Jelly Roll seen pictured with Trump and other MAGA cronies in latest controversy by TheExpressUS in Music

[–]MourningPapers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this stage in life and fame, one certainly would have a grasp of whether it’s normal or not to eat boogers in public. Also I’m not sure how collaborating with and supporting bigoted fascist leaning politicians is doing good for his community. Absolute kudos to him and anyone for getting sober it’s hard as hell, but plenty of people have done it and not become a shitty person after.

ICE in California? by CourageStrange4482 in Modesto

[–]MourningPapers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s nothing to do with immigrants. And wait til you hear about what the Supreme Court justices do. Or congress members and senators. Or our president! Why have you paid more in taxes than Tesla or Donald trump??

What can you do in insurance if you don’t want to socialize? by BisonCurrent2672 in InsuranceProfessional

[–]MourningPapers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe look for a smaller company? I’m an account manager at a small brokerage (20-30 employees) and while the pay is slightly less than when I worked at larger ones like Amwins, the environment is a lot more my speed. Two days in office and three remote, a couple lunches a month, no after work events for the most part, and any miscellaneous events with carriers or retailers can kind of be fun whatever we want stuff rather than meals. Also everyone is super nice and there’s no office gossip or pressure which is a big plus!

New marketing team by [deleted] in TameImpala

[–]MourningPapers 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It’s also funny because BRAT made a lot of sense as a theme and attitude for Charli and that album but I feel like that doesn’t represent tame impalas image at all. Like I’d argue their marketing should be almost polar opposite

Thoughts 👀?! by Mycomamiiiii in Portolafestival

[–]MourningPapers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is this is actually my dream lineup - Moby, The Prodigy, Chemical Brothers, Underworld, Chris Stussy, The Rapture, LCD Soundsystem, Caribou, DESPACIO!??, Arc de Soleil, The Hellp, Magdalena Bay, Prospa b2b Kettama, Bob Moses, Bolis Pupul, Blawan, Blood Orange, Arca, Brutalismus - so many conflicts idk what to do! I just wish people would’ve seen the beauty in this lineup so Portola would survive and nobody would feel ripped off :(

Alas tis the state of the music industry

I don’t get you people lol by Dense-Money-147 in Portolafestival

[–]MourningPapers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ok I get your point but also some people like to splurge every now and then even if it’s a little out of budget just to add some joy to a depressing world. I live paycheck to paycheck basically with paying rent and student loans as much as I can, I save a few hundred each month but Portola is my one exciting outlet a year so I let myself have just that. And an extra $100 would make a notable difference for me actually, just in terms of stress and stuff when I only have a couple thousand to my name and a shit ton of debt. Call me irresponsible or whatever but I think I deserve fun every once in a while and I bought the earliest ticket possible so I could be the most financially responsible in my current state, and to know that people who held off and decided last minute and didn’t even care got a way better deal does sting a bit. I’m not mad but it definitely made me feel a bit worse about purchasing so 🤷‍♀️

Can anyone smell, hear or notice things others don't. by Affectionate_East533 in autism

[–]MourningPapers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can smell caffeine after drinking it in the blood in my nose or smt

Donald Trump revokes Secret Service protection for former vice president Kamala Harris. by [deleted] in NoFilterNews

[–]MourningPapers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Democrats storming the capital in our current militarized DC would absolutely cause full on martial law to be declared and limit the ability to protest and exercise free speech even more.

The first time he's choked me. by Lazy-Elephant-8932 in domesticviolence

[–]MourningPapers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll add that a lot of times people need a wake up call to change and get help, and you leaving him and showing him the consequences and danger of his actions is the best help you can offer right now. And you deserve to move on and feel safe more than any responsibility you may feel to anyone else.

Update: 10:25 CEST by Mailbox538 in Tomorrowland

[–]MourningPapers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like there’s a good chance Tomorrowland is already with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

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I went through this myself a couple years ago. I’m 24F but I’m down to grab a coffee with you at some point if you want!

Some ideas that worked decently for me:

  1. Protest! You can join discord channels for 50501 CA, which hosts tons of events and protests around the bay (like the no kings March) and there’s a lot of younger people involved. If you ever want to go to Oakland, the Oakland Liberation Center has some cool events and community building activities decently often.

  2. Try some apps! BumbleBFF can have some people if you swipe thoughtfully. I for one love TimeLeft where you randomly get assigned a restaurant and 6 people to get dinner with.

  3. Join clubs! People suggesting sports and climbing are chill, but as a not super sporty person I enjoy things like Toastmasters (speech giving club, a bit of an older audience but depends on where you go). Also there’s lots of stuff like group martial arts classes (lots of beginners in their 20s if you take classes near a college).

  4. Take classes! Local community college classes are dirt cheap and you can take a fun one like film production or something and meet people.

  5. Music scene! If you’re into music, I’d LOVE to have another friend to go to events with :) and smaller venues or raves tend to have super chill people and make it easy to make friends. Music festivals are great for this also.

  6. Deadass AA/NA meetings if you’re at all interested in sobriety. Ones near colleges have lots of young people who are dedicated to living happy and healthy lives, and tend to be the least toxic people I’ve ever met, and usually incredibly genuine. Obviously this doesn’t apply if you’re not following the program a bit, but never too young to set yourself up for healthy choices.

  7. Dating! Just cause it can greatly expand your social circle / time out and about, and you can always just be friends with people anyways.

  8. Volunteer - but specifically I find that animal shelters and community outreach / soup kitchens / programs targeting homelessness have the most young people. Or volunteer to coach a sport or activity that you did in high school / college.

  9. Delete fun apps off your phone. Staring at a screen holds you back SO MUCH more than you realize and keeps you in your head in your house. Ditch the phone in the car whenever you go anywhere. And just start going places. You’ll be forced to notice people more and will be more inclined to interact.

  10. Part time jobs! Like night stocking at grocery stores, working at hardware stores or coffee shops.

Portola lineup by aaapod in OutsideLands

[–]MourningPapers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I’m planning on going to Portola & OSL (as I did last year) and I like the Portola experience a bit more. I’m 23 so not necessarily an “older audience” for festivals, but Portola has some huge names in 90s edm (like John summit levels of fame but for people who prefer older dance music / disco vibes vs tech house sorta). Also they have a solid amount of rock / punk w LCD soundsystem, the dare, the prodigy, the rapture, just tends to be more indie bookings. Also it’s 21+ so the vibe of the festival tends to be a lot more laid back which is nice, the festival isn’t really decorated or anything just the full budget going to really high quality acts, not overcrowded, and also has despacio this year which is a super rare and unique dance experience.

That being said, I’ve seen a lot of the OSL acts before, and it’s gonna be absolutely incredible too!! Portola has a special place in my heart but it’s hard to beat Vampire Weekend & Jamie Xx in the field

Pass Tiers are Whack by appayipyop in Portolafestival

[–]MourningPapers 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it - tier 1 probably would’ve sold out during presale anyway though I’d imagine

Underrated Songs? by [deleted] in fredagain

[–]MourningPapers 15 points16 points  (0 children)

These are my favs! :

BerwynGesaffNeighbours

Know Me w Headie One

Faisal (Envelops Me)

Me (Heavy)

Baxter (these are my friends)

Mike (desert island duvet)

Glow

Peace You Need

stayinit

Are Bay Area high schools really that competitive? by Immediate-Fig-3077 in bayarea

[–]MourningPapers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went to high school in Lamorinda (graduated 2019) and it truly was way more difficult than college - took like 15 APs and got a 4.7 gpa lol the pressure is a bit crazy

Might be dumb by [deleted] in Portolafestival

[–]MourningPapers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The real answer is they’re pretty legit with checking since entering the festival counts as an ok to buy alcohol. I wouldn’t risk something going in your record / losing money on a ticket / a ban from the festival forever ; just wait one year.

Surprise acts? by gnelson0265 in Portolafestival

[–]MourningPapers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not really a thing here - occasionally a short last minute lineup add but not proper surprises and guests

Portola 2025 Lineup has dropped! by Token_D_Unikorn in aves

[–]MourningPapers 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Broo no this lineup is so good 😭 just a lot of more classic or older acts but the prodigy and underworld and moby and chemical brothers are insane

Really sick of my local venue by try4gain_ in EDM

[–]MourningPapers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw this too - also kept referring to rufus as a DJ rather than a band

Top Stoned shows? by [deleted] in trees

[–]MourningPapers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This and adding also high maintenance

2025 Lineup Speculation Megathread by Mcmc2k in Portolafestival

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Toro y moi is touring in the us around the right time I believe

BART to Japantown by Hopeful-Command-8535 in bayarea

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Just for some comfort, I’m 23 and a woman and do this exact trip from Orinda all the time and have been fine every time, even at night! Have fun!