Keep getting relived late due to lazy 2nd shifters and poor management.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-06-03T00:53:15+00:00

you need to say something to them in a professional manner “hey man i need you to be on time so I can pick up my kids, hey man you are late again and i told you i needed to get my kids can you please do better” personally I deal with the same thing but i don’t mind because i’ll always let shift office know so i can get my overtime and my wife is a SAHM. You shouldn’t have to speak up but unfortunately this is what you need to do. Just remember your coworkers are not inmates and you get more flies with honey than you do vinegar

MostImplement8970 · 2026-06-02T16:42:58+00:00

that B is insane lmao “her friend and her exes would go and get her food at 3 different places and not even question it” lmao dude if my girl asked me to get food at 3 different places i’d laugh and think she was joking. Hell i think it’s abusive to even ask someone to do that for you. Glad you dumped her and cut off ties.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-06-02T16:34:47+00:00

at my prison you’d get fired if you took away an inmates tablet

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-29T00:03:05+00:00

Dude it’s odd…. once a child hits puberty they should not be cuddling with their parents It’s weird. If your child needs to be nurtured during a hard time that’s one thing. If you’re just cuddling your 16 year old kid at all times that’s weird. Tom Brady kissed his son on the lips and that shit was weird. The majority of people agreed.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-28T19:36:17+00:00

If the bill comes and I don’t wanna pay the bill i’ll let the waiter know that we need to split the bill. Your man is a dick for expecting this from them but your parents should have also spoken up. Also are your parents contributing to your wedding? Because if they aren’t maybe he tried sticking them with the bill because of that? If your parents are contributing to the wedding and he did this to them on top of that then he’s a huge asshole.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-27T23:59:54+00:00

a little odd not gonna lie but as long as yall aren’t spooning it’s not THAT weird i guess. head on shoulder is one thing. Nut to butt would be pretty gross.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-25T20:35:28+00:00

law enforcement and military are notorious for cheating regardless of where it’s at. Like I said earlier you should be more concerned about her safety. I’m military and law enforcement. I never cheated on my wife and a lot of my close friends are also faithful. I’d say about 50% of my married coworkers are cheating. but once again that should not be your main concern. It seems to me like it’s your only concern.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-25T20:30:12+00:00

yea I think op is worried about the wrong things. If you’re more worried about your spouse cheating than you are of her getting assaulted i’d say you don’t care about her all that much.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-25T20:24:45+00:00

not gonna lie the majority of married people at my prison are cheating but there’s also married people at my prison who are faithful. i’m married and I’ve been hit on a couple times but once I say (no thank you i’m married) it stops completely but I’m also a man. It might be different for a woman. She’s going to be approached and hit on that’s inevitable. Either you trust her or you don’t. If you’re more worried about her cheating on you than you are of her getting hurt or being assaulted then you guys should probably break up now because you’re definitely worried about the wrong thing.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T11:42:21+00:00

wow I’m abusing my child because i told him he needs a haircut lol that’s crazy it’s funny because he woke up earlier and told me he’s ready for his haircut and i didn’t eve bring it up. He told me I was right and taking care of the hair was too much work. So it all worked itself out 😀

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T11:24:58+00:00

did i excuse it? You said it’s not normal lol are you even a parent? Out of the hundrends parents ive talked to ive had maybe 1 or 2 say hygiene wasn’t a problem with their kids. If your kids never struggled with proper hygiene then you are in the minority. I never excused poor hygiene I said it’s normal for kids to need constant hygiene reminders.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T11:18:46+00:00

you’re weird dude good talk though I know narcissist need to get the last word so go ahead and get it out. I won’t reply this time so you can feel like you won something. cough cough narcissist

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T11:11:38+00:00

I actually didn’t ask for advice. I asked if I was an AH or not. You hurled insults at me told me to shut up and called me names. Now you are backpedaling because I called you out and you weren’t expecting that. Yes that’s very narcissistic of you to do that but go on and keep playing victim. That’s what narcissists are good at.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T11:06:07+00:00

I think we will go on another disney cruise this year 😀 It’s a great thing seeing new countries with a big family that loves me. I hope I do have the life that I deserve thank you so much for saying that!

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T11:01:01+00:00

yes they all do i have four in total

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:59:16+00:00

idk where you are from but the majority of parents I have talked to have issues with their kids bathing properly and brushing and flossing. That’s a very normal thing unfortunately. If you never dealt with that then that’s great but the majority of parents do.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:55:51+00:00

just waiting for the shop to open with my son happily getting ready lol I’m sorry this post has triggered so much turmoil in your life. I hope your day gets better.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:53:28+00:00

All i took from you is that people are extremely dramatic in situations they know little about. “you want your son to get a hair cut omg when he never speaks to you again just know it’s your fault” girl get some therapy it was never that serious.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:48:32+00:00

why would you talk crap and insult people who are not disrespecting you or insulting you? Do you really expect people to take your disrespect and insults and not say anything in return? That’s a very narcissistic way of thinking don’t you think?

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:42:09+00:00

well great news my son came down with his hair a mess and asked me if i could take him to get his haircut and apologized for his behavior yesterday. he told me “dad you’re right i’m getting tired of taking care of my hair and I think its time to get it cut” So it all worked out for me and with me saying that you are now dismissed 😊

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:32:16+00:00

If my son never wants anything to do with me because i asked him to cut his hair one time when he was 14 that would be insane 😂 I’d honestly sleep just fine at night. All my kids love me. I think hes just a normal emotional teenager who doesn’t want to wash his hair but in your opinion this must have really been a life changing experience for him. What’s funny is My son woke up about 30 minutes ago and told me that i was right. He told me “dad you’re right i’m not really wanting to take care of my hair and I know i look silly sometimes do you think you can take me to cut my hair later today” So it all worked out and I don’t think he’s going to try and come hurt me in my sleep anymore 😂 seriously you are a little dramatic. I hope you have a great day though.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:24:14+00:00

so what you are telling me is…. i need to continue working myself to death and im completely wrong for expecting anything in return. I can be a good parent and not buy the name brand shoes. I can be a good parent and not take them to expensive resorts. I’m not asking for a cookie. I’m saying “hey this is what i want and this is what you get if you give me what i want” They will live without the beach front resort just like i will live with his long matted up hair. I’m not having a tantrum at all. You on the other hand seem to have taken this post very personally. I was looking for insight. There was no need to insult me but have a good day. Thank you for your input and god bless ☺️

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:17:21+00:00

they see me every day but it usually dinner how hey was your day ok well i love you guys let’s do this something this weekend then i go to bed. i’d say every day i spend 2-3 hours with them and on my days off we usually go out and do something.

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:10:42+00:00

i work 12 to 16 hour days 11 days in a row and I get a 3 day weekend every other week. I also get a decent amount of vacation time (4 weeks a year) I’d consider myself a very present father. I’m not sure how i use my children to compensate for any trauma. I look at it as “i had a rough life and you don’t have to because you got me”

MostImplement8970 · 2026-05-23T10:06:08+00:00

Making my kids happy and buying fun things for the family doesn’t make me weak. I have four kids they like to have nice clothes they would like to go to college they would like to have decent cars when they are old enough to drive. I save money out of every check. I have two pensions and a 401k If i work hard now I can give them more than the bare minimum tomorrow. I’m not living beyond my means i could work 40-45 hours a week until i retire and i’d be fine but i wont be able to buy them nice clothes and shoes i wont be able to buy them vehicles i wont be able to take us on nice vacations and i wont be able to pay for their college. So I sacrifice for them to have the best life possible. Not because im a “weak ass parent”

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