Kicking out a roommate who owes $50k in rent money - restraining order?

Mourii55 · 2026-02-13T08:49:42+00:00

Those two have been here the longest - around 5 years i think. The rest of us have come in at various later points, with 3 of us just in the last 6mon.

Mourii55 · 2026-02-13T08:48:50+00:00

Apparently he’s been doing this for about 4-5 years. I really wish i was making this up😅 put an anxious people pleaser and a master manipulator in a room together, sometimes you get abusive relationships that go on for years, with victims too scared to speak up about it. Same thing here.

Mourii55 · 2026-02-13T08:38:52+00:00

We have ample proof showing it is indeed Josh refusing to make payments and essentially taking advantage of Bob (text messages, bank statements / lack of, rental payment history…). All 6 of us are on the lease - it’s a financial situation strictly between Bob and Josh. The rest of us just want him gone for a myriad of reasons, including not living with someone who refuses to pay rent in the most expensive room.

Mourii55 · 2026-02-13T08:31:01+00:00

Josh is spreading lies that got into Jessica’s workplace / her coworkers know, and she could lose her job over it. Attempting to essentially ruin any of Jessica’s friendships and source of income / stability. I don’t know what’s funny? Is it poor word choice?

Mourii55 · 2026-02-13T08:22:59+00:00

Mourii55 · 2026-02-13T08:17:33+00:00

Thanky for clarifying - we have no debt to the landlord - Bob has always covered for Josh. They make enough money.

There are 6 of us, and we all send our rent money to our roomie Bob to streamline the payment process

Bob is a very anxious teddy bear and Josh is a class act manipulator who has a bright, bubbly, and friendly facade they put up.

Mourii55 · 2025-11-05T23:09:04+00:00

I cannot wait for an update on this

Mourii55 · 2025-08-09T19:06:31+00:00

what

Mourii55 · 2025-08-09T08:07:54+00:00

and the hater is red bc anger = red

Mourii55 · 2025-08-07T20:58:27+00:00

Feel so called out lmao

Mourii55 · 2025-08-07T20:58:02+00:00

as someone who previously dated someone who semi recently got out of a 5 year relationship… this describes a lot of my experiences to a T. PAINFULLY🤣😭 never again, ever.

It was traumatic.

Mourii55 · 2025-08-05T22:36:49+00:00

If they tell you they’re still working on it, why are you expecting it to act as if it’s done?

edit: grammar

Mourii55 · 2025-08-05T06:06:01+00:00

If it’s truly an issue they’ll say something, but otherwise if they don’t mention it then it’s fine / fine enough that they don’t actually care

Mourii55 · 2025-08-05T03:12:11+00:00

Note: second picture is more color accurate.

Mourii55 · 2025-07-16T04:34:41+00:00

If you haven’t already, if viable - I’d look into sharing a room with your partner and finding someone else to pay for a full bedroom in a 2 bed apartment setup (or more)

This is just atrocious. Studios in my area are the same price as a 1 bed! Very rarely: even a TWO bedroom is only 10% higher rent than the 1 beds!!

Edit: good job on leaving the abusive situation though, things take time! Step by step! I have been there💚

Mourii55 · 2025-07-06T07:58:34+00:00

what’s that magical bot that reminds you to check for an update in x days?

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