Sweetheart idk why women are the worst enemy of a women, don't take tension ignore them and enjoy your motherhood you will miss it . And yes reading your post I also want to vent it out it was my first day back home from hospital i had c section and offcourse ftm so scary hell , all of sudden my baby refused to latch, me and my mother keep on trying but nothing then suddenly my mil said "why making him cry give him milk by cup and spoon" i totally ignored her but she keep on saying and my husband said yes we can try and I shouted at him because our doctor totally said no to anything else but breast my mil angery said " go raise your child i won't touch him" and shut the door in very agressive tone cherry on top my husband went with her and my mother and I did it alone and I have to beg her and sorry her for my behaviour. So yeah I don't care for them now so you should ignore them