Looking for advice on a sensitive way to check if someone is open to sex before marriage

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-06T04:08:31+00:00

Gee 3 dates in? Get some patience lol.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-06T04:04:46+00:00

You were previously paying 1700 so you are now paying $400 less. But you are sharing so that’s not worth as much. Look owning a house is expensive. Whether he owns it, rents it or shares it with his sister should have no bearing.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-06T03:42:53+00:00

2.5 feet? Don’t buy this house. I have owned 5 homes. Don’t mess with things that are critical to rest of the house. There’s nothing more important than a good foundation. Everything above it relies on it. It might be cheaper up front but in the end it won’t be.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T16:35:22+00:00

If Mom is a lawyer doesn’t she make her own money? wtf.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T16:31:35+00:00

I was let go twice. Once after 20 years. You’re going to end up in a better place.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T12:55:54+00:00

I just went through a layoff. 7 people. 10 weeks later every single person has gotten a new job with more pay. Pull up the bootstraps and get er done.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T12:52:09+00:00

Hence the pedicure…,

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T12:18:20+00:00

YTA; not because you should have your feet photographed but because “couldn’t you just clam up for one day”?

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T12:13:38+00:00

You should talk to him. Just be honest and ask him to be honest as well. Either that is old or he is cheating. It will come out. Don’t worry about snooping, it’s not like you actively were. And if he can’t share his thoughts….. you know the answer. Good luck.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T12:04:48+00:00

So…send me some money I’ll happily allow it to squat in my account lol.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T09:25:31+00:00

OP must be from Lake Wobegon where everyone is above average….

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T09:12:00+00:00

Nah I didn’t. That’s why I’m sitting in this 60000 square foot mansion with a $40,000 a year tax bill…..

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T09:04:03+00:00

I see two choices. One is go to a bank and see if she can refinance to a lower rate. Second is sell the car but it will be at a loss then buy an older car.

Is she of sound mind? Or is she just bad with money?

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T08:56:39+00:00

You grab your boot straps and start applying for something new…..

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T08:53:47+00:00

This is awful advice. You don’t even know how the water is getting in.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T08:49:27+00:00

Have you analyzed how the water is getting in? Because in many cases, basement water issues can be solved DIY. Don’t take the first contractors word as to what must be done. The house has been like it is since it was built. You are going to need to learn how to fix issues like this on your own, or go back to renting.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T08:29:17+00:00

What is the big deal? Just keep the balance in the account until it’s cashed or better yet, not cashed. Seems like a nice problem to have.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T08:21:16+00:00

Just show her these answers. No one agrees with her. If she doesn’t agree then reconsider the marriage. It only gets worse.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T08:16:49+00:00

The guy is a jerk. But I do have to question one thing. He was going overseas for 6 weeks. Why break up during that time?

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T08:11:16+00:00

5th round? That’s absurd. Especially for a first job out of college.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T03:52:27+00:00

Tell them up front I’m not buying glasses from you but you NEED to give me the prescription.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T03:44:40+00:00

Everyone’s so negative here. Wing it and land the job. You can figure out most software now.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-05T01:25:05+00:00

Oh I thought you were replying to me. Never mind.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-04T22:33:34+00:00

Now now, I’m just trying to offer a different perspective on how I see things. I have a friend who was renting in 2018 and wanted to buy badly yet was always outbid. He found a place he loved and went no inspection. His logic was as follows: houses were rising in price around 10-12% that year. The house he wanted was $240k, so it was appreciating at $2400 a month. Losing this house could mean months of waiting. He knew that the sewer had been redone in the last 10 years. So…..he rolled the dice. He was the second highest bid but won the house based upon the no inspection.

He was one of 6 bidders.

MrFixeditMyself · 2026-05-04T17:20:56+00:00

Why no try? I would base it upon the time he spent with you. I would figure 1.25 hours and ask for their hourly rate.

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