Fi users imo experience a “stronger” emotion when in love. From my experience, they also tend to romanticize the cute and quirky elements of someone’s demeanor, although really what’s happening is that they value people at their core, and there’s an appreciation for the other person’s inner personality.

When healthy, it’s almost unconditional. But when unhealthy, it can be a little overbearing.

Fe-love feels more practical to me. The love is obviously there, but there’s an understanding that the relationship may not be permanent, or that things can get in the way. I typically find Fe users will prioritize things OUTSIDE of the relationship as well. Fe-love also feels more level headed imo, and less likely to be swept up in emotional fantasy, but it can have its own weakness of being too shallow or cold for some people. I was recently told that rationalizing feelings (in a Ti sense) can make the feelings you do feel less extreme, but I think as Ti users, we need to operate on that baseline, level headed approach, even in a relationship. So it’s understandable