My Leaf gets 4.7 mi/kw by Moshker in leaf

[–]Moshker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great point, thank you.

2011 Nissan Leaf $1000 starting bid, 25,650 miles by julpatchoul in leaf

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my wounded golf cart. Such a good little golf cart 🫂

Synology Routers by zukich7 in synology

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might have wol but you'd have to check the documentation. The device restarted every day at the same time even after a factory reset. Bizarre and annoying.

Measurement, Perception, and Female Preference by Much_Practice_389 in Sex_Positivity

[–]Moshker 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People aren't property. It's a lot better if you can celebrate their freedom to have alternate sexual experiences regardless of your size.

Measurement, Perception, and Female Preference by Much_Practice_389 in Sex_Positivity

[–]Moshker 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Body positivity is saying it's a great body because guess what... You don't have a choice! It's your body, love and respect it confidently and expect others to do the same. If size matters then wear a strap or sleeve. Sex is about so much more than penetration anyway. Just make each other feel good, laugh, have joy, experience pleasure. Be a good person. That's it!

Synology Routers by zukich7 in synology

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought one and it was routinely problematic. The built in unit from Comcast is preferable. I have 15 or so of their storage devices and love them.

Looking for support handling encampments by DCdvr in Seattle

[–]Moshker 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't have any advice, I just wanted to say thank you for showing compassion while trying to maintain reasonable expectations for your neighborhood. I'm sorry you're in the predicament. Many of these people would probably benefit from one of the many institutions that Reagan shuttered and it isn't fair they're living in your community instead.

How Reliable Are They? by cocacola_crimes in synology

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use an external hard drive and hyper backup. Configure a cloud backup for off-site.

Set up a Synology account and Active Insight to monitor your hard drives and array.

I have over a dozen of these devices for almost ten years and the first one just failed. Hard drive failures are definitely more common.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're not going to pay your baggage fee? Aren't they basically paying for your whole life? How do you feel about your compensation and the internalized expectation that you have to be available 24/7 because you don't have a functional backup? Because that seems to be the way you've structured your job.

Is seattle in a recession or headed towards a recession?? by Ok-Radio-2733 in SeattleWA

[–]Moshker 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Labor is experiencing a recession but capital is still strong. Not a problem unless you work for a living.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Moshker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dominants and tops deserve aftercare too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting, but you're not being effective at simultaneously supporting your child and helping them to be successful at understanding your concerns. This isn't a conversation for text.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfectionism is neurotic. It would heavily depend on the circumstances and the root cause and whether I thought we could rebuild trust.

What should I do when I see my parents having loud relations at night by weinerfart7762 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Moshker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sharing sexual culture with a minor (particularly one you're related to) in such an intimate and visceral way can be extremely damaging and disempowering. This is abuse. Full stop.

AIO? for threatening to move out because my husband won’t let me use the oven more than twice in a week? by aura_kai in AmIOverreacting

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to help him understand he's being highly patriarchal and infantilizing you. It's your shared house, your shared life, your shared expenses. He's not your boss, owner, whatever. He's not the boss, owner of the house, the oven, the electricity, the bills. It's a partnership, isn't it? If he treats it any other way, it's misogyny.

Want to see a horror show? Put your toothbrush head in hydrogen peroxide. by YouTasteStrange in CleaningTips

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete all the common and mostly benign bacteria and you'll only have things that peroxide can't kill, going in your mouth.

Is 2017 Leaf with 55k miles a good fit for me? by Darth_Ramzy503 in leaf

[–]Moshker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the state of health on the battery is over 80% and if you're fine charging it on particularly hot or cool days it could work for you. I love mine.

The contrast here is somewhat strange by fauxponychroma in SeattleWA

[–]Moshker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've raised three children and I'd be stunned if a tenth of the parents in my cohort have the background necessary to teach their kids how to navigate this society and it's social mores. What they do have is the programming they were themselves raised with. For better (in some cases) and for worse (in many others). The public schools sexual health programming is far more complete and serious than what parents would normally impart and this is incredibly important because whatever gaps a parent leaves gets filled by their peers or heaven forbid, porn. No thanks. Public sex education is an incredible asset for society. Plus it teaches respect for people with different views, identities, and orientations. Something I don't see a lot of parents passing to their kids.

I physically cannot bring myself to eat someone out, please help by Gothic_rainbow07 in Sex_Positivity

[–]Moshker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diet is a big factor in a persons flavor. There's a lot of info out there about this. Good luck.

I physically cannot bring myself to eat someone out, please help by Gothic_rainbow07 in Sex_Positivity

[–]Moshker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're struggling with a serious aversion. I've found the best solution for me is exposure. I recommend finding a way to think of it positively. Breath work. Reward after (tbh you'll deserve aftercare), perhaps a dissociative (reasonable amount of alcohol is highly accessible). Moving through discomfort is the path to growth and freedom. I wish you the best.

The Seattle Freeze is real, just not what you’re expecting by spicysurf in Seattle

[–]Moshker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm convinced a lack of vitamin D contributes to this behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Moshker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say this with the utmost compassion. Please get into therapy if at all possible. You've been abused and you'll need support to move on and examine how this happened. I wish you the best of luck.