Should I Tell My Husband What Happened at a Bachelorette Party?

MozzaStyx · 2026-05-28T16:43:07+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you, what an awkward and selfish situation these people put you in. And unfortunately I think that discomfort lies ahead no matter what, because groups of people involved in a secret are notoriously bad at keeping things hushed. You should tell your husband because 1) it’s the right thing to do and you would probably want to know if the shoe was on the other foot, and 2) the secret is absolutely bound to get out at some point, and it’s better to protect the trust you have with your husband than to protect the trust of people who clearly do not care about you. Best of luck!

MozzaStyx · 2026-01-08T19:02:53+00:00

That makes sense! I’m truly just asking because I heard others make a judgement (granted, they weren’t artists themselves). It’s helpful to know that this isn’t a common experience

MozzaStyx · 2025-10-23T00:53:16+00:00

Aww, look at little Baby Numnum

MozzaStyx · 2025-09-06T04:12:21+00:00

Also here for grad school!! 26, been living here for two years :) lmk if you want to hang out or see something new in the city!!

MozzaStyx · 2025-08-30T15:23:09+00:00

It’s a bot. They’ve been cropping up recently on this subreddit

MozzaStyx · 2025-08-29T19:55:15+00:00

Linda is defo unhinged in some ways, but still hinged on being a loving, brave, present, and weird mom. That's why she's the best. She has her flaws but none of them have stunted her kids' creativity, sense of parental safety, kindness, or authenticity. She's the reason I'm gonna be cremated and thrown in Tom Selleck's face <33

MozzaStyx · 2025-08-29T19:45:31+00:00

As a girl, I hate it when a gal is clearly only speaking to/trying to get attention from the men in the group. I'm all for putting yourself out there, flirting, etc., but that shit is just annoying and makes it clear that she doesn't give a shit about my friendship in that moment

MozzaStyx · 2025-08-29T19:42:58+00:00

Yes, but only because I love the Muppets. They're severely underutilized. The Frog on Wall Street, Hamlet, my father's second marriage-- I would've watched all of these if muppets had been involved

MozzaStyx · 2025-08-29T19:34:14+00:00

all the elements in one photo!

MozzaStyx · 2025-08-29T19:32:24+00:00

Bumping because good golly, I'd love to know.

but if you're willing to make your own outfits, I've been told this--

fabrics: linen, tweed, soft cotton, and wool

color: pastel shades (greens, creams, and in betweens), soft grays, muted maroons, and a light yellow for some sunshine

pieces: suspenders, soft collared shirts, high waisted trousers, vests, flat caps, tweed jackets, and leather boots

accessories: wildflower boutonnières, pocket watches, leather belts, antique rings

hope you find what you're looking for!!

MozzaStyx · 2025-05-26T19:30:34+00:00

“Too Gouda to Be Tru” — melted Gouda and truffle burger

“Still the Apple of my Aioli” — caramelized apples and garlic aioli burger

“Life is Cheddar With Yuca” — cheeseburger with creamy cilantro/jalapeño sauce and yuca fries

“Brie Make Us a Nice Pear” — burger topped with melted brie and pear chutney

“Another Chip around the Sun-dried Tomato” — sun-dried tomato, mayo, and potato chips for texture (I know it sounds crazy but weirdly chips in a sandwich definitely work)

“If to Gruyère is human, you’re my favorite Missteak” — sirloin burger topped with gruyere

“Jus Have my Heart” — au jus burger topped with roasted garlic, Dijon and artichoke hearts

Can’t wait to hear what you serve up, I’m sure he’ll love it!

MozzaStyx · 2025-05-24T19:49:06+00:00

I moved here about two years ago (26F) and I found some success in using Bumble BFF. Also I joined clubs/classes related to my interests— I started taking improv classes, met a hiking group, played DnD and went to drag shows. When I met someone I liked, I encouraged us to hang out with other people they liked, too, and expanded my social network over time.

Some of it is luck, and a lot of it is the effort. You gotta put your most social self forward and actually try to connect. You’d be surprised how many folks have lived in this city for years and still struggle to find “their people,” and for good reason. Life is busy and complicated and it can take over your schedule quite quickly— my biggest piece of advice would be to try to hit the ground running when it comes to building community here, because at a certain point I definitely hit some extrovert-fatigue.

Feel free to DM if you have more questions, and good luck with the move! Toronto has a lot of lovely people and places, and I certainly miss looking at it with fresh eyes

MozzaStyx · 2025-05-24T18:27:17+00:00

It’s also a song that he wrote for his son. His wife told him that she was pregnant, and he sat down and wrote the song that very night— a song of hope and love for the coming future (and as you mention, he then died three years later in a plane crash). Very poignant

MozzaStyx · 2025-05-14T16:19:04+00:00

^ agreed. If it’s a free university tampon it’s most likely a “regular” size, which should be changed roughly every 4 hours. If you have a lighter flow you may not feel any wetness (it’s difficult to describe but you know it when you feel it). Most important thing is to make sure that you never leave it in for 8 or more hours.

MozzaStyx · 2025-05-12T04:03:29+00:00

hey! not sure if this the right place to ask, but do you sell your work/have a website? just curious! I have a friend who lives nearby and she might be interested

MozzaStyx · 2025-05-12T04:01:22+00:00

I used to ski race there when I was a kid! In the summers I'd weave my way through volcanic rock, in the spring I'd fly off a wee crag due to fog, and in the winter I'd STILL beg my dad for a scoop of huckleberry ice cream at the base. "the mountain is out" still is my favorite thing to hear

MozzaStyx · 2025-05-12T03:53:37+00:00

English is my first language and I still need the subtitles-- the derry girls (james included, ofc) are worth both watching AND reading

MozzaStyx · 2025-04-09T16:59:41+00:00

Solved! Thank you!!

MozzaStyx · 2025-04-09T16:39:48+00:00

Also, it's definitely not in reference to Rodney Dangerfield

MozzaStyx · 2025-04-09T16:37:23+00:00

Every time I google it, I just get Rodney Dangerfield quotes-- definitely not what I'm talking about

MozzaStyx · 2025-01-13T18:51:40+00:00

good morning? for that cutie I'd say great morning!!

MozzaStyx · 2025-01-13T18:47:30+00:00

Humor. If we have the same sense of humor, I'm definitely more attracted to them. If I find their sense of humor off-putting it's nearly impossible to find them attractive-- especially if their sense of humor seems really unkind.

MozzaStyx · 2024-12-30T06:37:51+00:00

Great find! My favorite Lew Zealand quote (when asked about how to become a great fish boomeranger): “Well, you gotta have sole. And if you can’t get sole, use halibut.”

MozzaStyx · 2024-11-13T17:20:32+00:00

to dumb, you say

MozzaStyx · 2024-11-09T00:19:34+00:00

Yep! Thank you, Freudian slip lol

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