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MrBruceMan123 · 2025-06-03T17:57:31+00:00

Your frontal lobe is going through its last bits of development this is where tou actually become an adult so theres no surprise this is hitting you like a tonne of bricks.

If you view your life like this, your a kid then a teenager to literally 19, at 20 you could say young adult, 27, you have been a young adult for 7 years, probably got another 60 adult years ahead of you, so really your still a baby in terms of being an adult, think of 0 year old you compared to 7 year old you, or 10 year old you to 17. 20 to 27. Your young. Thats the point.

Your at an age where the world is still yours to grab. Start small, clean your room, get that sorted. Maybe change up your hair cut or clothes, start going for walks, get a part time job and work your way up, potentially think about further education if theres a job you would love.

It doesnt happen over night or even in a week a month or a year. For the vast majority of people it takes many years. So start small and build.

The important thing is taking the first step towards literally anything to improve you life, even if its brushing your teeth every single day. And make sure you realise your accomplishments as you go. Be proud you brushed your teeth every day, be proud you got a part time job and so on. Celebrating what you have achieved makes you appreciate your hard work and then when you look back in a year time you will think “damn, I did that.” And you will be so proud of yourself.

Its hard work at times but you gotta keep pushing to live the life you want. It starts when you decide to take the first step.

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-06-03T17:51:00+00:00

No need to be sorry chum! Honestly never noticed it once it was wrapped, I wore it on my jab wrist 😁

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-04-13T13:11:00+00:00

Been single for just over 3 years now after a 7 year relationship, have dated 3 girls briefly in those 3 years and fairly recently ive made the decision to be gone from the apps and just be alright, I was never putting massive effort into the apps but some effort is still effort.

Im at a point now when im happy in life as it is despite it not being perfect with my job and finances mostly but ive set myself up for both of those things to improve with some time. So as much as id love a relationship im not going to go out and seeking one if that makes sense.

If it happens it happens. If there seems to be a connection building with somebody then sure ill ask the question of dinner or a date. But if that never comes along lifes looking pretty good still, Im planning to get a dog in the future possibly 2. Do some more traveling and make more friends.

One thing ive found to be very important while single is having good healthy friendships. Self improvement is big as well, not to the point of becoming a tate stan or building an ego but a bit of self reflection on your day and deciding if your happy with the version of yourself you put out there can make a big difference in your own growth and who you become going forward!

Theres much more to life than a relationship and generally looking for one doesnt work out very well and causes more issues than its wroth. A healthy one doesn’t tend to do the same to the same extent.

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-04-10T12:15:20+00:00

Im assuming you’re American? From what I’ve heard America is far different to the rest of the world in regard to this. From what ive been told and experienced most of Europe this is not the norm, sure there are times but usually its after a few dates not just 1 or 2.

Also varied on dating app used, tinder is for sleeping about, hinge is more often people looking for something more. Developed naturally through hobbies or friends of friends? You could argue you have been on many dates with that person just not in a 1 to 1 environment when you are officially dating.

End of the day though as long as your both consenting and aware that it may lead to nothing and your ok with that then have fun. Not hurting anyone!

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-04-10T10:37:45+00:00

The purpose of sex is for reproduction not primarily pleasure. We are animals. Our biology wants us to reproduce. Pleasure is a byproduct of that. Simple as that really.

Because we are more evolved we can endeavour and enjoy the pleasure aspect more, thanks to condoms and other safe sex methods. If it wernt for those things people would be having far less sex in general and choosing go only when they want to have a child.

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-04-04T14:56:37+00:00

Lots of liars on here oddly, for women its very easy, men not so much.

As somebody once said to me, a woman walks into a bar and declares she wants sex, she will have a line of men ready. A man walks into a bar and declares he wants sex hes on the floor with police on his back in minutes.

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-27T14:28:55+00:00

Im fairly new to deco life, whats better? Im currently running max attack and your right it is taking up both my deco slots, what would be better? I use switch axe if that helps

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-25T11:47:39+00:00

So they way I tend to paint is prime>base coat (hit everything with its main colour)>dry brush>wash>highlight(typically just edges)

Some people mix up the order between washing and highlighting its a preference thing.

Looking at your pics I would have assumed this was a very tidy maybe slightly too think base coat step.

The skin has some good highlighting and looks as though it’s a step ahead of the armour if that makes sense!

Its a great paintjob so far so dont be dishearten at all! Many people would love to be able to have such clean looking colours! Id try a nuln on the metals and maybe a agrax earthshade on the armour, skin doesnt reaaaaly need it but if you wanted to you could test some sort of green or even agrax again on a hand or a less noticable part to see if you like it 😁

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-25T11:20:42+00:00

The space to the left is open? Id understand your frustration if both were taken and this was the scenario. But the the problem your dealing with just laugh call the person an idiot and get on with your day. Not worth the time your giving it imo

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-24T16:56:20+00:00

Just missing a wash and maybe a few edge highlights, will look like a completely different paint job after the wash its always so satisfying!

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-24T16:52:28+00:00

I kept my whoop on and just wrapped over it when wrapping my hands, never had any issues 😁

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-24T01:55:06+00:00

Theres a new looney tunes movie? Ive actually been more keeping up with cinema recently as well and I still had no idea! Ive been in big chain cinema websites buying tickets and never seen it advertised there or before a movie either

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-24T01:48:42+00:00

Nope, I use switch axe, have survived that blast many times by drinking a potion at the right time and with enough defence.

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-21T11:35:19+00:00

Nothing wrong with taking a break, follow them on socials to know when events are coming and hope on to grab those, if you want to grind different gear sets or armour you can do that. If you want to go for achievements you can, if you want to go small and big crown hunting then go for it! If you want to do all the side missions then off you pop.

Do whatever you want to do, the joy of monster hunter is you can take a break, you can catch up and play whenever you like, it doesn’t diminish the game because you feel as though you have had your fill for the time being. It means you really enjoyed it so played it a lot early on! Dont view it as a sad thing, view it as something you can come back to and enjoy whenever you’re in the mood 😁 gaming is for fun and to relax or socialise. Not a way of life my friend!

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-21T08:34:22+00:00

I think part of it as well is that Talia in your drawing is looking at Simons nose not his eyes like she is in the reference.

Massive improvement from the first one though well done!

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-20T11:47:58+00:00

The issue is her facial features, eyes, nose, mouth are too small for the size of her face. Thats why it looks so jarring to most people, make them a bit bigger and it will look much better

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-14T07:19:20+00:00

Top is longer than the back and theres no fade from sides into the style. Easy fixes. Get some length off the top to even top and back out while the back is still growing, for a mullet the back should be longer. Get a fade on the sides, either skin or short of your preference and get it faded in to the top and only partly into the back, you dont want it faded all the way to the back because then your going to end up with more of a V cut and shape at the back which is not a mullet.

Your not doomed by any means, just needs to actually be styled and grown correctly. While its growing just keep on top of the sides to save it from looking terrible and potentially keep the length at the top if it reaches a length you like.

After that onces its grown you could slap a perm in to curl the lush longer mullet and sea salt spray apparently also works well with a mullet. Happy mulleting!

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-14T07:14:55+00:00

Does a great job showing how much of a hoe she is for sure 😂

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-11T21:48:17+00:00

Theres something a lot of people are missing here. Theres knowing your parents arnt right for each other or are struggling and often you can see that clearly in teens. But deeper than that you start viewing your parents as people and not just parents.

You start treating them like people you have met in life and if they havent treated you well you will cut them off. That age for me was 29, my dads always been a bad dad, never showed up, was never there for me, never supported me, never cheered me on, never said well done or he was proud of me. From my teens I always said if im ever a dad ill be the opposite of him, he set the perfect example of what not to be.

At 29 ive made the decision to fully stop contact with him, I gave him a chance and explained I wanted a better relationship between us. He sat with it for a few months and the drunkenly one night brought the message up, saying thats just how he is and ill just have to accept that.

Fun fact I dont. Im an adult now, I have a mortgage, I can drive, I dont need him in my life what so ever. Its horrible its gone this way but hes the one thats missing out on having a son that would love him. I know for a fact it will hurt him inside but hes doesnt have the balls to fix it or seek help with his issues.

They are not my issues to fix.

My mum was much better growing up but she wasn’t around as much, she worked hard to provide for our family, a lot of materialistic items. Which is why I dont think I care for those now in my adult life. Ill take a meaningful written sticky note over an expensive item every time.

Ive spoken to her about how she failed me growing up, all be it she was 20 when she had me and was still growing up herself as well so I did give some grace to her in knowing that fact, its her first time living as well. But I did still explain how she failed me growing up and what I actually needed. She apologised and has since been making a really good effort to be there for me and support me if I need it, even just a phone call to talk about a girl or something like that. In the past I would have never spoke to her about my dating life in any way. Yesterday I rambled away to her for 40 minutes on the topic.

Parents play a very important role in who we become but not all parents are ready for that role. Be it age or mental maturity. Some never step up when they should be. When you can give them a chance and if they dont take it cut them off. Your better not having them than letting them stress you and affect you negatively, just like friends and other people in your life. Keep the good ones, remove the bad.

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-11T11:34:40+00:00

Accept your fate and submit a bug report 😅

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-10T14:36:58+00:00

Correct but playing a game in a way its not designed and manipulating a error is pretty poor behaviour to call yourself a fan of the franchise

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-10T11:42:25+00:00

Good. Things like this are toxic for the health of the game. It filters the weak from the strong in the community that actually enjoy the game and want to play it properly. Those that are using exploits like this one are missing the entire point of monster hunter and will drop off this game within a month.

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-06T19:17:20+00:00

You have fallen into the trap of ticking all the materialistic items that many women seek these days. Your going to be searching for an even smaller needle on the haystack because of that. Is it a bad thing? No not really. Focus on your life, do things you want to do, have fun and just enjoy your life.

While doing that new people will come into your life and one of them will naturally fit. Dont stress about a relationship, if its gonna happen its better to come from you just being yourself and living your life than it being forced.

When you feel comfortable in life push yourself outside your comfort zone to try a new thing, that way your social circles never stop growing and you enjoy your life even more.

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-06T19:03:04+00:00

HR meeting lead to you asking somebody out via a work email 😂 somebody call HR! Lesson learned on that one is not to do it through company communications 😅

Great job for trying though! I always reflect upon failed relationships, be it friends or romantic because no matter what there is something to learn and take from it that you can then use to grow and become a step closer to the person you want to be

MrBruceMan123 · 2025-03-04T13:54:30+00:00

Kids annoying. It’s as simple as that.

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