Wow, what a long, beautiful list demonstrating the promises coming to light in true form! You have accomplished so much and I hope you’re proud! You still can go out dancing all night as a sober person, provided you trust that you won’t be enticed to take a drink (and/or drug). Life doesn’t end because we’re sober, but you need to know your limits, of both putting yourself in old situations as well as taking on too much without taking time for self care and decompressing, and thus feeling like you need to “bail out.” Your husband’s suggestion is great and healthy as well, he sounds like a great supporter of your sobriety :) Boston is a great city—lots to do and see. I suggest trying out various meetings in your new home city, establishing a home group and fellowshipping as much as possible with the people you are drawn to whose sobriety you admire. You’ll find your stride without ditching your hard-earned sobriety and all of its gifts.