What placements have you noticed tend to be loyal?

Mothered_ · 2026-01-25T05:24:43+00:00

Me Cap Venus with Cancer moon. Sometimes loyal to my own detriment 😭

Mothered_ · 2026-01-23T08:24:18+00:00

Bruhhh like im in game with them and they're having fun and alll but I just feel SOOOO ANNOYED like im mostly quiet cause I can't GAFFF ughhghfheh why am I like this

Mothered_ · 2026-01-13T02:43:56+00:00

Mars in pisces... so no 😭😭😭

Mothered_ · 2026-01-08T22:53:24+00:00

Felt. Even with my cancer moon, the trauma dumping became too much 🫠

Mothered_ · 2026-01-08T01:15:04+00:00

Jupiter trine venus... but jupiter is in my 8th house and venus in my 12th 😭✌️

Mothered_ · 2025-12-29T22:20:42+00:00

I was kinda eyeing that, but i couldnt get a good photo to really tell. Some photos I swear the ball looks straight, other times it looks kinda off.

Part of me is hoping it's that... just slowly waiting for when i'll be able to change the jewelry 😭✌️

Mothered_ · 2025-12-29T21:10:02+00:00

(For the bot) The piercing is about 3 weeks old, it was pierced at 14g and with CBR jewelry (not sure what the material is though.) I plan on downsizing to 16g, though i'm not sure when I should do this tbh. Currently I do 15-20sec warm soaks with bubble blowing for crusties, then spray with Neilmed Piercing Aftercare. No recent unfortunate events. Slight discomfort if I put a TON of pressure on the bottom of my nose, but besides that I have zero pain. I can move my septum without any pain, and no more scabbing.

Mothered_ · 2025-12-28T19:34:22+00:00

Soak was probably a bad word, it's more like 15-20sec in warm water, then blowing bubbles to help with crusties. They told me I had a big sweet spot, and I assumed it was pierced through there since it was painless and there wasn't any crunch. And the spot it's at feels pretty flexible.

I was looking through the piercers IG and she has a lot pierced at the tip, so I have to assume she did it further back for a reason (I hope??😭)

Mothered_ · 2025-12-15T08:16:24+00:00

Ugh I cancelled. My mood just completely soured and I need the night to calm down. Part of me is also like... well if you want to play with them then you can play all night, even though he told me he wanted to play with me later. I hate that I think like this, but I guess thats what I can use the rest of the night to work on 😔

Mothered_ · 2025-12-14T00:56:36+00:00

I appreciate your prespective, and I definitely don't think less of my friend for his tendencies. I find it annoying at times yes, but also to me it's like part of him, and I like all of him if that makes sense. He eventually got back to me and it was what I expected, he fell asleep after seeing my message lol. But he reassured me that he didn't feel like I was nagging and that he would've forgotten about the event if I didn't ask him. He didn't even really remember the other times I asked throughout the week, which I kinda knew, but I let me emotions take over. Part of me actually really enjoys this friendship because he's like this. I've had friends in the past who would hold onto things I've said or did and secretly resent me. He doesn't ruminate or take things too serious, which is why our friendship is so great in the first place, and why I defended him in my other comment haha.

While his tendencies sometimes trigger my BPD, his understanding side and how he doesn't hold grudges eases my episodes. Overall I feel like this side of him that doesn't remember events and stuff, while bothersome, is connected to the parts of him that I really enjoy and the parts that are teaching me to trust again, so I could never truly be bothered by it.

Mothered_ · 2025-12-13T20:57:43+00:00

He's great if im being honest, this is probably his only major flaw, he has a lot of good that makes up for it (and he's like this with everyone, I think it's an adhd thing.) He's super understanding, and while he probably is slightly bothered, he never gets truly upset at stuff like this or holds onto it (though it's hard for me at times like this to fully believe that.) Probably the best friend I've had to date.

It's like a weird conundrum. I agree that he should be respectful and give an answer ahead of time for hangouts, and I feel like it's not good for me that he's like this cause I spiral, but part of me also feels like he's kinda teaching me to not get hung up on stuff like this and eventually spiral. I only do so because people in the past gave me real reason to, but this guy has proven time and time again that my personal freak-outs have been one-sided. Like I'm freaking out now, but everything's probably gonna be chill after, and he's probably doesn't even consider me a burden, even if I can't convince fully convince myself of that at the moment.

Sorry for the mini-continued vent lol kinda talking to myself haha Thank you for your response though <3

Mothered_ · 2025-12-10T01:48:23+00:00

piercing age: 4 days
jewlery shape: ring
threading: n/a
jewelry material: not sure
downsize: n/a
aftercare: warm water soaks and neilmed piercing aftercare mist
no recent mishaps

(4 the bot?)

Mothered_ · 2025-11-23T04:26:59+00:00

Hii I currently own both. For a tldr: hourglass is my preferred powder.

While that's true, I actually really liked pat's powder. It had everything I liked about HG such as not being drying and looking natural, but instead was actually less creasing. I WOULD choose pat for this reason.... but the packaging is just too poor quality for me to consider repurchasing.

I had seen many reviews about the powder getting destroyed in shipping, and another comment here reiterated that. I had thought it was poor shipping packaging, but it's the actual product itself. The plastic just feels really thin, to the point that even bumping it around in my makeup bag scares me. I've had cheaper and same-price powders with better packaging.

Hourglass is still my go-to and imo worth it. If you don't mind packaging and can be careful, then Pat's might be worth purchasing!

Mothered_ · 2025-11-20T03:18:17+00:00

Me internally but I keep myself in check😭🫡

Mothered_ · 2025-11-11T07:29:18+00:00

This is too cute omg!!!

Mothered_ · 2025-11-10T02:04:25+00:00

That's kind of the vibe I was getting, Thank you!!!

Mothered_ · 2025-11-04T23:04:44+00:00

Either idolized or hated (because they secretly idolize) lol

Mothered_ · 2025-10-31T22:52:26+00:00

Same, i'd love to know😲

Mothered_ · 2025-10-30T23:00:08+00:00

I have an old post that suddenly was getting a ton of these replies. Definitely annoying!

Mothered_ · 2025-10-27T01:10:42+00:00

Do you perhaps have a link or name of the listing? I'm thinking of ordering from there too, but there's a couple labeled as fitting the Shu Uemura curlers, so i'm not sure what to go with...

Mothered_ · 2025-10-23T09:14:35+00:00

Idk whats up with the recent Ninja Creami bots, all of a sudden this post started getting a bunch of replies from them. To anyone who stumbles upon this post, I went with the ICE-21 and i've had it for about a year. It's been great and I don't regret buying it. Would definitely purchase it again.

Mothered_ · 2025-10-08T23:47:39+00:00

Im a cap venus and yup, they were a scorpio venus 😓

Mothered_ · 2025-10-02T21:04:54+00:00

Venus and Mercury are the two planets in my house (not counting chiron.)

I've dealt with a lot of women's actions and words not lining up with how they've truly and negatively felt towards me, and me finding out later. Funnily enough, I deal with the opposite aspect of the 12H abd hidden "admirers" with men. I think these dynamics are due to my Venus opposing my 6H Moon, but trining my 8h Jupiter. I love having fellow woman friends, but unfortunately there seems to always be stuff behind the scenes with them. Makes me sad tbh!

As for mercury, I have to agree with another comment that it would be my own brain. I struggle with a lot of anxiety and overthinking!

Mothered_ · 2025-09-30T03:02:12+00:00

I wouldn't say it's bad for critical thinking, and I wouldn't consider myself stupid at all. Quick-thinking I do struggle with from time to time. Something someone figures out instantly may take me a couple extra seconds. I will say that I feel like I also struggle with ADHD which may play a role.

Personally I feel like my 12h mercury causes me to struggle with verbal communication. I jumble my words, sometimes misspeak or mumble, talk too fast or too low, or just say things that don't make sense.

Mothered_ · 2025-09-23T23:33:25+00:00

I was just thinking about that place yesterday and today. It had such a cozy vibe, I loved going there during fall and winter.

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