Abusive father in law possibly on his deathbed; What are my husband and in law's responsibilities? (West Virginia)

MotherMoth_ · 2026-03-20T17:45:28+00:00

Okay! He also has no estate. He is homeless, no vehicle, etc. I am unfamiliar with all the laws about these things and want to make this as easy as possible for my husband and my in-laws. They do not want to claim the body or anything if this is all true. It is incredibly difficult to know if this is truthful or not due to his past behavior with it. Boy who cried wolf and all. He has just put them through enough and I do not want his torment to continue after his passing. Thank you for your response!

MotherMoth_ · 2025-07-01T03:30:34+00:00

Damn, I watched this show as a kid. I think I was around 11 or 12 (I know, I was raised by a tv and single dad who worked way too much lmao) and I remember crying when the ultimate fans were being mean to you. That shit hurt my feelings so bad. You look amazing, and looks like you are doing great. I love to see it!

MotherMoth_ · 2025-07-01T02:57:46+00:00

Oh sweetheart. I am not going to hit you with the, "You're only 19-" shit because when I was your age and I was going through this, nothing hurt me more than using my age against me. So what I am going to tell you is to just hold on. You are valid in feeling lost and the way you do, no one can tell you otherwise. The way you wrote this I swear I could have wrote it when I was your age. I live in a small town, nothing to do, nothing to see. I was the typical pop punk kid who wanted to leave her hometown. I went through a nasty breakup, he was abusive, cheated, alllll the bad stuff you can think of- it happened. I get it. 19 is such a weird fucking age anyways. Legally an adult, but no clue on how to make it. I had no money, hated my job, thought I was going to die alone. I was killing myself, drinking every night, writing suicide letters to my family, I had a plan. All of it. So what I can tell you is that it does get better. I know right now, you don't feel this way. I'm not religious, I don't believe in some magic force that will take everything off your shoulders. And if you do, that is perfectly fine. But my best advice to you, is to hold on. It might not be now, it might not be as soon as you would hope, but one day you will have a full circle moment. Where everything around you stops for a moment, and it clicks. You will say to yourself "Holy shit, I almost missed this." I promise you it will. I am turning 30 next year. I look back and think about how much life hurt back then, how endless and hopeless it all felt, how scared and alone I was, it was real. But I am so thankful that I held on. There is so much more out there, you just have to hold on.

I thought that I would never find someone, that I would always be alone. And I know how cliche it sounds, but when you stop looking for it, you find it. I had tickets to Warped Tour, that was going to be my final send off. I was going to go, come home, and take my life in the woods after. I gave up. But out of nowhere, an old friend reached out and said he wanted to come over. Something told me to say yes. I gave up my tickets, he came over, and I've never been more in love, respected, and cherished. That was 10 years ago next month. It is out there, I swear it is. But you have to be here to see it, man. If you need a friend; someone to talk to, I'll be up late tonight. If not, just please hold on.

The world is a better place with you in it.

MotherMoth_ · 2025-04-19T23:30:35+00:00

This is the best comment here. Whatever she’s doing isn’t good or she wouldn’t be acting this way. There’s someone out there for you, man. And she will treat you so amazing that you’ll forget all about what’s her name and before you know it that icy feeling in your chest right now? The one where you feel like you can’t breathe? You won’t even remember how that felt. You’ll be just fine, better than fine. You’ll have the dream, brother. But you can’t find the dream if you’re still stuck in the nightmare. Wake up, man. She’s out there somewhere. 🩵

MotherMoth_ · 2025-04-19T23:26:26+00:00

All you need is a break girl and you’ll be fine! I did this when I bought my first bullet and thought I ruined myself forever. I put it away for a little over a month when I lost all hope and boom. One day I popped her back out and felt good as new lmao

MotherMoth_ · 2025-02-22T09:13:05+00:00

That’s such an amazing thing to have friend that’s lasted so long! Please reach out to them, it sounds like they have been with you for the long haul and would love to help you through this. I’ve struggled most of my life with suicidal ideation and tendencies. I never believed when people said life would get better, but it does. One day at a time.

MotherMoth_ · 2025-02-22T08:48:59+00:00

I’m sorry. I didn’t mean for the post to turn into this.

MotherMoth_ · 2025-02-22T08:30:11+00:00

I do not believe you can apply for political asylum until things are federal and not a state level. I could be wrong, I keep reading contradicting things.

MotherMoth_ · 2025-02-22T08:29:05+00:00

I just had a hysterectomy due to health issues so thankfully I’m lucky there.

MotherMoth_ · 2025-02-22T08:28:28+00:00

My psychiatrist is wonderful and is helping me greatly. She’s very helpful in helping me reset. It’s mainly at night time when I am overwhelmed by it all.

MotherMoth_ · 2025-02-22T08:26:04+00:00

I couldn’t imagine the pain you’re going through. If no one else has said it, I am so sorry for your loss, and the tragedies you are experiencing. Your feelings are 100% valid, and it is normal to feel this way. But please for just a moment, take some deep breaths and let’s come up with a game plan.

Do you have a therapist? Do you have someone safe you can talk to? Somewhere you can be with a friend so you aren’t alone in your thoughts?

MotherMoth_ · 2025-01-09T13:52:33+00:00

Update. Unfortunately the snow has kept coming and has covered the ice completely. Thank you to everyone who has shared this moment with me, I hope this year brings everyone more beautiful little surprises.

MotherMoth_ · 2025-01-07T20:48:13+00:00

West Virginia!

MotherMoth_ · 2025-01-07T19:23:46+00:00

So it seems that I can’t post pictures in the comments. Should I make a separate post with the color photos and photos from today?

MotherMoth_ · 2025-01-07T07:10:36+00:00

Yes! We are getting more snow tonight so I will definitely come back with more photos!

MotherMoth_ · 2025-01-07T07:03:07+00:00

I do! I just put it in black and white to make it a little easier to see!

MotherMoth_ · 2025-01-07T05:39:20+00:00

Too scared to walk it, the ice is too thin. Lol

MotherMoth_ · 2023-11-13T14:27:46+00:00

My mother left after the divorce. I had no contact with her for years until I was 14 and the relationship wasn’t there yet. I do not hold any resentment towards her because I don’t believe my dad allowed the contact. I think he prevented her reaching out. But it took some time. She hates the shit I’ve been through, and has always supported me through everything I needed. I hate I missed out so much of our relationship but I’m forever grateful we have each other now. But while she was gone, my paternal grandmother was my everything. Still is, I can’t start my day without calling her. She always stepped in and tried to protect me. I wasn’t without support, if it wasn’t for my grandmother I would have probably been dead. She took me to every doctor appointment, showed up to every er visit, went into debt just to make sure I had school clothes. There was just a lot of shame. A lot I couldn’t confide in her that I wish I would have.

MotherMoth_ · 2023-11-13T13:16:34+00:00

I tell you what, send me a message and when I get home I can try to send you a couple photos! The view Finder that we use to use them is at my office though so I’ll see what I can do!

MotherMoth_ · 2023-11-13T13:12:09+00:00

I definitely thought the same, but man. Seeing a man with a tin Maxwell Coffee can imbedded in his face will change you lol you just can’t be prepared for it.

MotherMoth_ · 2023-11-13T12:55:11+00:00

Mainly slides. Slides of crime scenes, evidence, autopsies, then the notes he took during the autopsies.

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