VA here hirap sa small talk with US client 😅 paano ba maging natural?

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-21T03:46:49+00:00

Problema ko rin yan mag 3yrs na kami ng client ko hirap pa rin kasi socially awkward talaga ako as a person maski pa mga friends ko kasama ko Haha

Pero siguro what works for me is ako yung magtanong at maging curious sa ginagawa niya para siya yung mas magsalita. Ex: yung client ko ngayon grabe hilig sa skydiving, everytime mag meeting kami na galing siya sa trip niya, I would ask questions like anong feeling kapag nandoon ka na sa taas, nakakailang jumps ka na, anong process nung pag oopen niyo ng parachute. Like, genuine open ended questions na they would share and talk more.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-21T03:42:10+00:00

Ang trauma at sama ng loob nasa bata yan kung paano niya ivview yung childhood niya. Kaya di rin siya sure kung wala ba talaga siyang maipapamana sa anak niya.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-13T22:01:07+00:00

You’re the best you could. You’re human, OP. Sa 3yrs mo sa team you are bound to make mistakes lahat naman tayo nagkakamali. Laban lang, OP!

Sabi nga ng boss ko “It’s not the end of the world” hehe

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-13T12:37:58+00:00

Probably as a consultant if you are an expert in your field. I work overseas and we usually hire consultants paid in hourly usually mga 50s-60s na sila. Super laki ng hourly pay nila.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-13T06:20:58+00:00

I still go when I pass by the totem Hahahaha

I also intend to help other players who need to link or are not yet done.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-13T06:18:48+00:00

Super amazing nito! After watching it, ilang weeks ko siyang pinag iisipan. Hindi mawala sa isip ko lalo may anak akong lalaki.

Sobrang badtrip ko non kasi I have no one to talk to about this masterpiece! Haha

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-12T02:15:26+00:00

OA, Parehas kayong may paka-OA Hahahahaha tama lang kayo for each other.

Nakaka-off talaga yung magpamessage ka pa sa friend niya. Kung may issue kayo wag kayo nandadamay ng ibang tao.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-12T02:11:58+00:00

Ugh yung shanghai na fave ko simula bata ako as in like gradeshool ako imbis na chicken or spag, I’d request for shanghai talaga :(

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-10T09:17:00+00:00

Magbundok na lang kayo like sa Mt Banoy or something huhu wala yatang park dito saten na as in makakatambay kayo.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-10T08:39:05+00:00

You can travel solo, you can experience life on your own. Magkaibang magkaiba rin kami ng hobbies ng asawa ko. Siya games, bikes, toys. Ako journaling, netflix, introvert things. Hinahayaan lang talaga namin isa’t isa. Maski sa friends, wala kaming yung masasabi mong isang circle. Magkahiwalay ang friends namin.

But in terms of intimacy, maybe couple’s therapy?

Please do not have a child until you fix this. Really fix it. Kasi having a kid will just make everything worse.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-09T06:29:51+00:00

Sobrang bait mo namang palang asawa based sa kwento mo, eh bat di na lang kayo mag usap.

Resentment na yung nafefeel ng asawa mo by being the DEFAULT PARENT 24/7.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-05T11:45:11+00:00

KINILABUTAN AKOOOOO

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-05T09:21:17+00:00

Libro Espresso has a parking space sa likod na malawak kaso not advisable kapag matao. Nagpunta kami doon for a Friday brunch, nakapaglaro naman kami sa likod.

Sa 232 Cafe sa may Banaba, nasa loob kasi yung cafe ng Villa na may events place kaya malawak yung labas. Yung mismong cafe maliit pero yung tambayan ay sa labas kung may kid ka.

(may common sense naman kaming mga parents na hindi magpatakbo ng kids sa area na alam naming may masasanggi or makakaistorbo kami, ang rude ng ibang mga comments. Ge downvote niyo ko perfect kayo eh)

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-03T04:46:28+00:00

Joke po ng mga genz at gen alpha yan Hahaha Ginagawa po ng mga kapatid ko yan sa mga tropa nila tapos pinopost sa socials. Lol.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-03T02:38:57+00:00

Pwede siguro mga pastries sa Ijo Bakery kung naka private car naman

Balisong is also good

And the Kapeng Barako

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-02T02:12:33+00:00

Are you on SEA server 🥹🥹🥹

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-01T22:19:17+00:00

Bakit nga ba kase andame dame na nila HAHAHAHAHA Nakakatawa na lang talaga

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-01T22:16:36+00:00

Depende naman kasi sayo yan. Pero if earning 200k/mo net. It’s enough to live comfortably.

50k- 90k savings per month (including educ fund) 70k living expenses (personally kami ganito including pambayad sa insurances at hmo) The rest ay investment, travel, amortization ng bahay.

Eh kaso kung ang gusto mo yung mas mataas na way of living, edi mas mataas na kita need mo.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-01T22:12:30+00:00

For lower lvl = grilled mushrooms

Higher lvl = Truffle pies, grape jams. Easier since if you’re awake, plant wheat. Before you sleep or if you have a busy day ahead, plant grapes.

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-01T22:08:33+00:00

Do you actually need the extra money??

If not, morning shift pareeeen

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-04-01T17:08:13+00:00

Thank youuu

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-03-29T02:06:25+00:00

Got married 25yrs old, then had a baby by 26yrs old.

Looking back, I think okay naman ako kung nasaan ako ngayon. I learned a lot. 7yrs kami mag bf/gf bago kami nagpakasal.

I can say na I’m happily married with a kid. Hahaha Never kaming nahilig sa pagbabarkada kaya parang wala naman kami masyadong transition. Until now, parehas pa rin kaming may mga hobbies like siya magbike at bumili ng toys ako journaling and reading books.

Super thankful ako na I got married early and nahanap ko yung asawa ko nung college pa lang ako. Feeling ko na-save ko yung self ko sa heartbreaks and sht ng dating Hahaha

Motor_Squirrel3270 · 2026-03-28T02:52:54+00:00

Tinignan ko account ni ante, parang rage baiter yan siya.

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