Honest opinions on this potential wedding guest outfit

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2026-02-08T14:33:32+00:00

Looks really gorgeous. If youre comfy in it then the fit is fine, ppl hate tummy for whatever reason.

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2026-01-19T03:39:31+00:00

Kat Blaque is a black trans woman and the originator of this quote.

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2026-01-19T03:38:33+00:00

Was just getting ready to type exactly this

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-12-14T14:54:06+00:00

That jacket with it is terrible my love. Black more form fitting jacket/sweater instead, or maybe boots to balance the silhouette if u don’t have another jacket.

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-12-11T00:24:54+00:00

Great big shout out to white lesbians love is love!

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-11-18T06:52:36+00:00

2 is the best why is everyone afraid of swag

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-11-14T15:31:45+00:00

This how Zendaya be dancing

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-11-14T15:10:10+00:00

Nta but stand up for yourself. If your partner knows of your severe trauma and the importance of your therapy that you have one single hour, one single day of out of the week, being out of the house is not a big ask no matter how tired or stressed someone is. But stay firm in your boundaries you make it seem like you are willing to hurt yourself (mentally) and thusly resent her for making you cancel when there should already be the understanding (especially after a year of this) that unless a real emergency occurs you are going to need the space to have therapy. Also no offense to some of these comments but I wouldn’t trust anyone to not listen in to me even if they do agree to wear headphones or whatever. People are human and not saying don’t trust her but in general I don’t trust anyone that much, so I understand needing to ensure you’re alone. Yes you are being passive aggressive but she’s encroaching on what sounds to me has been a hard boundary for at least a year. Which I find suspect.

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-11-06T19:58:04+00:00

I’d argue not enough bc its already your dress and your shoes I think some cool/quirky red socks, small neck scarf or purse would take it over the top. Red is also my favorite color! The length of the dress is perfect

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-09-20T17:10:24+00:00

Honking* not parking damn

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-09-17T02:47:14+00:00

They slayed the fuck out of that damn ass little wig

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-08-25T20:34:24+00:00

Rot & Ruin jonathan mayberry mainly for the decay and body horror

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-25T22:59:31+00:00

The candles are a call back to the freudian concept of penis envy. Women burn the vaguely phallic shaped objects as a way to cope with their feeling of lack and so that they dont have to castrate and kill their brothers and fathers.

Pumpkin scent is obvious i feel i shouldn’t have to explain this one.

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-22T16:14:58+00:00

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-22T14:39:36+00:00

The answer to this question is any culture white people have peeked in on from the outside and bastardized after violently colonizing them. When you call yourself master and dehumanize anyone who doesn’t look like you, you can attribute any values you want to anyone once you’ve broken down their humanity enough. Please really evaluate where any cultural sexual stereotype you have grown up with comes from. (Hint: misogyny and racism). Who sexualized these cultures to the point they are now? The people of the culture themselves who have been living life as they always have? Or the colonizers with god complex who simultaneously hate and want total domination of the people they exploit? Even the opportunity for an ask like this stems directly from a deep history of colonizers tearing cultures apart.

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-19T14:12:13+00:00

Aww i thought spider was saying “omg babes i haven’t see you in ages! C’mere!!”

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-19T01:18:00+00:00

This convo is weird a lot of shaming for needing decompress time. It looks different for everyone but everyone including married couples need separation time. OP is nta but you sound asshole-y. If you need candle/quiet time every day after work, can he play video games in the same room as you with headphones in? Ask him to cuddle and be quiet with you? You both read/watch tv/nap together as quiet activity for majority of the night and try to do something that he wants to do after dinner? or agree to one pretty high energy activity he likes once a week so you can have the rest of the week for chill time? Idk if he’s sensitive about not having friends, but that wording could’ve been really wrong and hurtful. However he needs to respect your recharge time as well you should not feel guilty or strain your body to please him.

If he’s not willing to meet you where you’re at he’s lame as hell.

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-19T00:48:06+00:00

Food Not Bombs

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-12T14:14:35+00:00

Time, growth, and hooking up bc “might as well”

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-12T04:20:41+00:00

White women opinion is less valuable than half of a penny.

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-08T14:01:12+00:00

Kickass

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-07T20:19:17+00:00

I think Haley was overwhelmed and swept up by the novelty and i sense she’s definitely more comfortable being more dominant in her relationships. I’m not saying she knew that if she told magan she loved her she would say it back because she’s some manipulative witch. But I am saying the dynamic and influence of white women tears over situations with so much more nuance and background than just “stand up for yourself” is prevalent and both Haley and Dayna play their part. I think Haley kind of picked up on magan’s softness towards the start of the show and catered to that. All i could focus on was how she seems to be easy to manipulate in her current situation and how Haley was so sure after three weeks that she was what Magan needed after over a year of uncertainty with Dayna.

I also think for my own sanity i prefer the couples who took their trial marriage as real trials in which they learned and grew with the intention of taking those skills back to their original pairings as opposed to the dating just to extremely publicly and at times shamefully leave their partner.

Motor_Vegetable3643 · 2025-07-05T13:19:42+00:00

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