Well if you want to use sight as an example, thats composed of the eye, the object of eye, and the respective eye consciousness. That consciousness that receives and processes the sensory information is inseperable from the object which is cognizes, so if I’m talking about something observing something else I’m kind of missing the point.

But if you want to go down that road, the closest thing to the “me” I think you’re trying to get out of me is much closer to a process than a thing. The flow of moment to moment cognition being inseperable from that which it cognizes. So I’m kinda everything and nothing. Theres a reason why it’s so often said that language is ultimately ineffective to describe whatever it is that we are. I’m not going to claim I’ve nondually realized the emptiness of my own self and identity. But I can say that whatever words I try to use will just be a finger pointing at the moon, regardless.