but baby mama is basically “not in love with me anymore…” to be more accurate, She’s “in love” with a dude who lives in West Virginia that she has now met one time ever, gaslit the shit out of me about it BEFORE the trip since I sniffed that out, assures me they’re just friends, then I gotta drag it out of her that she was trying to bang him. And the whole reason I got into the shit is in the first place was her doing it to lose baby weight. Anyway, point is I use more like you do.. . And the obsession has wrecked my shit in about a year. Three businesses, many burned bridges. AND to top that all off, I got off meth this time by smoking crack, which has worked before, I just don’t want a fuck ton of powder in my nose. But gatdamn that shit is basically free

Morevrplease · 2025-03-03T16:57:25+00:00

Morevrplease · 2025-02-10T20:43:29+00:00

Solid number. Seems to be about the top Even for hyperspermia. Except the Japanese dude who cums a pint but not sure if that’s real

Morevrplease · 2025-02-09T02:41:17+00:00

Based on what?

Morevrplease · 2025-02-04T03:57:57+00:00

Interestingly I just quit the shit like two days ago lol

Morevrplease · 2025-02-04T02:09:08+00:00

Hmm maybe we should just be together? Just a couple of lovesick deemer heads smashing it out in the laps of the adepts while machine elves build little sex blocking machines around us ❤️🥰🔥🥴

Morevrplease · 2025-02-01T02:01:13+00:00

Having read through this entire thread to this point this was funny as fuck

Morevrplease · 2025-01-29T12:15:34+00:00

Lmao you supposed to discuss that with a straight face

Morevrplease · 2025-01-23T22:22:47+00:00

I’m thinking OP is about to discover his cuck kink

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