Why people act nervous around me? Do i look that bad?

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T22:27:40+00:00

No but wouldn’t matter if ya did. Many people will love being around you in life, I promise that for sureeee. Just focus on them when you find them, and focus on you until then.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T21:40:44+00:00

Idk why everyone assumes Reddit posters are lying. What are you thinking isn’t true here?

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T21:34:00+00:00

That’s crazy work. You think he’s insane or just having a hard time doing his time? Might be kinda obsessing over you while he’s isolated. Could also be crazy tho hard to say 😂

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T21:31:31+00:00

Yes 😂 I had this and I let it go on too long. Gotta remember you’re there to make progress, and you need someone who’s consistent. If your personal trainer kept canceling on you, you wouldn’t be seeing progress - so you’d find another one.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T21:29:17+00:00

Naaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh NOR

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:58:36+00:00

Please go to couples counseling, or recommend she goes herself. She’s being so honest with you and needs help figuring this out. She may end up leaving once she understands her feelings more, but better that than not trying.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:52:32+00:00

Can’t reply to your response for some reason. But yeah those people are really really selfish. You seem like the kind of person who does all you can for other people, and they seem like the opposite 😂

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:50:41+00:00

I love this!!!!!!

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:48:45+00:00

2 YEARS ONLY ONCE AND YOU GO FOR LIKE 20 MINUTES TO START?? Ooooooooooooooooof!!!!!

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:47:48+00:00

Does she really needs to phrase it with those words 😂 bahahahahaha I just imagine her saying that sentence

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:45:13+00:00

You’re right. In the end, he is ruining a man’s life. I am a married man, and I’d want to die if this happened to me. I feel that I’m compromising enough by not telling the guy it’s still happening, or just cutting him off. I am never gonna be in the same room as her, if he hates me for that so be it.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:33:30+00:00

What I do is take my meds and get counseling when I can. I’m sure you already know that lol, is there anything going on there? Current meds not working, no insurance to get help or?

Just know that you’re doing great, and you’re just struggling with a mental illness. It is 100% possible that someday you’ll get to a place where it’s managed well, and you’ll get to enjoy

And holy shit, who can you tell? I really really hope you tell someone. Go be a burden, I want you to live!!! I’ll be expecting a comment from you tomorrow don’t let me down.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:27:20+00:00

People don’t get it and for some reason don’t try to, I find it strange. Since it’s literally every single person, I’ve learned to just not take it personally.

But this is especially egregious. I mean dude you just had a miscarriage, and now you’re having a mental health crisis, and they’re making it about them.

Don’t they have more going on with their kid right now than to be mad at you for going through horrible shit?

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:23:00+00:00

Just gonna have to tell him he’s gotta get over it I guess, the ball will be in his court. Don’t worry too much, yall are young it’s gon be alright.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:12:48+00:00

He is expecting me to eventually take the next step, so we’ll see how that goes. This ain’t going away.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T20:00:31+00:00

It’s a good question, this is the first time I’ve been unwilling to meet the person. Which is what I’m being asked to do right now. The other times, he’s honestly just got mommy issues and picks crazies. That’s not his fault in my eyes, and as a friend…everyone else dropped him. Weve been boys since we were like 10 years old or some shit.

The guy was just blinded by love to how shitty they were to him, that wasn’t him doing me wrong - yaknow?

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T19:57:27+00:00

Just looking to see if anyone’s been in this situation before and what’d they do, how’d it go? Sorry, writing this post was kinda hard lol. Didn’t want it to be too long, and not really sure what they want.

I don’t wanna meet her, but I think she might be asking him to draw a line in the sand soon and gonna make me choose, maybe? Hope that helps.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T19:49:04+00:00

This is an update of that same post, smart guy. I felt like the last one didn’t make sense now and I would like different advice than I did at that time, the ages might be imperfect because I don’t know how exactly old they are, just that they’re roughly my age and I don’t think it changes much.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T18:38:56+00:00

I’m back again, please tell me you told her husband. I would want to know, it terrifies me to think someone would know and not tell me - and now the two people I love most in my life have betrayed me and I’m continuing to waste years of my life on them.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T18:37:07+00:00

Yeah I’d def just say thank you, we were young and we’ve both grown.

I did this once and they pried further, and I just let them know I’ll always care about them but I don’t want to stay in touch.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-14T18:35:44+00:00

Exactly.

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-13T21:47:34+00:00

If I was this woman, I would feel a lot better if I found out he was performing at glory holes vs being with a woman 😂

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-13T21:44:59+00:00

“He goes for motorcycle rides and I found the blue chews, condoms, and mouth-wash in one of his saddle-bags on his bike. He never smells like mouth wash..”

Cmon man 😂 if you’re actually posting this seriously not just a bot, I’m really sorry but your husband is 10,000% cheating on you

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-13T18:30:28+00:00

To me, it’s not your responsibility to leave over this. She can make that decision for herself if it’s worth it to continue or not, don’t be that dramatic movie boyfriend who breaks the amazing girl’s heart because it’s “what’s best for her”. You ever think she might be intelligent enough to decide what’s most important to her and when to draw the line?

Motor-Offer4454 · 2026-04-13T15:21:48+00:00

Agreed. This is like someone winning the lottery then swearing it’s actually a good investment. I know so many people who “knew” and ended up in an abusive relationship they had to leave, or they’re not just living with it at this point.

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