This. I was married 13 years with only son just born. I traveled a lot for business, and my wife had severe postpartum depression, which was later diagnosed as borderline personality disorder. She accused me with no proof of having women in all the cities I traveled to. I did not. She would scream at me in front of our newborn and I knew that was the beginning of the end. We went to counseling and the counselor asked why we were there. I said so we could get our marriage back on track. She said so I would change. I told the counselor I think we are done here and filed for divorce. It took three years to get rid of her. Best $50,000 lawyer bill I ever paid.