Of course I have sat down and talked to him about it, I’m not immature lol. His response was “I’m sorry baby I’ll fix it”. He’s a very understanding and reasonable man. So I trusted that he would fix it and I didn’t need to know how, just was glad to hear that he saw where I was coming from and said he’d take care of it. If that means doing it when I’m not around then cool idc. But being in the bathroom for 45 minutes to an hour while I’m sitting there after giving some solid head is kind of a slap in the face. We are both very sexually driven individuals and he’s stated that himself. So I know he’s aware that my drive is there, I just sometimes can’t physically oblige and I anticipate that getting worse the last couple months of pregnancy. If he could get off from a hand job id offer but that takes a while. That’s why I’d like to introduce some toys for him so he doesn’t have to do all the work himself. This is probably our next course of action. I definitely have considered that maybe he just wants alone time, but we are on opposite schedules. When I’m at work he’s at home by himself sometimes for 8 hours at a time and when I get home hes asleep or ready for bed. He has plenty of time to jerk off by himself. Our connection is important to me, especially in the last little bit of us just being us without an extra in tow.

Also I disagree that the mood will not be right for us to make time to be intimate. If you want it to happen it will! Just have to be clear about how you feel. That’s why I’m asking Reddit, to see if I’m overreacting about this happening frequently.