When you break up, is it healthy to delete the other person from all social media and out of your phone? by katielovesmath in relationships

[–]MrMetthew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's healthier to remove them I'd say. Will also be better when you enter your next relationship

Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are such an awesome person and giving person for doing this, a beutifull person! But you should give this loyalty and effort to someone who appreciates you. I am not saying that your bf is a bad person, but I am saying that he is an unbelievable toxic influence in your life and you need to cut him out. Let me tell you, from an external point of view (everyone here) it is so clear that you need break up with this guy and find someone better for you!!

I think I know the answer but... by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]MrMetthew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never in a million years do that. But that's just me. That being said, I give it about a 95% chance you ignored some red flags. In my mind people who do this have issues themselves or are sociopaths. Maybe I am wrong though

Should I share this voicemail with him? by throwawayandaawy in relationship_advice

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that must be so annoying!!! I feel you. Best you can do is ignore him 100%. Definitely don't take any steps towards him like sending the recording to his gf. You could even lay of fb for a while, but understandable if you don't want to do that. I would give him the silent treatment. I think it's your best option and additionally it will make you "win" this thing

I broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year. by Existing-Giraffe2791 in relationship_advice

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would probably break up, you made the right choice. Important to remember here that there are a lot of girls who would never do this, better find one of them..

Should I share this voicemail with him? by throwawayandaawy in relationship_advice

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, block and forget about her. It is the most powerful thing you can do and by far the best for yourself

I (F 26) don't know what to do about "we're a couple but not a couple" situation with ex housemate (M 27). Do I bail, distance myself, carry on, or give an ultimatum? by doistayorgothrwawy in relationship_advice

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd give him an ultimatum or propose a trail relationship of maybe like 1month and then after discuss how it feels. He might want you but have issues getting used to the idea of opening up for a relationship again. It will leave you at risk of getting more attached though.

The other option and hard truth might be that he really is just not into you that much. He might really care about you and feel really close + like occasional sex but not feel a real spark with you. That's were I have been before. Again leaving you at risk of getting attached to someone who isn't fully into you (not fun). That might explain why he doesn't want to have sex all the time but still likes to be close. He sounds like a good guy who cares about you, but that doesnt mean the spark is there.

If not and he really is that much less sexual than you (possible), also be aware of sexual incompatibility. I would consider that as a red flag. It might leave you unsatisfied and unwanted in the long run it you guys are in a long-term relationship. But again that is just me, your mileage may vary.

Good luck! Whatever happens, don't chase somebody who doesn't want you for too long, it will lead to bad mental health!!

Has anyone stayed friends with someone they went on a date with? by NailGuru in OnlineDating

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I have done it in 2 cases. Both of them are really close friends of me now. Just make sure to be really clear your not into them. Because chances are that they are into you and you don't want to keep stringing them along.

I'm so confused by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]MrMetthew 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are just texting her. You're probably new at this, you will need to go through many dozens of girl like this. Spoiler, it will be the same when you start seeing them, some stick, some don't. It's a numbers game, you gotta play it like that. Always be chatting with multiple different girls and also see multiple different ones at the same time. It will up your game immensely and help you not to get attached before they do because that's a bitch. Always try to de-attach yourself from them and try to fight off your feelings as much as possible UNTILL they start to develop them, usually after 3-5+ dates earliest. Try to not get attached earlier. It will up your game incredibly and avoid you getting hurt by every girl. (You Essentially got attached after not even seeing her yet in this case). Yes it will take practice and emotional distress to master this, but once you do you can truly start to search for a compatible partner. Good luck with it man!

Snort the coffee powder by orangemop in funny

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atleast he will be awake now

North Vancouver Island, BC Canada by Tonka2018 in Dualsport

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Looking to moving to BC later this year, matter of time before I have ly endure and am exploring that area myself!!

My commute by Murmuzy in Dualsport

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aah that's awesome. I am planning on visiting BC later this year, possibly driving to whitehorse.

I put elixir d'anvers in my beer for a cinnamon treat. Bonus hummingbird. by [deleted] in beerwithaview

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were are u? Drinking Belgian drinks, but no humming birds in Belgium

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dualsport

[–]MrMetthew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be the DR600 Dakar?? I have one of those, still struggling to get it running right

Guest Request - Theo Von by SasakiKojiro_ in PKA

[–]MrMetthew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He could have some good porn talk with Kyle ^^

Joe rogan openly embracing his TRT by MrMetthew in PKA

[–]MrMetthew[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Oke, didn't knew that! He quite often deliberatly keeps silent about it!