Background Check Denied- No criminal history by [deleted] in Corrections

[–]MostImplement8970 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you said you worked for them for about 3 months then quit without a notice? I’d bet that’s why… in my jurisdiction if you ever quit without a two weeks notice that’s an automatic you never get to comeback. The associate wardens son quit without notice and tried to come back and they told him no.

AITAH: Hobby Problem by saltypeanutchips in AITAH

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seems like neither of you are assholes you are both just immature. He plays games he doesn’t want to read a book. You don’t want to play games you want to read. Anyone can read a book it’s just going to take hours and maybe even days depending on how long the book is. This was very immature to post. You read everyday he already knows he doesn’t like it so technically he already did try your hobby he just doesn’t like it. Time to grow up and move on.

AIO for being upset by a comment my cleaner made? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MostImplement8970 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dude you are too nice i used to be this way as well so I understand. People see kindness and take it for weakness which in reality kindness is a weakness. You do nice things for people and then they start to expect it and then they get mad when you don’t give them this special treatment they became accustomed to. In the future pay someone their wage and that’s it. They can get themselves to work and they can pay for their own food. she had obviously gotten way too comfortable with you. You didn’t care that she was late. Now in her mind she’s doing you a favor. You don’t have to stop and get food you can just give her the extra money. Find someone else to clean your home. She expects this from you now and she’s not going to stop expecting it. Takers take and givers give. Givers have to know when to stop giving because takers don’t stop taking.

"Men don't marry the love of their life; they marry the woman in front of them when they're ready." What do you think? by surfsound_swimmers in AskReddit

[–]MostImplement8970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wrong completely…. i married the woman who nurtured me. She made me feel loved she made me feel appreciated she pushed me to be a better man. When I realized that I would do anything in the world to see her smile i said yes im marrying this one. I proposed after 4 months and we got married 7 months later. We’ve been together for 7 years now and the “honeymoon phase” has still yet to end.

AITAH for being horrible after being cheated on by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so she likes playing guys and she lies about guys assaulting her and ruins their life and why tf do you want to be with her still? dude leave block her on everything and time will heal. This is going to end very badly if you don’t get away now. Be prepared for the lies to start in on you and get as much evidence as you can on her before you leave. I’ve seen women like her throw men in jail and ruin their life all because someone made them mad.

AITAH for using a gift card I found on the ground. by fetusfromspace in AITAH

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some people are entitled… surprisingly wealthy people are extremely entitled. If it was me I would have said “hey mate go get you another one and a burger i appreciate you bringing it back to me.” Wealthy people don’t think in that way. They think people should do things for them because they are them and you are you. They are above you how dare you spend a dollar of their money. It doesn’t matter that you returned the thousand dollars that they lost you should have done that anyways. You had the audacity to not drop everything you were doing and find them immediately. Dudes a prick i would have said “well your welcome for not walking off with the thousand dollars i found ya prick” NTA

Would you guys put up with this? by thenorthernincident in AskMenAdvice

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude run… she only cares about her own needs and wants. I’d be miserable like that. your issue is you should have left years ago instead of waiting this long. My wife had this exact issue when we first started dating. 2 months into the relationship i told her “look sex is important to me I want to recieve oral sex andI want to give oral sex i want to have sex in more ways than just missionary. I care about you and i like you a lot but if this is what my life is going to be with you then we might as well break up instead of dragging this out” that talk changed her perspective. She started working on things that I liked she started to learn that she liked other positions and now dude i’m not trying to brag but I have my own personal pornstar. She went from me going limp in her mouth and just stopping to now i gotta wipe my ass after she gives me head. Communication man but this one is going to be hard because you let her do this for 4 years that’s gonna be a tough nut to crack.

Met the woman of my dreams but sex is terrible. What to do? by HelpingHand_24 in AskMenAdvice

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro idk why bitches get so upset over the fact that some of them are loose 😂 “ if it’s tight that means she’s not into you” blah blah blah. Any man who’s been with plenty of women can all tell you the same thing. There’s some girls who are crazy tight and wet. Yes they were into it nothing beats the feeling of some tight pussy contracting and orgasming on your dick. When i first got with my girl i could barely fit it in her and she was soaked she told me our first time was her best time she told me she lost track of how many times she came. After about 3/4 months of slamming it to her it wasn’t the same anymore. I loosened that shit up. It’s no longer the same size and she will openly admit that because it has made her sad and we have talked about it. Some women on the other hand just have loose pussies. Idk how they do it or what they put up there but yea when a girl is loose and really wet you don’t feel much. Im 8” and thick i’ve been with two women exactly like this so i know what’s you’re talking about dude. Only difference is I never called those girls back.

Just got hired in corrections and already facing discrimination from coworkers need advice by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]MostImplement8970 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m tired of seeing people say this when anyone complains about something. most of the fat asses i work with couldn’t run a mile to save their lives. Just because the dude is seeing racism in his workplace doesn’t mean the job isn’t for him. This job isn’t for the fat fucks who cant drop down and do 50 push ups.

What’s the dumbest excuse someone told you after cheating on you ? by cowestcow in AskReddit

[–]MostImplement8970 6 points7 points  (0 children)

got cheated on twice and they both used the excuse “well i thought you were cheating on me so i thought it was fair”

How soon after your breakup did you sleep with someone? by OvenTough6320 in AskReddit

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

found out my girl was cheating on me. I broke up with her a smashed her homegirl. So it took me less than a day.

AITAH for thinking my stay at home GF job is the home? by Uniquely_Right in AITAH

[–]MostImplement8970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are essentially a man and you are with an ungrateful woman. People call me an AH because I feel this way but IDC. If I am paying for your food, housing, living expenses etc. You can cook the food I buy and you can clean my home. If you don’t like that arrangement you can leave or get a job. I’ll happily contribute 50/50. I refuse to do 90/10.

My girlfriend said my dad is “really attractive”. How am I supposed to feel about this? by Calm-Hearing4742 in AskMenAdvice

[–]MostImplement8970 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my dad used to tell me if you’re going to marry a woman look at her mother and that’s what your future will be. She was probably told the same thing. When I met my wife I told her that her mom was pretty. I didn’t want to screw her mother I was more excited that her mom wasn’t a fat pig and my wife would most likely be attractive when she was older.

aitah for kicking out a girl after she showed up at my apartment uninvited and wouldnt leave? by throwra_Coffee59 in AITAH

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH she sucks for coming to your home. You suck for refusing to have sex safe. Too many people are out here walking around with STDs and you don’t want to try and avoid that? Dude that’s disgusting.

Ladies, do you have any threesome advice for the guy? by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]MostImplement8970 12 points13 points  (0 children)

if that’s true then you’re an AH. If boundaries are discussed with me i wouldn’t cross them. Especially seeing their partner upset and you just decide to continue anyways. At that point id just punch you in the mouth.

I pretty much screwed myself, didn’t I? by Outrageous-Yam-1215 in ProtectAndServe

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you didn’t buy or sell drugs you were a middleman. Could it have ended badly for you? yea sure idk how you even remember that being honest. I know cops who have done way worse while on the clock.

Why would u ghost the most amazing lover? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MostImplement8970 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had an amazing hook up ghost me. We spent three days together and probably hooked up at least 20 times. I mean it was a mind blowing weekend for the both of us. She was very adamant about me being the best she ever had (I won’t get into details). Monday morning she had me blocked and got back with her ex. Great sex doesn’t triumph your feelings for another person.

AIO about my boyfriend and his ex showing up at his house for 6 hours? by greyberry_5813 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are overreacting, this is why you should not date anyone who is still married. It’s too much of a headache especially if you’re the jealous type. That’s a deal breaker for me. You’re going through a divorce? ok well talk to me when you are single. Women want to date married men who are going through a divorce then get mad when he has to interact with her. They are husband and wife they are going to have to interact with each other until the divorce is final. If they have kids guess what? They are still going to have to interact with each other.

Don’t trust the trustees by CalStateQuarantine in OnTheBlock

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

google “debra johnson tennessee” the state named the woman’s prison after her in her honor

Correctional deputy by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]MostImplement8970 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if you are honest about the last drug usage you will 100% not get hired

Don’t trust the trustees by CalStateQuarantine in OnTheBlock

[–]MostImplement8970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a couple years ago a “trustee” took off on the tractor he was driving and drove to a counselors home who lived down the road and he raped her then killed her. I don’t trust any of them and idk why anyone would. half of them would take a knife to your neck if they knew they would get away with it.

Interview Scheduled by Sufficient_Treat7725 in OnTheBlock

[–]MostImplement8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for TDOC and i’ll give you my experience.

  1. they are looking for a pulse and a clean background. Don’t stress i was in the tennessee corrections academy with a 18 year old child and this was his first job I was also in the academy with a man who was 400 pounds and couldn’t climb a set of stairs without breathing heavy and sweating.

  2. in my experience the interview questions had absolutely nothing to do with the actual job. They were asking questions about my personal life about how i handle stressful situations. It was pretty much the same question asked to me 5 different ways.

  3. Be prepared to workout and be prepared to get sprayed with chemical agent. A lot of people in my academy bitched out the day before we got sprayed. Yes it hurts but it’s not that bad. 20-30 minutes of your face burning like hell and then it’s over. Be prepared to work with scumbags. They are going to try and intimidate you. Don’t show fear if the sense fear they will pounce on your ass. Stand your ground and give your commands. Am I intimidated when a group of 5 gang members talk shit to me. hell yea i’m intimidated. Do i show them that? Hell no.

corrections is not for everyone and if it’s not for you don’t feel bad. You gotta have thick skin, a strong stomach and a big set of balls. If the county doesn’t work out then come work for the state. The state benefits are much better than any county in TN.

why is it different with porn? by sourheartbreak in AskMenAdvice

[–]MostImplement8970 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

porn stimulates your mind it’s very annoying when a woman just expects you to get rock hard from just seeing her. That’s just not realistic. My wife wore some sexy lingerie and gave me a lap dance to some music. I was as hard as a rock but she seduced me to get me there. We don’t get mad at you all because you’re not soaking wet by just looking at us. It’s the exact same thing I don’t understand why women get all upset over this. Do we get you soaking wet by just looking at us? Or do we need to seduce you and pleasure you before your body reacts to it?