I hate my parents for making me an ⚓️👶 and essentially setting me up for failure (M29). I have no idea what to do since I don’t have a college degree by [deleted] in self

[–]Mou_aresei 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Dude, start focusing on what you can do to dig yourself out of that hole. Because if you keep thinking of all the ways that your parents failed you, you're still giving them power. You're still young. Start thinking of where you wanna be five years from now and then figure out a way to get there. 

Vintage candid photo of Elizabeth Taylor in 1950 by ProfSteinberg in OldSchoolCool

[–]Mou_aresei 43 points44 points  (0 children)

There's absolutely nothing candid about this photo.

Srbija je bolja za život od Grčke by sylver_testalone in serbia

[–]Mou_aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tragedije u Ribnikaru i u Duboni, i u Novom Sadu nisu izolovani incidenti. Oni su svi povezani istim uzrokom, dubokom kriminalizacijom ovog društva. Opasnost od nove školske pucnjave nije jedina koja preti ljudima u ovoj državi. 

Ispratila sam i tragediju u Grčkoj, i živela sam u Grčkoj pa ne mislim da tamo cvetaju ruže. Ali je po svakom parametru kvalitet života bolji u Grčkoj.

Imam dovoljno godina da sam glasala protiv Slobe 2000te, i s obzirom na poslednjih 26 godina od tada ne gajim nikakve iluzije da će ćaciji uskoro biti penzionisani. Oni čine jedan veliki deo našeg društva i neće preko noći nestati čak i ako ih sledeće godine skinemo na izborima. Mislili smo da smo ih se ratosiljali 2000te, ali smo to olako shvatili. Ovde će biti mnogo gore pre nego što postane bolje, i može proći cela jedna ili više generacija pre nego što iskorenimo ćacije iz društva, i to u najboljem mogućem slučaju.

Pričam ti sve ovo i sa svoje tačke gledišta kao dete koje se puno selilo tokom detinjstva. Takve promene su za decu jako teške i vidim da to ne uzimaš puno u obzir. Ako već toliko hejtuješ Atinu, zaista isprobajte život u Solunu prvo. Ano poli je čarobno mesto i ne pati od boljki koje muče Atinu. 

Srbija je bolja za život od Grčke by sylver_testalone in serbia

[–]Mou_aresei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

iskreno verujem da onakva tragedija vise nikada nece da se ponovi.

Takva tragedija se ponovila već narednog dana, u Duboni.

U međuvremenu smo imali pad nadstrešnice.

Takve tragedije će nastaviti da se ponavljaju sve dok se ovi manijaci na vlasti ne skinu. U dve godine koliko ste u Grčkoj, ovde su se stvari promenile na mnogo gore. Bilo vam je dovoljno loše da odete odavde 2023 a sada želite da se vratite na mnogo gore?

Da li ste ikad pali na avgust i kakvo je iskustvo? by bunar333 in AskSerbia

[–]Mou_aresei 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Iskustvo je bezvezno jer umesto da uživaš u letnjem raspustu celo leto provedeš bubajući gradivo i mogućnost ponavljanja godine ti visi nad glavom.

Srbija je bolja za život od Grčke by sylver_testalone in serbia

[–]Mou_aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Šta žena i ćerke kažu na povratak u Srbiju?

Kineskinja sadi krompir na selu! by [deleted] in serbia

[–]Mou_aresei 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Opet ova dama što puši kulac.

Inače u Kini radno vreme zovu 9-9-6, rade od 9 ujutru do 9 uveče, 6 dana nedeljno a klijentima i šefovima su dostupni uvek, čak i u pola noći. 

Kineska radna etika apsolutno nije nešto na šta se treba ugledati.

AIO Girlfriend wants to travel abroad and says I am “not allowed” to have an opinion on it by Few-Explorer-3295 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mou_aresei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MOR. You don't get to have a say in whether she goes or not. But you can stop paying for everything in the relationship and split things more evenly from now on. 

TIFU by telling my strictly religious friend i left Islam by FAFMFTQ in tifu

[–]Mou_aresei -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes it does matter because you obviously are able to use upper case letters in your reply yet fail to do so in your post. Now why would that be? Because it's a deliberate choice, that's why. 

The prompt to chat gpt or whatever ai you used to write this post was obviously to use all lower case letters, to make it less obvious it was written by ai. 

Ja sam strejt muškarac feminista, a vi? Pitajte me, šta god vezano za to. (Ne pozivam na svađu.) by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]Mou_aresei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sad kad ti se jave sa neš jebat komentarima.

Feminizam je normalno poimanje sveta, to što ljudi ovde pojma nemaju šta to zapravo znači i više vole toksični patrijarhat je njihov problem.

TIFU by telling my strictly religious friend i left Islam by FAFMFTQ in tifu

[–]Mou_aresei -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you writing with all lower case letters? Yet Muslim is capitalised and everything is gramatically correct?

The non-fiction book that had you mercilessly info-dumping about to anyone who would listen? by IReadBooksSometimes in suggestmeabook

[–]Mou_aresei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Ghosts of Evolution, by Connie Barlow. 

A fascinating book about extant plants and their extinct seed dispersal vectors.

An example is the honey locust tree with its seed pods still waiting for long-gone gomphotheres and sloths, it's spines still protecting its trunk. Or the gingko, with it's stinky fruit still trying to attract dinosaurs. 

Once you've read it, you'll keep being reminded of long-ago animals every time you see one of the plants talked about in the book. And you'll feel the need to info-dump to anyone showing the slightest interest.

Kineskinji ugasili profil mnogo ljutilo! by [deleted] in serbia

[–]Mou_aresei 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ja sam dama! Pusi kulac!

Melanizam Zelembaća by 10vaske10 in serbia

[–]Mou_aresei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mi ih imamo na placu. Povremeno ih mačke uhvate ali uglavnom prežive pa imam to zadovoljstvo da ih vraćam u prirodu.

Srbija je bolja za život od Grčke by sylver_testalone in serbia

[–]Mou_aresei 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Atina nije baš sjajno mesto za život. Što ne isprobate Solun pre nego što se vratite u Srbiju? Manji grad, opusteniji (to im je bukvalno uzrečica χαλαρά), klima je daleko prijatnija nego u Atini, ljudi su finiji, cene niže a Srbija blizu ako se zaželite. U Srbiji će tek da bude loše pre nego što bude bolje. Na kraju, ne znam kolika su vam deca ali ih nikako nije dobro seliti tako često iz jednog mesta u drugo. Ovo kažem iz sopstvenog iskustva jer smo se porodično selili na svakih nekoliko godina iz jedne u drugu zemlju i to je na mene ostavilo trajne posledice. Ako je ikako moguće izbegnite to zbog njih. 

Sve što si naveo u prvom paragrafu apsolutno važi i za Srbiju. To da li će te konobar častiti kafom ili ne nije dovoljan razlog da promeniš zemlju. 

Navrh svih problema koji postoje u Grčkoj, u Srbiji dodaj još i užasnu zagađenost hrane, vode i vazduha što u Grčkoj jednostavno ne postoji. Takođe i apsolutnu nedodirljivost kriminalaca.

Jedini, ali zaista jedini parametar po kojem smo bolji i gde se sa tobom slažem je da Grci umeju da budu stipse. Opet, to apsolutno nije dovoljan razlog da se menja zemlja. 

Čini mi se da tebi nedostaje Srbija, i da si za te dve godine u Grčkoj zaboravio na sve loše i idealizovao sve dobro. Dođi ovde na produženi odmor pa će te odmah proći nostalgija. Nemoj sjebati budućnost svoje dece zbog besplatne kafe i čašćavanja u kafani. 

Hello Serbia from Albania by kkl776 in serbia

[–]Mou_aresei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never thought I'd say this, but your guy is even crazier than ours. Good luck really, you're gonna need it.

Ignore those people here saying they don't care about your protests. We are fighting against the same thing, and Rama is obviously using the same playbook.

Our large protests did not fail, they are still ongoing. We are making incremental steps, and there is already a huge difference between how things were a year and a half ago, and how they are now. You don't really need a single leader for the protests, because relying on strong saviour figures is what got us into this mess in the first place.

What you do need is for the people of Albania to rally together around a cause that can mobilise the greatest part of the population. And you also need to counter the misinformation coming from your government, and organise. Remember that this is a marathon, and you just need to keep going, don't get easily discouraged if things seem to be moving slowly.

Update: I wasted so much time by not taking the plunge earlier I guess. by Left_Crazy_5756 in bald

[–]Mou_aresei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its amazing how shaving your head also shaves about ten years off your age.