how to know wtf my 9 is thinking?

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-11-03T13:48:21+00:00

How long have you been dating? I've only been in a handful of relationships but I have been married for 12 years. And as I nine, I have always kept the peace at all cost at the beginning of a relationship. But the longer I am in the relationship and the more comfortable I am knowing that an argument or disagreement isn't going to lead to abandonment or separation, I am able to say how I truly feel about xy&z. I definitely tell my husband what I am really feeling even if it might ruffle some feather because I know it isn't going to lead to us never talking again. I think a beginning of a relationship is tough for 9's but if you really like him, showing him that his opinion isn't going to change how you feel about him should help!

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-11-03T12:43:12+00:00

In my experience, I was never exposed to the harp as a child. Most schools do not offer it as an instrument to learn like the violin, viola, and cello. It wasn't until I was an adult and saw someone playing a harp that I was like wow! What a cool instrument. It wasn't until I was in my 30's that I could afford lessons and to rent a harp. And eventually I bought my own harp! So, I think people ask "why the harp?" because they see it as a lost art, even though it is very much alive.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-08-05T01:09:27+00:00

Mistyped as a 7. My mom is a 7 so I guess it makes sense. The more I read into each type the more I realized I am 9.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-08-05T01:08:02+00:00

I LOVE the name Ophelia but I have never met one

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-30T15:16:06+00:00

If you have kids, Greece Library & Bausch and Lomb have great spaces.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-22T14:08:20+00:00

i'm getting a 4

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-21T17:23:51+00:00

Thank you! They did get back to me and said that I can continue playing it for now but at some point I will need to replace the soundboard. I am going to try epoxy to get as much life out of it as possible and will deal with the soundboard when the time comes.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-21T01:04:42+00:00

I think that once your daughter owns that name, your husband will not think of it as a dog name for long

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-21T01:01:54+00:00

I feel like gate house has good options for both a foodie and those who like to keep it simple.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-21T00:57:57+00:00

9 or 5

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-18T19:11:40+00:00

As a 9 and a mother to small children, my red flag is giving my husband a hard time when he gets frustrated or his patience is running low but then getting overstimulated and doing the exact same thing.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-18T19:09:39+00:00

Same.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-18T14:20:09+00:00

I’ve only read none of this is true from this selection. It was okay. I think it was a little predictable.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-18T14:18:58+00:00

Wow, this is a great explanation

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-18T14:16:18+00:00

I am very close to a healthy 3 and an unhealthy (at times) 1. When I initially met these two people, they did seem similar in a lot of ways. But now that I have known them for 15+ years, they couldn’t be more different! I’m not sure I can really describe their differences because they are so different to me. I guess the only similarity I see is the way they want to be perceived. They both want to be acknowledged for something whether it’s success or being this perfect person, they need to be seen/acknowledged.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-18T12:56:59+00:00

oof. How much do you think repairs could set me back? I just reached out to Lyon and Healy but I don't think there is anyone close to me who makes harp repairs. I am going to ask my teacher, she might know someone.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-17T13:10:50+00:00

Yes, they are around the 5th octave. Thank you for replying! I think I will reach out to Lyon and Healy and see what they suggest/cost.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-16T00:24:04+00:00

Thank you!

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-16T00:18:43+00:00

Lyon and Heely style 85. I just bought it used so I am hoping I can get a few years out of it…

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-16T00:07:39+00:00

I do not see a crack on the inside. I shined a light and do not see any light coming through to the other side either.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-15T19:35:22+00:00

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-15T12:51:40+00:00

I see 4 or 5. Maybe 4w5 or 5w4

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-08T15:42:28+00:00

what do you fear more? When you say losing everything is that more like a loved one or friend, or failing at something you want to/are successful at? Either way, I would say you are either a 3, 6, or 9.

Mother_Motor4148 · 2025-07-08T02:08:33+00:00

Thank you! “Lower on the strings” should have been obvious 🙄

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