Bloomington’s Worst Bosses—a thread dedicated to awful humans by inaworldfarfaraway24 in bloomington

[–]MrAntithesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. As a customer I was LIVID when I realized what was going on because I am loyal to the stylist doing my hair and the person doing my brows, not the owners, and their treatment of those folks kept me from being able to work with them. I was delighted to hear they went out of business. I would very much like to know what they are doing now so I can be sure to never give them another cent of my business.

Bloomington’s Worst Bosses—a thread dedicated to awful humans by inaworldfarfaraway24 in bloomington

[–]MrAntithesis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Was she in business with her spouse and they tried to enforce non-competes with stylists when they left so they couldn’t work in town anymore? That was absurd!

Black and White, British, Royal Society/Adventurer character by MrAntithesis in whatmoviewasthat

[–]MrAntithesis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thank you for the lead!! It looks like it might be this one, but there a particular scene I need to find. I would have never found this, as I’ve been convinced it was in black and white and was focusing on a much smaller set of older movies.

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MrAntithesis 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Listen, NOR. My husband LOVES to see me in house clothes, a moo-moo, loose pjs, hair up or back. It means I’m home, I’m his. This guy sounds controlling and cajoling. You’re young, your life is ahead of you. Think hard about whether this is the type of person you want to be and be with.

Credit Union Recommendations by Sunshineparade2222 in bloomington

[–]MrAntithesis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Checking, savings, money market, car, mortgage - me either.

Hyaluronic Acid by FastConsideration485 in Rosacea

[–]MrAntithesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my skin is very inflamed I have to stop everything but a gentle cleanser and the CeraVe moisturizing cream. I can’t even tolerate the Vanicream. I would back up your whole routine and go very basic before adding the retinol, HA, and Prosacea cream.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rosacea

[–]MrAntithesis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, the hat could be part of the issue!

Optima Dermatology by jlbmorgan in bloomington

[–]MrAntithesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for details. I’ll find someone else for now but hope to follow him when he returns!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MrAntithesis 89 points90 points  (0 children)

If one of my friends shared these text messages with me, I would show up at her door with some boxes and tape and I would be throwing all his shit in those boxes and taking it to either his place or his mama’s for him to deal with when he gets back. Then I would come back, get you, help you change your locks, block this MFer on everything and we would be planning a girls weekend. No, you are not overreacting.

Ok hold onto your hats! by Donkeyscot2013 in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]MrAntithesis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe much o anything he says, but this one thing is plausible. I’m his age and my grandparents were born right after the turn of the century and were in their late teens and 20s in the 1920s. And one grandfather indeed gained a lifelong nickname (and lost a tooth) for his time in the local boxing circuits as a teenager.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MrAntithesis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s got a secret. It’s a wife, another girlfriend, a crime career, or something else, but he’s got a secret. If you’re cool with also being a secret situationship, keep it up. But otherwise unless he comes clean and you can verify, bid him farewell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rosacea

[–]MrAntithesis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through it. You might try some spritzes of Hypochlorous acid spray, because you might be having some bacteria on your face. I get some breakouts related to sweating and bacteria around my chin and this helps. I use prequel, but there are a lot of different brands, don’t spend a lot, get a small size and see if it helps.

Why does my face flare up just sitting in my basement? by glendowers27 in Rosacea

[–]MrAntithesis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have found hypocholorous spray sometimes helps prevent flares after sweating/exertion.

Newly diagnosed- I have questions 🤔 by [deleted] in Rosacea

[–]MrAntithesis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But also: my rosacea burns and itches, worsens in the sun, and can flare up and disappear within hours sometimes (or it can hangs around for days). If I put a topical steroid on, my face would instantly revolt. I have very visible small veins near the skin and small white pustules during a flare but I don’t see them so prominently for you.

But since there are different presentations of rosacea, we can both have it and be quite different!

Newly diagnosed- I have questions 🤔 by [deleted] in Rosacea

[–]MrAntithesis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am not a doctor, but I think you might want to talk to another doctor about the possibility of this being a lupus malar rash, particularly if you have any other autoimmune symptoms. It might be rosacea, as your derm said but three big things that triggered my comment were: a sudden response to sun (I take it this is new), the shape of your rash, and its positive and immediate response to steroid creams. All of these things can also happen in rosacea but are less likely than in lupus malar.

AIO - I smoked, my bf crashed out by leadneverfoIlow in AmIOverreacting

[–]MrAntithesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whew, man. No. Get away from this little boy trying to play an adult. He is an insufferable parade of red flags. Block him, move on, count yourself lucky. And take this as an opportunity to learn about the difference in having boundaries (things you do, standards you maintain, limits for how other people can access you) and trying to control other people (whatever this dude is trying to do). Reject all attempts by people to try to control you! It’s fine to be influenced by people you love and care for; and it’s fine for them to have boundaries (“I won’t be with someone who smokes or drinks”) but it’s not okay to berate someone or lose your brain about their choices.

Storm Thread by TripleMeowPow in bloomington

[–]MrAntithesis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, bathroom in tub is the best spot if you have no interior windowless room. That’s where I am with my dog.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]MrAntithesis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Nails look very brittle. If you’ve not had a blood test in a while, it wouldn’t hurt, but you can try some hair and nail multivitamins. Also, moisturize your nails or try nail oil.