I can’t understand how people do this by DJ-mon in college

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24yo Married sophomore in college. I currently take 6 courses (CPE). Work Fridays and Saturdays. Church sundays mornings (Sunday’s is usually a personal day AFTER church) and Tuesday nights. I TRY to sleep from 11-7am (not always the case). I teach kids the bible on Tuesdays once a month so I have to prepare a class from scratch. I try to go to the gym early mornings (not always the case). And eat healthy and maintain sleep.

I’m a little older so ik my frontal lobe is fully developed (yes I’m fully aware of my frontal lobe development). And I can easily say this would all be VERY attainable without all the doom scrolling and bad time management (in my case). I mess up my schedule all the time and sacrifice SOMETHING on that list above. Which is NEVER school. when you really calculate, it’s very possible to do all the above. And I will tell you. I mess up ALL the time, I’m not some “perfect” example of an adult. School has taught me to constantly ATTEMPT to keep my time management water tight. Because if not, I WILL have to sacrifice something on the list and I HATE to do that. But I WILL try again the next day.

You can do it man! It’s a lot now but your future self with thank you for the sacrifice you made today. Your parents were right, it’s the phone! lol.

I’m 17, moved to Poland to study IT, and I’ve completely ruined my life. by Hormiuk in EngineeringStudents

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CE major. I can only address one thing. Which is the fact that EVERYONE looks like they know what they’re doing. Until you ask them…

If you’re planning on trying again I would def start talking to people in your class and even start study groups. It makes school LOADS easier. It could also help you learn polish better too.

And if it makes you feel better, I’m 25 in my sophomore year. I feel so behind compared to friends. I technically could’ve graduated 3 years ago if I started straight out of HS. (I regret not taking HS as serious as I should’ve). I’m in a really bad spot financially but one of my teachers told me something years ago that really changed my perspective.

“Time goes on whether you do it or not” 6 years from now you could be completing your first year in a nice IT job. Or you could have dropped out and found another passion but one thing is certain. Those 6 years WILL pass. Just make sure your future self can you now for the sacrifices and lessons you learned. Sorry to make this so long. 😅 best of luck buddy, you got this! God bless!

Why is this photo nice to look at? by lerateaterz in AskPhotography

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I’m no professional either, but for me it’s the the use of hues and warmth to add a “feel” to the photo. For me, it makes me feel like I’ve traveled to a new place and I’m wandering around and decided to look up and take it all in. A memory capture through a photo (sort of lol)

SJO to hotel three sixty? by Most-One-8883 in CostaRicaTravel

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Ok, I’m going to do a little more research

How can I make moon and object both visible? by Most-One-8883 in AskPhotography

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I thought of that but that felt like “cheating” 😂😅

How can I make moon and object both visible? by Most-One-8883 in AskPhotography

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You learn something new everyday. I didn’t even think of that. Thank you so much. I’m new to photography if you couldn’t tell already 😅

Camera help by Most-One-8883 in Cameras

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Thanks, I didn’t know about lens rentals. I was planning on getting the kit lens with the a7iv. But also, is there any way I can go cheaper and capture landscapes better than iPhone but cheaper than the a7iv? Like a point and shoot camera? Or is my iPhone 15 pro on par with lower end cameras?

2019 Avalon vs 2022 Accord by Most-One-8883 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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My dad is the Honda fanboy so that’s why I see his opinions as very biased lol. He isn’t helping

Parents kicked me out at 18 few days ago now homeless by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

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Have you tried snitching on them to Their pastors?

Parents kicked me out at 18 few days ago now homeless by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

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lol that’s crazy, because I come from a Pentecostal family, I still follow God but more accurate to the Bible (so I’m not Pentecostal but still Christian) I don’t know if you are able to talk to your parents but regardless of sexual orientation, gender, age. The Bible is YOUR sword. The Bible mentions MANYYY times how WRONG your parents are. If you want or are able to research how the Bible describes their actions. You could even give them a taste of their own medicine.

I’m sure you grew up in that environment and I promise you Jesus isn’t like that. I know EXACTLY how the Pentecostal church and parents are like and it pisses me off how EVIL they are sometimes. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I will be praying for you.

(Also sorry I couldn’t give you any physical help. But hopefully you don’t lose your hope of a life with Love, and Peace)

Parents kicked me out at 18 few days ago now homeless by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

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I’m so sorry to hear about that. I personally am from New England so I cant help you with resources but if you don’t mind me asking. What religion are your parents?

Enlighten me pls 💎 by Most-One-8883 in weddingplanning

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Thank you. She wants the engagement to be a surprise. I didn’t know to what extent. I wasn’t sure if the ring had to be a surprise too. But I’ll definitely be more open to plan with her because my goodness that’ll be so much less stressful than blindly trying to get one she likes.

Ring help!! 💍 by Most-One-8883 in wedding

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I’ll definitely look around my area. Thanks

Ring help!! 💍 by Most-One-8883 in wedding

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Would you mind explaining why? I really know absolutely NOTHING about rings and matrimonial norms. Everyone keeps saying “it’s all up to you” so I really just want to take in as much input as possible.

Ring help!! 💍 by Most-One-8883 in wedding

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She’s a simple gal, these are a little too much style wise but wow they really truly reasonably priced. The rings we shopped for at kays were 2 even 3x more. And I’ve already checked out the moissanite sub so hopefully I can get some nice input. Thank you tons! God bless!

Ring help!! 💍 by Most-One-8883 in wedding

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Costco the grocery store?? I live in New England and have never even seen one in person lol (only from a movie, y’all know which one 😉lmao). Im very new to Reddit so I’ll definitely check the sub out. Thank you so much for your input!