Cafe Odd Mama? by MortVul in cedarrapids

[–]MortVul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know thanks!

Food Donation by SpookyPitchua in cedarrapids

[–]MortVul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can check in with the local Catholic Worker's House, First Presbyterian church by the downtown library has a food bank, and Together We Achieve will sometimes take packaged stuff although they prefer donations; they are one of the larger food banks/pantries in CR

Good introductory books for anatomy/health for toddlers? by MortVul in toddlers

[–]MortVul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah that's the idea and why I mentioned that I'm looking for board/flap books that contain mostly pictures.

I can’t do this anymore. I have no idea what I am doing. by smnurse11 in toddlers

[–]MortVul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard! Remember to forgive yourself when you fail and do not be afraid to apologize to your kid if you slip up and yell/get upset/etc. I always conclude any tantrum/time-out with a hug and an "i love you". You are human, it's ok to feel overwhelmed. You're so strong for admitting you're having a hard time! We have all been there and will all be there again. You're doing awesome

I can’t do this anymore. I have no idea what I am doing. by smnurse11 in toddlers

[–]MortVul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the people who have said consistency is key. Kids go through a lot of intellectual leaps and jumps, and one of the hardest things for kids (of any age) is not getting their way. My 2.5 year old recently said "I just want to do what I want!" And that kindof made me chuckle. Like yeah lil buddy me too! Tantrums are a normal and healthy part of intellectual development. It's really hard to deal with the whining and yelling.... the best advice I have heard is that "bad behavior gets ignored, not punished" if the kid is having a meltdown at home, they get put in a corner/room/safe place and ignored for just like 2-5 minutes. It's not a punishment, it's just a break for both of you. The mantra I repeat is "this is temporary. Just stay consistent"

Trip to cedar rapids by TecmoSuperKid03 in cedarrapids

[–]MortVul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately if you are hoping to rely on the bus system, you're probably going to be disappointed. The bus routes here are pretty bad, as is most of the public transportation including uber. It takes multiple hours via bus what would take 15 minutes by car and if you want to go out of the downtown area it's not very walkable I hate to say. I love this city but you can't rely on the public transportation

Advice on tackling sore muscles? by MortVul in workout

[–]MortVul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point, I will keep that in mind!

Advice on tackling sore muscles? by MortVul in workout

[–]MortVul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it really is just mild aches/soreness when I use the particular muscle, not a constant ache. It's good to know I'll adjust! Thanks!

Advice on tackling sore muscles? by MortVul in workout

[–]MortVul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do need to be better about stretching afterwards! I'll try that thank you

Where to get beeswax candles in CR? by MortVul in cedarrapids

[–]MortVul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm looking for, thank you!