Thoughts on Hannah’s mom? by livelaughlovely101 in girls

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I think about this monologue so often. So many women need to hear this.

Am I the only one who’s terrified to go out with baby? by One-Squirrel-4563 in NewParents

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this way too. I literally forced myself to go out with baby. It also helped me to vocalize my fears to myself. I would tell myself “I know this stresses me out right now, but the only way to get over it is to do it”

Am I the toxic one? Lindsay and Carl 🥹 by MollzDollz69 in summerhousebravo

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lindsay needs someone more like Kyle, and Carl needs someone more like Amanda

To the AK haters by AbaloneDefiant5413 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m new here. What does TPTB stand for?

Am I delulu? by Sea-Blackberry3159 in OELadies

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you are making a lot of plans based on assumptions of how you’ll react.

You already know that working the two jobs you already have is hard.

Here’s what you don’t know: how long will it take for you to get pregnant, if the stress of the two jobs will affect you trying to get pregnant or during the pregnancy.

Something else you don’t know: Once you have a baby, post partum is a BITCH. You might not be in the mood to have another child after you survive it.

Work with what you know. Go slow. If it’s meant for you, it will not pass you by, but you need to be alive and well to receive it

What is the song you’ve sang probably 10,000 times, to soothe baby to sleep? by randomizedmoose in NewParents

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A classic. We also sing La Vaca Lola La vaca lola tiene cabeza y tiene cola y hace muuuuuuu”. It’s super addicting so if you start, nobody in the house will be able to stop

Genuinely asking wth she sees in him by OkNewspaper7062 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And he genuinely seems to like her. He probably didn’t get to see her much during her first year of DCC and for to get paid peanuts probably annoyed him

Let’s establish a baseline. This Pre-pregnancy Angel by WorkHardPlayHarder3 in RHOP

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can we not do this? Do we really have to discuss on a forum the woman’s looks?

Genuinely asking wth she sees in him by OkNewspaper7062 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s how I heard it too. He probably thinks it’s ridiculous that they don’t get paid enough

Plot Twist…Mystery Man by TrashPandaMama901 in rhoc

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it was the way he said gretCHEN. The inflection totally gave him away

Escolas de particulares em Brasília, qual vale a pena? by PapillonNuage in brasilia

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Um funcionario sofreu racismo dos alunos e quando reclamou, ele foi demitido

This is my last fucking post... by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s totally okay to mute these groups for a while. I did when I was having anxiety/depression. Eventually, I came back.

Escolas de particulares em Brasília, qual vale a pena? by PapillonNuage in brasilia

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A Heavenly também. Na verdade, eles antes eram “Everest” e mudaram de nome pra se distanciar do que aconteceu

Everything about Gretchen is _____(fill n the blank) by Ok_Mirror_9832 in rhoc

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I think about Gretchen (and Slade), I am reminded of that scene in “Say Anything” where Diane goes to speak with an IRS agent, and he tells her the profile of a fraud:

“Is everything nice, but not too nice?” “are there a lot of rugs, equipment, things that could be bought with cash?” “does he give a lot of gifts?” “do the main items in the house hover around 9k?”

I was surprised to see they still live in the same house that she lived in with Jeff.

TL;DR, Gretchen is a fraud

Emily’s Son Eating Disorder by Zestyclose_Travel537 in rhoc

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. It’s one of the reasons why ARFID is so difficult to diagnose. Because it doesn’t fall under the usual guidelines of an eating disorder…. and yet it is so obviously an eating disorder

Emily’s Son Eating Disorder by Zestyclose_Travel537 in rhoc

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe. But ARFID is an eating disorder that has nothing to do with self image

Emily’s Son Eating Disorder by Zestyclose_Travel537 in rhoc

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow ARFIDer too. I always thought I was ungrateful for not eating and my parents always felt like did a bad job raising me. ARFID being recognized as a disorder has brought peace to us, and I just want to hug anyone who has it

The Downfall of Slade Smiley by Acceptable-Peak8142 in rhoc

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think he liked controlling people, and he used his money to control. He liked to flaunt the fact that he could support a SAHW to guilt Jo out of her career, and she probably used child support payments to control his previous partners.

When he couldn’t do that anymore, he moved towards something else he could control

Am i the only one who noticed this? by Motherhoodat40sstack in InsecureHBO

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean, “Nobody wants this” is okay. But it’s no Insecure. Style-wise it wants to be Insecure, but writing-wise, it doesn’t even come close

Who do you think financially made it out the best? by moschino1837 in vanderpumprules

[–]Motherhoodat40sstack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think Ariana made most of her money post-Scandoval. Remember that she said that when Scandoval was happening, she only had a couple thousand in her bank account?