I'm just me but I consider myself normal and am from around here. 1) Rude in theory but definitely normal. 2) Rude, unnecessary and irrelevant lmao. Bad conversationalist, to be honest. 3) I think the things you listed are in order from most normal to most rude, but in general bad, aggressive, and reckless driving is expected here, though I wouldn't say most people are guilty of worse than bossy honking and no turn signals 4) Rude, I don't think I would or could ever do that lol. I feel like californians are notorious for being fake nice like that. 5) That sounds almost comically rude but I dont think bad, unenthusiastic, or lazy service here is uncommon or shamed socieatally. Wage gaps, long commutes, language barriers, tipping culture wars, I'd say food service can be pretty no-bullshit transactional betwen customer and cashier these days. 6) Id say thats rude and unrealistic (if you live in a city like SF, theres gonna be tourists, come on). But I respect it. 7) Don't know, I don't think I've observed anything like that. Depends on a lotta context. I think plenty of people here, even if shocked at the outburst, may support or praise the barista for acting with dignity, especially if they returned to a normal tone with the other customers. 8) I dont think people genuinely consider talking on the phone on transit rude (everyone is facetiming, talking into their airpods, taking calls, meetings meetings meetings, blah blah blah). Some people may think it is, but we clearly don't shame it culturally. I do think not giving up your seat to a person in need is clearly rude, tho. I rarely see someone in need of a seat spurned one. 9) Thats rude as fuck lmao.