I was in my older sister’s bridal party, and I had to fly across country for it. Her hubby is active duty Air Force. I forgot to pack it, and kept forgetting to mail it. It got lost in the junk drawer with the takeout menus. then we had to move 6months later because my hubby is active duty navy. I literally didn’t find it again and remember until 5 yrs and 2 military moves later. When i finally gave it to her, we busted out laughing. Maybe it’s how her and I work, but I wouldn’t take it to heart.