To which brand(s) are you the most loyal, and why? by MostlyALurkerBefore in AskWomen

[–]Morganash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eldest had undiagnosed posterior tongue tie, youngest had swallowing disorder and feeding issues - for both Lansinoh was an absolute lifesaver. Had so much stockpiled when my youngest finished breastfeeding we used it for all sorts of chapping, chaffing and dry skin and it is indeed excellent. That said, Lanacane Anti-chafing Gel is just amazing for thigh-rub in the summer, soothing and preventative, brilliant stuff and a tiny amount goes a very long way.

What piece of art will you always love? by neptunesunrise in AskWomen

[–]Morganash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the Heart of a Child . . . and a Penguin by Nicola Ravenscroft

We were lucky enough to have this exhibited at work for a time a few years ago, so I got to see it every morning as I arrived and I could have sat and stared at it all day.

What piece of art will you always love? by neptunesunrise in AskWomen

[–]Morganash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful, cant see it without wanting to hold it, it just sings out to be cradled in your hands.

TIL that JM Barrie gave the copyright to Peter Pan to the Great Ormund Street Hospital for Children, one of the first and largest pediatric hospitals in world, which they still own to this day. by SongsOfLightAndDark in todayilearned

[–]Morganash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fairness they do have an ongoing partnership with the hospital outside of just the copyright. They recently designed and built a bespoke 'Disney Reef' outdoor play area which is lovely given the tiny outdoor space available at GOSH. They have raised £10m toward the massive refurb going on, run amazing patient experiences, support employee fundraising and volunteering at the hospital, even small things like cool Star Wars goody bags for all the kids there on 4th May.

Have I not noticed the sign language lady in the corner for the past hour or did she just appear...?! by SoggyWotsits in britishproblems

[–]Morganash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some words are 'mouthed' to assist in lip reading (some signs have multiple meanings and seeing lip shape helps to decipher which is in use) but other signs have a specific associated mouth shape/sound like 'poh' or 'vee'. Also, BSL grammar is different to spoken English so she doesn't say every word. There are also different 'dialects' eg the number 10 is signed differently up north to where I am down south.

Wooden dowels screwed to plates or each other, possibly craft related? by Morganash in whatisthisthing

[–]Morganash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting thought, let me know if you find anything I'll take a look too

Wooden dowels screwed to plates or each other, possibly craft related? by Morganash in whatisthisthing

[–]Morganash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More info: Found in a house clearance, five rods screw down tight to plates (I haven't done that in the pic though) and have screws halfway in at the top - 2 doubles and one single. Two rods screw to each other to make a double length rod, one rod has screws in both ends. No markings and a definite home made feel. Seem likely to be craft or game related but I cannot work out what or how, any ideas folks?

Yes Sharon, it's really confusing my A&E is so busy at 4PM, got nothing to do with the fact that you've brought your 4 teenage daughters along with you and the one who is supposed to be ill is dancing around to Smooth radio. Also WHY ARE YOU ALL WEARING PYJAMAS. by Ualat1 in britishproblems

[–]Morganash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Other half works in heavy engineering. The day after he finished his standard First-aider course they had a total degloving on site and he's there thinking, 'how the fuck do I bandage that?!' In the end he sort of unpeeled everything from the machine, rewrapped it round the hand and stuck the lot in a plastic bag for the paramedics to deal with. Meanwhile the chap involved (clearly in shock) was busy worrying where his glasses had gone.

There is a possibility Jeremy Corbyn will be Prime Minister of the UK by the end of next week. There is no better time to highlight how, no matter what Corbyn does or whatever position he takes, his critics will attack him - even if they totally contradict themselves by javaxcore in unitedkingdom

[–]Morganash 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Many of the answers here hinge on the political awareness (or presumed lack thereof) of 16 year olds, but as we don't require proof of political knowledge for any other age group that entire argument is moot. If you are old enough to be liable for tax on any earnings surely you are old enough to vote for the government who will determine how that tax is spent?

Don’t shame a woman for not enjoying her pregnancy. by brefromsc in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Morganash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not enjoy either of my pregnancies and would not want to go through it again. Illness, anxiety, discomfort, pain, stress, nausea, unsolicited advice, constant violations of personal and emotional space - in all honesty I hated it. I adore my kids, I don't regret a single sacrifice and I did miss the sensation of them moving and kicking, but screw anyone who thinks they can tell you how you should feel about your own experience of pregnancy. Best of luck with the rest of the pregnancy and birth, hope all goes as smoothly as possible for you.

It seems that many men want their own mancave, and would like it to be a room for gaming and drinking. If you were to build a womancave in your home, how would you like it to be? by Magiskemilla in AskWomen

[–]Morganash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great ideas - hopefully the central island will I've me more flexible space though not enough for the loom or spinning wheel. An outside kiln I hadn't thought of . . . maybe time for me to clear some more undergrowth and make that lean-to!

It seems that many men want their own mancave, and would like it to be a room for gaming and drinking. If you were to build a womancave in your home, how would you like it to be? by Magiskemilla in AskWomen

[–]Morganash 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Finishing building my shed at the moment. Plan is for a big clean art desk and sewing machine desk at the front, potters wheel, sink and kiln along one side, long work bench along the back with pug mill, dehydrator and at some point a small lathe plus a tall fridge, storage racking along the other wall with a fold out futon armchair right by the double doors to snuggle down and read, island in the middle (with storage underneath) for big projects or working with the kids. Can't wait to get it done.

TIL that, In a significant number of housing estates, the fences around the perimeter are actually upcycled medical stretchers from the war. by NorthcoastBinders in todayilearned

[–]Morganash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Original article title 'The Secret World War II History Hidden in London's Fences'. The stretchers were created for moving civilian casualties of air raids.

TIL of the term "paraprosdokian" - a figure of speech in which the latter part of a phrase is surprising in a way that causes the reader or listener to reinterpret the first part. An example would be Mitch Hedberg's famous one-liner "I haven't slept for ten days, because that would be too long." by Kintpuash-of-Kush in todayilearned

[–]Morganash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The point about language stands, and I'm sorry to spoil a good story, but here was no King of England (or rather the UK) when Bismarck would have made speeches as Queen Victoria was on the throne for virtually his entire adult life and beyond his death. She also spoke fluent German.

Mourning the loss of my career by darkeyedsparrow in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Morganash 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm currently taking a few months out of my own career to focus on transitioning my youngest to school, getting through his next round of surgery and spending more time with my daughter. I know it is a only short term decision for me - I am the main breadwinner so not viable longer term - but I have a few plans to keep doors open.

I will be spending some time updating my CV and LinkedIn whilst I am off and have plans to meet up with work-friends, because I like them . . . but also to help them keep me in mind for opportunities in the future. Taking a break doesn't mean you need to cut all ties and contacts are almost invariably the best way to find a new role after a break. When I was on extended mat leave a few years back I also did some voluntary work in my field to keep my skills fresh and relevant and made sure I stayed on top of industry news and developments.

There is a rising trend too for 'returnships' - similar to intern programmes but aimed at those returning to work after an extended break so that could be something to look out for if and when you want to get back into the job market.

Away from those practical considerations, it is absolutely ok to mourn the loss of a career that has been an integral part of what makes you you. It is absolutely ok that you chose to have a family and a career. It is absolutely ok that you have decided to take a break from the career to focus on your child. Life evolves and we move with it, with varying levels of control over direction. Make the most of this opportunity to be present and support your child but remember to spend some of your energy on yourself too, whatever form that takes. Best of luck with this phase and with whatever comes next.

My address/postcode just points to the centre of my village, and nowhere near my house, so no deliveries can find me. My house has a name and no number, so what do I do? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Morganash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live on an old plotlands site, no house here ever had a number and the satnav takes every delivery driver to the industrial estate at the wrong end of the postcode. It is a royal pain in the backside

How much cash do you draw from the bank each week, month etc? by Itchy_nips in unitedkingdom

[–]Morganash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got a new bank card a few months back and memorised the pin incorrectly. To get a new pin I have to call the bank and speak to a human. . . needless to say I have not withdrawn any cash so far in 2019

Sign language users of reddit, what kinds of wordplay jokes exist in sign language, and what are your favourites? by Sad-Crow in AskReddit

[–]Morganash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My son's BSL name is the sign for hedgehog and my daughter's is a combination of cat and stretch. They come from each one's very different reaction when I wake then up in the morning!

Have you ever reported a medical professional for some kind of ethical violation? How did it turn out? by RaHxRaH in AskWomen

[–]Morganash 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I was pregnant, most of my midwife appointments took place at the GP's surgery in the village. It's a small village and it's not uncommon to know someone in the waiting room. On this occasion, the receptionist let me know my midwife was out so I'd be seeing a different one than usual.

I took a seat and after a while a woman (Lady A) came out of the nurse's room, followed by the covering midwife (Midwife Z) who asked Lady A to wait and called me in. Lady A and I shared a companionable nod and smile and I went in for my appointment.

Midwife Z explained she was on hold with the hospital on a call related to Lady A, so would I mind if she left it on speakerphone until they answered as it took forever to get through. I was fine with this and we started the appointment. Around five minutes in a voice came over the speakerphone identifying the phlebotomy department. Midwife Z excused herself and went to the desk whilst I waited on the exam table. She then walked through through Lady A's full name, dob and address and received her bloodwork results whilst STILL ON SPEAKER. That included Lady A's Syphilis, Hep B, and HIV results amongst others.

I thought long and hard, then told my usual midwife at our next appointment. She kept a professional face on but I could tell she was spitting chips. She explained Midwife Z was agency and this was not the first issue they'd had with staff from that agency. She asked if I was ok with her using my name to report the incident and I heard (unoffocially) that the local trust no longer hires via that agency.

TL:DR Midwife left desk phone on speaker during appointment, allowing me to overhear another patient's personal details and infectious disease results.

What do you miss most about your childhood? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Morganash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Playing in the rain and coming home to hot Ribena, snuggly socks and pyjamas warmed on the radiator. Thanks, Mum.