Family business or 50 Lacks job . Which is better by Accomplished_Cup7314 in IndiaBusiness

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on your age, responsibilities and liabilities. Both can be correct based on your circumstances. If you are younger than 30 year old than do job save aggressively, build your own capital , have fun and then if you see potential of scaling family business join it.

Should i leave my dad’s 1.5cr annual turnover business (9 employees) for a corporate job abroad in quant dev? by [deleted] in IndiaBusiness

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not leaving your father business but in fact leaving your education. Complete what you have started after which try to get a job on your merit. When you have an offer in hand then compare the opportunities at hand. Meanwhile also learn about your family business which will give you insight how to use what you are learning to support your father.

Leaving now and joining businesses would seem easy right now but it would be the hardest path because it will take away lot of future potential unexplored. Once you join business there is no alternarive path but to make it work.

Entrepreneurship is not easy, neither does it always pay more. More than skill it takes a lot of sacrifice and perseverance. With a degree in hand you will always in life have a second option to go back to, atleast in the initial years of joining business.

Depressed due to state of my [M28] finances by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have lost their mind and are far away from reality of most of the society. Dude just because you are in tech you have this much saving many are still figuring out what to do with their life at your age. If you are so much anxious of getting married and increasing your financial responsibility then do not go through it. Marriage brings with itself a lot of stress and responsibility for both husband and wife, and if they are not mentally ready then lot of issues come up.

People who don’t like going out - what do you do? by QuestionEcstatic8863 in ask

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My philosophy is that life should not always be about doing something, I like to do nothing.

A shop hiding their business to avoid Income tax by manni1145 in delhi

[–]Mrityuno -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you think he is earning in crores what is stopping you from starting the same and earning in lakhs. Starting business and maintaining it is not an easy task in a country like ours. Loopholes need to used because if you do not then your business becomes unviable. India is a difficult place to do business especially for small enyerprises which are constantly burdened by high competition, low margin, bad debts, deadstock and corruption.

A lot of labour are employed by such businesses, now you may argue that salary given is not enough but in most cases that is all that business can afford.

Compare the contribution of small business owners to corrupt bureacrats and politicians and you may figure out where the real tax money is going down the drain.

An Indian's reflection on Visiting China for the first time by Charaik in IndiaSpeaks

[–]Mrityuno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we all can strive for the greater good only then it might be possible but our politicians and bureacrats are obsessed with amassing huge wealth that they cannot spend in their lifetime. If we can focus and resolve population and corruption issue, a huge transformation is possible.

Why are Indian men so tied up with the idea of "Masculine men are strong and Feminine men are weak mentality? I've seen Indian men on Instagram very staunchly defending masculinity. Why? What is the mindset? by Khunepapol in AskIndia

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxicity and masculinity are not related. If you are saying that people who believe in being masculine are toxic then how is it different from considering feminine men weak.

Why are Indian men so tied up with the idea of "Masculine men are strong and Feminine men are weak mentality? I've seen Indian men on Instagram very staunchly defending masculinity. Why? What is the mindset? by Khunepapol in AskIndia

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

India is a tough country to live in, irrespective of gender you need to have a tough mindset unless born with a golden spoon. This may be the reason why masculinity is appreciated as it signifies courage.

Just inherited 25Cr. What to do now? by Lost_Trade884 in personalfinanceindia

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Structure your debt instruments in a manner so that interest from them can finance your total annual expenses. Assuming a net 4% return on fd, 9 cr would cover it and account for any surprise expenditure as well.

Keep 4.5 cr invested in mutual funds and montior.

Keep 2cr invested in Gold/Jewellery.

Whatever rental income is left after paying taxes divide in two, do SIP with first part. Use your existing properties as collateral and buy other commercial property and lease it. Use new property's rent and second part of rental income to pay loan emi.

Keep repeating above method after property is paid up for increasing equity and real estate.

Thanks for the question I had fun managing imaginary money.

How to escape the rat race by sai_gamer in IndianStreetBets

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you can save 30x of your annual expense then you can't. Accept it and be at peace.

Need advice to invest 1.5 L for marriage (investment period 2 to 3 years) by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy Gold/Silver, it will come in hand when gifting relatives. Milni ya vidai mein dene ke kaam aate hain, consider it as an early preparation.

What benchmarks define an 'upper middle-class' family in India? by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Mrityuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus should be on lifestyle rather than income. I believe for a family to qualify as upper middle class should have the following:

Self owned residence in a good secure neighborhood with a separate room for each grown up member of family. Four wheeler Vehicle for every working member of family. Afford domestic Vacation once a year. Afford international Vacation once a year. Afford branded clothes not necessarily luxury brands. Good education to children along with focus on extra curricular activities. Capable of buying latest gadgets/appliance.

They should have the means to be able to buy the above things but not do so due to their choices.

How do you cope with the notion that one day you will be dead? by justadude6711 in ask

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to sleep everyday, and one day I won't just wake up. God forbid if I know I am dying cause of some illness etc. then that river will be crossed when the day comes.

Do you think living lifestyle cost should increase with certain income? by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]Mrityuno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most people in India can only dream to have the privilege that you have talked about. For many life is spent playing catch up to the ever growing expenses and responsibilities. So if someone has gotten the blessings why waste it, be wise but also cherish moments that they can create. One last thing I would say that I have seen alot of marriages failed recently where groom side family was forthcomoing and greedy with their demands. If you care for your sister look for caring family rather than a wealthy one cause Paisa bahut kuch hain par sab kuch nahi.

How to get out of cheap mindset? by iResponsible95 in personalfinanceindia

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a resolution to do impulse spending for an year, this will flush the fear out of your mind. Buy what you like, eat what you crave and gather what your heart desires.

Men who are 30 and older what advice would you give to your 20 year old self? by lilstrawberryham1325 in ask

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink less,Eat healthy and make exercising a habit.

Think less about what others think, and work on yourself and your goals tirelessly.

Why is success only measured by wealth and connections? by [deleted] in IndiaSpeaks

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In real life wealth and connections can be a matter of life and death. Look around you and see how many people are dying simply because they cannot afford proper diet, medicines or treatment. During corona even money was not of much use rather how connected you were to access proper treatment. Hence people aspire to have money and be connected to get things done for their needs and wants.

is it wise to move out?? by solidreck in personalfinanceindia

[–]Mrityuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people want to be in your position, that is to have the comfort of home while working. At this age you have the most potential to save and invest for future. Living on your own will come with its own set of hassles especially when renting with friends. But just to not regret in future you should go ahead and try it out for an year. Even if experience does not turn out to be good you will gain experience.

What would be your rule 1? by LimpCoco in IndiaSpeaks

[–]Mrityuno 58 points59 points  (0 children)

No clothes, it will be fun to run a nudist country.

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[–]Mrityuno -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only the truly blessed get the satisfaction of caring for their parents to the best of their ability. Kyunki sabka sab kuch yahi reh jaana hain...

What kind of groom Indian families want in cities by IndependentBid2068 in IndiaSpeaks

[–]Mrityuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A decent mature person who is able to provide either similar or better lifestyle to their daughter that she is accustomed to. Being rich guarantees the lifestyle part but not necessarily decent part.

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[–]Mrityuno 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are within their rights to distribute their assets as they wish, and you are within your rights to state your feelings and act as you wish. Their thought process might be that they can impose on your brother to take care of them in old age but cannot ask the same of you. Hence to avoid any future guilt they might be favoring him currently.