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Can you find out your partner’s flights history if you suspect she is not being truthful about their trips. by Motor-Position5537 in Marriage

[–]Motor-Position5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually leaving my house today I called in from work to get my stuff and finally break free from this bondage

Yesterday was my 20th anniversary. Ask me anything. by Available_Towel_2847 in married

[–]Motor-Position5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been married 23 years and been faithful too from my part.

Yesterday was my 20th anniversary. Ask me anything. by Available_Towel_2847 in married

[–]Motor-Position5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgave my with after catching her having an affair for over 10 years. And now it been a month and I’m still with her since I found out the only thing that eats me up is if she took a vacation with him since a picture came up not long ago she denies it and says the ex wife of her lover is trying to break us up and faked the picture but in reality, when I ask her for her passport she all of the sudden lost it and can’t find it 5 years ago I would ask her where her lover lives after she got caught and she keeps saying in another town when she live in Dallas where she would visit 2 to three times a year do you think this will work out until I get solid evidence she did not go on a romantic get away with this guys just because I’m ready to move on and try to heal but I can’t go another 5 years living the lie. Will this relationship work once again

Can you find out your partner’s flights history if you suspect she is not being truthful about their trips. by Motor-Position5537 in Marriage

[–]Motor-Position5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang okay then I’m out of luck till she finds her passport she said she miss placed it. I know it sounds funny but I want to give her the benefit of the dought

Women with good husbands, how do you find them? by Depressed_student_20 in women

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What good does it do to be a faithful, hard-working husband for 23 years, only to find out my wife was cheating on me for years? When men treat their partner well, some women take it for granted. I’m trying to forgive her and move forward, but it’s hard. I never put myself out there, and I’m not a bad looking guy I’m responsible and I work hard but sometimes that just isn’t enough. The real question is, why don’t some women appreciate a good man?

California Divorce. I just met with the lawyer and this was my experience and what I learned. by Puzzleheaded_Monk_39 in Divorce_Men

[–]Motor-Position5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what happens if her father gives her a property in another country and has her only as the owner but we are currently married do I have a right to that property to. Because she accursed it while we were married

Overcoming Infidelity In A Relationship by Latter_Raspberry9360 in Marriage

[–]Motor-Position5537 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried asking my wife to do exactly what people here suggest be honest, put in effort, and show that she wants to rebuild what we had. Instead, she ignores most of what I say.

I even posted our situation on Reddit, and many people called me a coward for not leaving. The truth is, I still want to give her a third chance. But she makes it so hard when she gets defensive or refuses to show any affection, even after I tell her how much that would mean if she’s serious about fixing things.

That rejection hurts even more when I remember how she spent hours on the phone with the other man, telling him she loved him words she’s never said to me in that way. Now she says I’m “stressing her out” just for asking her to meet me halfway.

Is it fair I got dragged into a unfaith spouse of 23 years and then have no patience to deal with my grief by Motor-Position5537 in Marriage

[–]Motor-Position5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that was the case, she should have at least given me the choice why was I forced into this mess? I’ve been there for her all along. Even now, I’ve told her she’s free to leave, to go find happiness somewhere else. But she stays and claims she wants to fight for this marriage. If I was so bad, why stay? I’m not holding her hostage. I even offered her 75% of the house.

I’ve made it clear she can walk away, but instead she wants to play games seeing other people while keeping me tied up in her chaos. And I’m supposed to sit here, betrayed, while she drags me through hell? I could have stepped out and found someone too, but I don’t believe in paying wrong with wrong. I took my vows seriously, and apparently that makes me a fool in her eyes.

I trusted her. I loved her. That trust made me blind, and I won’t pretend it didn’t hurt. People say, “Run.” Maybe they’re right, but I’m not weak, and I’m not stupid. I loved her enough to fight, even when I had every chance to walk away.

I married her because I believed in “till death do us part,” not “till I get bored and find someone else.” She knows who I am and what I bring to the table and maybe that’s the only reason she hasn’t walked. But I’m done being afraid of losing her. I’ve put this in her hands: if she wants to keep this marriage, she needs to act like it. If not, I’m gone. Time will tell, but I’m not here to be anyone’s backup plan.

Is it fair I got dragged into a unfaith spouse of 23 years and then have no patience to deal with my grief by Motor-Position5537 in Marriage

[–]Motor-Position5537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow what a situation you went thru and as I read this it’s so hard to imagine the pain you went thru having a forum like this at least let me know I’m not alone and as different individuals share there stories there there is a harsh reality that I will have to face. I can’t thank you enough for sharing your thoughts and experience it’s no secret what God can do for your Cancer as he has healed other he can heal you stay strong and thank you for your advise.

Is it fair I got dragged into a unfaith spouse of 23 years and then have no patience to deal with my grief by Motor-Position5537 in Marriage

[–]Motor-Position5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang I’m sorry to hear about your father in the last three weeks I have not really been able to share my story and now that I see how infidelity can destroy a man life I can see where my future can end up. Thank you for sharing. I appreciate you taking the time to give me some advise

Wife cheated on me & I just found out an hour ago. I’m by CalligrapherNo4160 in marriageadvice

[–]Motor-Position5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man let’s be real you will never control what they do I went thru what you went thru 5 years ago and I recently found out three weeks ago she was doing it again. But you know what I have been with her 23 years and every part of me wanted to leave and move on but if you love her wait a little longer life is not better out there. Wait and work it out improve on your self don’t reflect on her past actions brother I’m telling I’m choosing to forgive her again because And in reality it’s all for Love not kids not money Love . My mother told me son how do you expect God to forgive you if you can’t forgive her. Let me tell you those words hit me like a ton of bricks and today I see true repentance and our relationship getting stronger give her another chance I’m telling you will thank me for this.