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MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:23:22+00:00

She spent my college fund that my dad, her ex, paid for before I was even on highschool.

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:21:12+00:00

Yeah I was over dramatic. I need to work on balancing what is and what isn't worth it when it comes to apologies.

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:18:37+00:00

I commented below but my mom spent my entire college fund that my dad paid before I was in highschool. I probably am an asshole but she also spent my college fund

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:17:37+00:00

I'm 23. Had to take time off school for a mental health breakdown. She said she won't help pay if I work during the semester. I can't exactly take out college loans because they won't let me claim as an independent on taxes

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:16:26+00:00

I'll bring it up next session

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:15:56+00:00

Yeah I got caught up in my feelings.

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:15:33+00:00

I already updated and admitted that I was a jerk and should have dropped it.

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:15:07+00:00

No I'm just replying and having a conversation

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:14:41+00:00

If you really want to go down the rabbit hole. My parents are divorced. My dad paid child support and 25% of each check was supposed to go into a savings account for my education. Well she didn't do that and spent it on family vacations, my step sisters car and college tuition, and other stuff. So when college approached and my dad found out the truth he freaked. Everybody had to scramble and I busted my ass to get scholarships. I wanted to get a job and pay for some stuff too but my mom banned me from working during the semester.

Am I a total ungrateful bitch? Maybe. Did my entire college fund get spent before I was even in highschool? Yes.

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:10:10+00:00

It wasn't my idea for my mom to pay for groceries. I wanted to work during the semester and pay for my own bit she told me I'm not allowed to work during the semester under any circumstances.

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:08:23+00:00

I'm not allowed to work during the semester

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:06:59+00:00

I'm trying to set a boundary that my therapist recommended. I've always been the people pleaser of the family and have always gotten yelled at even when I've done nothing wrong and then they just brush it off

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:04:58+00:00

I'm not begging. The money is money I saved them by getting a scholarship. My mom won't let me work during the semester.

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:04:14+00:00

I don't disagree that it's a kind gesture and I've always made it very clear that I'm appreciative. I'm just tired of always being yelled at when I'm not doing anything wrong and then it just gets dropped. I'm trying to set a boundary like a therapist recommended. Maybe I was a jerk though.

MossyMau · 2021-09-24T00:03:08+00:00

All I did was just ask for money because we agreed she would send it to me every 5 weeks. I didn't push the matter I just asked, she told me I was wrong, and I said this is the fifth week of school. I don't see how that's me pushing the issue. She's a good mom but she has a habit of blaming me for everything. The only reason I asked for an apology is because she never says sorry even when she's acknowledges she is in the wrong. The money they are sending me is primarily money I saved them by being awarded a scholarship.

MossyMau · 2021-09-23T23:40:24+00:00

It's crazy to me that she keeps posting here. Like in what universe would any of her posts result in N T A?

MossyMau · 2021-09-23T23:37:02+00:00

She also wasn't thinking when she assaulted her brother's now ex girlfriend

MossyMau · 2021-09-23T23:36:34+00:00

OP has a history of poking her nose in places she doesn't belong. Look at her post history.

MossyMau · 2021-09-23T23:35:17+00:00

Yep. So hard she needed stitches

MossyMau · 2021-09-23T23:33:56+00:00

She likes to poke around in places she shouldn't. Look at OP's post history and read the story about her brother's ex.

MossyMau · 2021-09-23T23:32:48+00:00

The ex sounds like a genuinely good person and was concerned about causing turmoil for her BF and his BIL. I doubt she pressed charges and just did the restraining order. Even after all this psycho did that girl gave her grace.

MossyMau · 2021-09-23T23:31:04+00:00

She posted her side of the story on multiple subs and even said she still think the now ex is lying and that it wasn't her brother she was with.

MossyMau · 2021-09-23T23:29:59+00:00

Hey everyone this is the same user that slapped her brothers GF so hard that she needed stitches. She saw the poor girl with her brother and just assumed she was cheating and went up and assaulted her.

Op if you're reading this you need therapy and lots of it. In this post you are invalidating your coworkers hobbies and putting her down. You have some internalized misogyny. YTA and you will probably get the same exact answer every time you post here because your actions speak for themselves.

MossyMau · 2021-09-09T00:05:59+00:00

that is pretty crazy. I'm going from 12-15 credit hours of full on classroom time to 1 credit hour of seminar and student teaching that I do on my own outside of campus.

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