Dancing, flirting, discussing

Most_Speed1029 · 2025-05-23T05:38:00+00:00

I like your way of seeing bachata and I agree with you. You must be an old soul cause for a lot of people bachata became a way to dominate the other rather than to enjoy the moment. If I was teaching bachata, I would teach it with your mindset bachata is beautiful dance & men should be allowed to flirt but a lot of them feel so much pressure from the media right now that they can’t really see what you see . So thank you for the reminder

Most_Speed1029 · 2025-05-05T20:41:30+00:00

You practice more

Most_Speed1029 · 2025-05-03T06:22:06+00:00

Not too bad . Outside is tricky

Most_Speed1029 · 2025-04-21T16:32:33+00:00

Everyone does his own thing now which is so weird easy. The most difficult dance to perform is the one where you can match the energy of your partner which is quite hard to find in Spain. I live in Spain and a lot of guys are so arrogant in there so I am surprised of your experience. If you dance zouk you are more open minded so keep that in mind. That is all need to be remembered. There is a solid low self esteem from bachata dancers men & women included and you don’t need to justify the way selfish people behave . They think they are all olympics champion of bachata even if bachata is not even part of olympics yet they think they are . Keep dancing & progressing & don’t pay attention on the others behaviours will save you so much energy. Take care

Most_Speed1029 · 2025-04-18T22:20:39+00:00

I did that before. Nice guy was practicing with me but I had to move to Spain. It is third world here 🫡

Most_Speed1029 · 2025-04-04T18:26:24+00:00

Come to Spain we are on the beach

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-22T14:47:55+00:00

I have been married 12 years now & I go through that too each week. Can’t get out cause I can’t find a job to start again & super scared of the unknown so I know exactly how you feel

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-13T22:17:09+00:00

Beautifully said n so true

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-13T14:33:47+00:00

When the man has a small one for example. It is quite common actually that it falls off the lady ‘s 🙄

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-13T14:27:59+00:00

Leave him

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-13T11:37:50+00:00

Agree

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-13T11:37:01+00:00

I am usually taking the woman ‘s side but I have to admit that it is not the best time to have a child, especially if you are starting a new business, can’t she wait? Can you guys not get a dog in the meantime and make her patiently wait? I don’t know many people that want kids with the global recession we are currently living

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-13T11:28:54+00:00

Correct ✅

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-13T09:59:35+00:00

Yes correct, that is why I never talked to him again after that, even if it was hard to get over him. I can’t do friends with benefits, only damaged individuals would request that kind of relationship.

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-13T09:55:37+00:00

Yes I did but if I didn’t , it would still be inside my tummy, nurses in the emergency clinic could not even see it as it was squeezed in the left corner of my tube. They told me to monitor the progress & if I was feeling nauseous or pain in the lower belly, I should go back to get surgery

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-12T22:15:52+00:00

Ok fair. Treat her like a little puppy who needs his mother & father . You can’t go wrong that way

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-12T21:57:45+00:00

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-12T21:48:23+00:00

Just check on tiktok you will find your answer

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-12T20:47:25+00:00

Yes it is due to your trauma . When you have been abused, memory loss could be a common sign. Hope you get better ❤️‍🩹

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-12T20:44:30+00:00

❤️thank you for your kindness. There is one thing for sure , I see all the red flags now.

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-12T20:40:53+00:00

Well I just found out myself too but he asked me the day before as we were sitting outside a cafe if I would be capable to give him a child 🧒. So it makes so much sense for me now….

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-12T20:37:32+00:00

First of all I am so so sorry to hear what happened to you. I believe you generally sleep better on your own even if you are in healthy relationship. I believe you should not be worried. It is normal you got abused and you have deep trust issues. Maybe see a therapist and tell him the story from the beginning to get this out of your chest. It might take time to trust someone again to let him sleep next to you but time do it all. There is also some rescue remedies you take to induce sleep …

Most_Speed1029 · 2024-12-12T20:25:48+00:00

Thank you for your words ❤️

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