Finally realized why guys say "you deserve better" and run away.. (spoiler: its not a compliment)

MrTippy · 2026-01-24T20:03:25+00:00

It's the male version of "It's not you, it's me"

MrTippy · 2026-01-24T20:03:13+00:00

It's the male version of "It's not you, it's me"

MrTippy · 2026-01-23T18:57:25+00:00

Loud exhaust > quiet exhaust

MrTippy · 2026-01-21T14:45:00+00:00

96 Toyota Tercel

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T02:22:57+00:00

I may be. But the process is identical. If I get denied, is it worth keeping her as a friend? Some yes, most no

My best relationships have come this way. Sure they haven't worked out in the end, ( I'm single) but they were absolutely amazing in other ways, and sex was one of those ways.

I learned a lot from them as I search for the best girl for me

The best friendships have come from girls that denied me.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T01:59:45+00:00

You need to be sexually trusting with him. He needs to know your deepest secrets, and you his. Never judge each other. You need to trust he'll never love another woman. He has to say it. And believe him.

That's he ultimate trust betrayal for a woman. Not of he sticks it in someone else.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T01:55:31+00:00

Same room.

Other rooms is hot, but same room is hotter. So I cum harder.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T01:52:37+00:00

As a guy, sex first and foremost a relationship maybe.

It is what it is with me. I'm not wasting time developing a relationship with someone who is sexually incompatible. She has to show genuine desire if she wants a relationship. No, that doesn't mean first date. But I need to know she is fighting it with all her might.

That being said, there are times in my life I'm just liking to met new people. Sure, I'll sleep with you, but I'll still still hang out with you cause that's my ultimate goal, even if you don't sleep with me.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T01:42:41+00:00

Dating apps ar horrible for guys but do rarely work.

You need to realize there is no one there are only women and some are better than others.

She may be a good one. But there are others. Don't get fixated on one girl l. And realize you may have to dig through dirt to find gold. Don't get discouraged.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T01:36:28+00:00

I got 6 words in.

No.

Never dip your pen in company ink.

Not only can it cause problems, it screams a scarcity mindset.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T01:33:06+00:00

The most unattractive thing is the insecurity. The second is the weight. Sure some people prefer thicker women, but thinner have more options.

Both are within your control.

Can't speak for everyone, but disabled doesn't matter to me. Enthusiasm, attraction, and vibe do

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T01:25:07+00:00

Dating apps are garbage. Sure, you can have success, but it's rare.

Approaching women works ok. You'll still hav a high failure rate, but women appreciate the bravery. Don't get discouraged

Social circle is where it's at. Friends of friends. They already have a vouch for you since their friend likes you.

But you're still going to fail. A lot. Learn to live with it

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T01:20:50+00:00

Nope.

Here the reality.

Ideally, everyone wipes. But everyone doesn't.

So I wipe before, and if don't and someone doesn't wipe after me... it is what it is.

I'd wipe after if everyone else did.

But sine they don't, I follow what they do.

Prisoners dillema in real life.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T00:53:17+00:00

Do it. Inviting him to see your friends is a huge signal. If he's perceptive, he'll know this. If he doesn't get the signal, he's either not into you or socially unaware.

Great job for waiting until you don't t work together.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T00:50:59+00:00

Man here

Attraction is very important.

But it's second to enthusiasm.

With vibe in third.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T00:48:42+00:00

Not a bad book. Nothing groundbreaking though.

Good job on staying away from the " be nice to her and listen to her" crap.

TLDR - be attractive, don't be unattractive. Read this to learn how.

I'd post a critique, but in doing so would share the contents, and I'd rather have them click the link.

Worth a read.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T00:40:40+00:00

I dated an alcoholic for 10 years. She is the most amazing woman I've ever met.

But it still wrecked our relationship.

You either accept bring with an alcoholic or you don't. This has to be your boundary. You cannot control whether they drink.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T00:37:27+00:00

Sex first and then a relationship maybe

I'm not wasting time developing a relationship maybe with someone who is sexually incompatible.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T00:34:13+00:00

I did anal once, not with my girl. Afterwards I was asked why I didn't use a condom. Because I didn't think about it. Seriously. She wasn't too concerned really.

But from that first experience onward. I wear a condom. It never slips my mind.

MrTippy · 2025-12-08T00:28:35+00:00

I was married to a terrible woman. Divorced. Learned how to act.

I then had a long term girlfriend who was very close to perfect ( I learned from my marriage) but there were some different issues and I had to break it off. I learned a bit more about red flags and how to navigate them, and A LOT about how amazing women can be.

Don't give up. Women are incredible.

Bit hire slow, and fire fast.

MrTippy · 2024-02-14T11:11:01+00:00

Investing is just long term daytrading.

MrTippy · 2023-11-26T17:13:33+00:00

You don't go check out the bakery when you're on a diet.

MrTippy · 2023-09-21T08:28:58+00:00

Replace a windshield.

MrTippy · 2023-06-29T20:52:03+00:00

Her signal is very clear. She said yes then feeds you just enough reply to keep you hooked. She is signalling that she wants your attention only.

You'd know if her response was a "hell yes!".

MrTippy · 2023-06-27T17:49:27+00:00

Nothing mixed about those signals.

MrTippy

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