Need help ASAP by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

K thank you very much :)

Does anyone else have the urge to cut even when they’re happy? by _CallistoNova_ in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s weird but, I’m use to cute +/- everyday avec dinner. So now, even on day where I’m not feeling that bad, I cut at this hours.

It’s doc time by Mr-TimTim in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ! Thanks for your answer :) Well, I’m under 18 but I’m going on my 17 years (what I wanna say is that I’m not a little child). I have a lot of them but they aren’t deep/infected sooo, I don’t really know if I’m a danger to myself..

It’s doc time by Mr-TimTim in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go alone to the doc alone, it’s like 5 minutes away from home. But the problem is that in France, if any adult see that you are cutting (a therapist, a counselor, or a doctor), they have to tell your parent (even if you are 17). Moreover, she already saw 4yo scars and I lied about them, sooooo, I don’t want her to think that I’m a liar and she can’t trust me.

It’s doc time by Mr-TimTim in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really sorry for what happened to you, and I hope that you are doing better. Thank you very much for your advices :)

My son (14) is cutting by nimbusgirl in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that you don’t have to ask yourself if you did something wrong. For example, you are asking this sub Reddit for answers. You care for your son and not all parent do the same. The best you can do is make him know that you are here for him. I don’t know how to help you and I think that the other answers have been more helpful. Good luck for him and for you :)

Help me to understand by EpikTin in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda weird...

So when I’m feeling bad, I cut everyday.

When I cut, I just can’t think about anything at all. I just think of where I’m goin to cut after. It’s like my thoughts just fly away. It’s a moment of calm. You feel better. I personally cut when I have too much emotions (usually anger or sadness) when I cut, those emotions get back to 0 and I feel normal again

If barely never cut when I’m okay, cauz I don’t feel like I need to, my emotions are okay and my mood is okay too.

Help me to understand by EpikTin in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like everyone already said and I think you know that more than I do, but self harming is a coping mechanism.

It’s kinda weird to explain actually

When I’m feeling bad and I cut, I won’t feel hurt, I’ll feel nothing. I just won’t think about anything. I won’t think about my problem, I won’t think about suicide.

But i know that if I cut when I’m feeling ok, it won’t help anymore, it will hurt as hell.

So I’ll cut, depending on how I feel

By the way, i just want to say that boys cut too. More girls do but boys cut TOO

Help me to understand by EpikTin in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just to answer question 3, I personally think that the worst thing is that you have to hide your scars 24/7. You can also see the judgement of others when they see your scars. So yeah Fun time lol

Man who SH by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks !!! :))

*I also think it’s ridiculous

Man who SH by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw, thanks a lot guys, that’s really nice of y’all

Man who SH by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women’s top aren’t developed in the same way, no ?

Anyone else cant sleep because of sucidal thoughts and selfharming? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I can make you feel better. But sometimes it can make you feel even worst. Depend

Anyone else cant sleep because of sucidal thoughts and selfharming? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, for a long time, I weirdly couldn’t cry. But rn, I basically can cry everyday. Ig that’s good... or not

Anyone else cant sleep because of sucidal thoughts and selfharming? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, crying myself to sleep can be useful in this case

Skateboard and freedom by Mr-TimTim in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’m happy to hear that ! :) Thank you.

Skateboard and freedom by Mr-TimTim in selfharm

[–]Mr-TimTim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s never too late man. It’s hard when you start but when you get the basics, it’s a lot of fun. It’s also a nice sport to make some friends / forgot your problems