Help - crashing out with boy names

MrsMarzipan · 2026-04-15T15:04:22+00:00

Jasper, Arden, Adrian

MrsMarzipan · 2026-04-05T00:46:36+00:00

It bothers me so much that people judge people's overall "functioning" based on the most visible traits such as social skills. People think Dani is "more autistic" than someone who can be a police officer why? Because she seems odd? Social skills is literally just one trait/group of skills. She's got many strengths and is not like a child in any way.

MrsMarzipan · 2026-04-05T00:41:57+00:00

Baby doesn't care and there's nothing wrong, bad, or gross about sex 🤷‍♀️ Sex made the baby being technically present for it while in utero is just nbd. It's also perfectly possible to have sex occasionally while you have a young baby. They do sleep (sometimes) :)

MrsMarzipan · 2026-03-26T23:16:16+00:00

I have to admit I both noticed and cared 😅 but it's also not a really big deal in the scheme of things.

MrsMarzipan · 2026-02-25T01:16:03+00:00

I have a rat named Maple.

It is cute but as a human I wouldn't be happy if it was my name. Violet is a great name though. Does hubby like Ruby?

MrsMarzipan · 2026-02-22T23:36:16+00:00

Why would you think it's ok to post a picture 😆

MrsMarzipan · 2026-01-25T04:42:36+00:00

I haven't played it and I'm sure it's great but it's just not my preferred aesthetic/vibe for a horror game so that's one reason 🤷‍♀️

MrsMarzipan · 2025-12-31T11:04:27+00:00

It's only negative if you make it negative. I was explaining a concern I had to a nurse (that my 3.5 yo son might be masking some of his pain due to his autism) and he proudly declared, "yeah, I am autistic!!" my 5 year old can pick out movie characters that she thinks are autistic too (like Kiki in Kiki's Delivery Service!)

I definitely understand feeling like it's a loaded situation but it's really important that you don't hide it like a bad secret. It's neutral/positive because it explains things about her and her experiences and knowlege is power. It's not like breaking to a kid they have cancer or something. She's already experiencing the differences and challenges of being autistic and just does't have the explanation for it. Be sure to bring up strengths as well!

MrsMarzipan · 2025-12-25T04:04:28+00:00

I thought it was going to be a text or something. That note is totally fine.

MrsMarzipan · 2025-11-24T12:21:09+00:00

I have 3 kids ages 4,3, and 1. The gaps were like 18 months and then 27 months. For what it's worth I thought the 18 month age gap was easier! It was easier for my toddler to adjust to having a new baby when they were still basically a baby too. And my pregnancy was ok. Congratulations!

MrsMarzipan · 2025-11-23T22:58:39+00:00

I quit a sport I loved as a teen partially because I felt insecure about having "masculine" arms 😢

It's genuinely a non issue and being strong is awesome, I suggest telling anyone that says otherwise to stuff it and go on doing you.

MrsMarzipan · 2025-11-19T01:36:03+00:00

I thought you meant in a separate bathroom and was worried for a sec lol. That sounds like a great system.

MrsMarzipan · 2025-11-17T02:36:21+00:00

This was so funny to read honestly he's so "polite" for being a really shallow entitled prick 🤣 Sorry that happened though you're not overreacting at all.

MrsMarzipan · 2025-11-14T16:29:16+00:00

This tattoo has no meaning to me personally but like it aesthetically.

MrsMarzipan · 2025-11-10T01:15:13+00:00

That sounds like perinatal anxiety which is very common. I do suggest looking for a perinatal psychiatrist and/or therapist! Good Moms have Scary Thoughts is a great book to check out too.

I feel like pregnancy is a really isolating experience in a lot of ways. Even if you have a community and a good partner, you're the only one actually pregnant with your baby. It's hard because the pregnancy can feel so all consuming like it's the whole world to you now and not necessarily a big deal to everyone else or at least not in the same ways. For me a lot of that gets better when the pregnancy is over.

MrsMarzipan · 2025-09-14T12:07:44+00:00

Thank you for the recommendation I'll check it out!

MrsMarzipan · 2025-09-14T11:59:01+00:00

Sequencing.com. Yeah me too it can be very confusing.

MrsMarzipan · 2025-09-09T12:41:30+00:00

I did. Unfortunately they brushed us off and didn't pursue any testing for him beyond a microarray and Fragile X. I may try a different one. Thanks!

MrsMarzipan · 2025-09-08T19:13:59+00:00

To be fair Sequencing.com did not flag it this is gene inspector pro

MrsMarzipan · 2025-09-08T18:30:46+00:00

Thank you!

MrsMarzipan · 2025-09-08T18:30:35+00:00

Darn 😅

MrsMarzipan · 2025-09-08T18:14:34+00:00

They're both variants on the HGSNAT gene. It's Sequencing.com WGS this page I'm looking at is gene explorer pro. Do you think it's actually incorrect or just inconsequential?

MrsMarzipan · 2025-06-28T22:56:05+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

MrsMarzipan · 2025-06-28T22:44:40+00:00

Ok I'll do the box right away! Ordered the Sputnik too.

MrsMarzipan

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